One Thing Girls Chase is Lacking

[Mystique]

Hey everyone,
I must say GC is still the best out there. It's got a ton of stuff on everything you need to know about women and socialising.
I'll divide the materials on GC into 4 categories: pick up, relationships, social dynamics and sex.
There are lots of materials for the first three, but very few posts on sex. I kinda wonder why. It'll be awesome if there are more articles on sex. It'll be nice to have articles on probably:
How to fuck in public (positions and stuff)
How to do a 69
How to recover from cumming quick the first round to going another round if she gets pissed off and wants to leave
The best way to fuck her the first time (should you go kinky or just make her orgasm) and the consequences, depending on the kinda girl
How to not break the sexual spell while going for a condom
How to perform in bed when having a threesome (the best positions and how to pull them off)
How to fuck a tall girl vs how to fuck a short girl
How to finger a girl till she cums
How to make her squirt
The several types of female orgasms and how to pull them off
These are the questions that I could think of off the top of my head. Some of them I have the answers to, some I don't. But the point is, no one is talking about them. The posts on sex and sexual techniques are very few and old.
This should be taken as a constructive criticism. I still love you guys, the GC team. You're the best

 

[NealIRC]

Hey I'll add.

I think GirlsChase is missing articles on what happens when you "over-attract" women. And if so, what could be done about that.

As well as theoretical situations on what happens if you don't ask a girl out but you keep on attracting her.

Heh.

Edit: as well as what happens when a girl has feelings for you, but you try to get in her friendzone.

 

[Franco]

Mystique,

I think these are all great ideas, and I'd certainly appreciate seeing GC articles about them.

I will say that I believe that we don't see articles too frequently on multiple sexual techniques simply because it's less important than everything else. When it comes to women, there are mainly 3 important things: (1) learning to seduce them and get them into bed to have sex with you (2) learning how to make them cum, and (3) converting them into relationships and then managing them in relationships.

All of these articles would probably fall mostly under point (2). However, once you've learned how to make a girl cum, anything else you do in the bedroom is mostly for your own personal pleasure, and it isn't necessarily a required tactic or technique to learn to be good with women. I get the feeling that most guys here just want to know how to make a girl orgasm consistently (which is important), but beyond that, guys are still more concerned with their ability to seduce and sleep with women and/or convert them into and manage them in longer-term relationships.

I'd certainly support more sex articles though. If any of the writers happen to swing by this thread, maybe it'll inspire them to write one or two.

- Franco

 

[Chase]

Good suggestions, Mystique and Neal.

Some of the sex ones we've had in the article queue for years (like how to finger her and how to make her squirt) and simply haven't written yet. I have for years periodically said to myself, "I should write that 'how to finger' article," then said, "Nah... not in the mood." Sometimes after people ask about an article the mood strikes me though. So let's see. (my writing is mood-based, otherwise it would take me 4x as long to write an article... and the article would be an uninspired slog for readers)

The condom one we've talked about on the Boards. But probably we could do an article on that sooner or later. 69... doesn't everyone know how to do this? Just lie on your back, let her climb on top, and you eat her out while she sucks you off! Only challenge is to get her to keep sucking even as she cums... not sure there's a good solution for that other than "don't get her too excited until you've finished" or "let her finish you after you've finished her."

My usual advice on the first time is "don't make it too kinky if you want to see the girl again." You can get into kink after you've met a few times. Although if it's a one-night stand, you can kink your heart out and never have to worry about her deciding you're far too much a playboy for her to pursue anything with.

Over-attracted women will auto-reject if you do not hit their escalation windows. We could probably write something separate on this, but it would mostly come down to bringing her back from a too-high emotional crest:

Emotional Cresting: What It Is and How to Use It

If you continue to attract women over time without asking them out, the attraction can burn out. But it may also continue on a simmer. Sometimes people do have years-long flirtations where they eventually get together someday. Or they never get together. I've had years-long flirtations with female friends in the past I never acted on for various reasons, for instance (my experience is that once a woman's gone to bed with me, she becomes obsessed with me very quickly. So sex tends to ruin my friendships).

Chase