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Tool-Bearing Hominid
Tool-Bearing Hominid
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Hey fellas, l want to talk about something that most of us know, some know and can't help themselves and some don't even know at all.l have been having intermitent success with girls going on several dates and getting 2 lays and multiple pulls that have led to near misses and heavy make outs. the one thing all these success have had in common is the fact that l was at that moment not wasting testesrone on a dirty shirt in my room.
l can hold back from yanking the old weener for like a week but then slip and do a serial wanking for 3 days then come back to my senses and feel disgusted with my self. l would then quit porn for another week before finding myself in the same situation.
Now for the past 2 weeks l have been able to avoid the temptations l normally have. some of you might think two weeks is still too early to have an overall true result. but if l do slip, l will imediately post it here (hopefully this will help keep in accountable). the result of this drastic change is a simple method my subconcious threw at me one fine day after a serious period of binging on porn.

Simply, the method is the very well known IMAGINATION. l have been using imagination in my life for all the wrong reasons, to escape to an imaginary world in my head. but now l have found two very useful ways of utilising it to a more useful way:
1. To avoid the feeling of extreme hornyness that always made me fall for pornography and wanking
2. To manage and potray my fundamentals.

How l avoid Wanking
this is actually very simple, l dont know which book l read that had this character who shared her mind with similarly talented individuals, unfortunately they tended to make her life very difficult so she decided to create a garden to contain them and apease them to leave her dreams alone. she even made a box into whc she imagined her mothers painful memories inside. this is exactly what l do. NOw dont laugh coz of the example l use, it has been useful to me.

This is my imagination.
l access my brain by going inside the Professors from Xmens giant machine, l remember what its called. l then float within it and siff through my memories and current emotions and recollections. l thien siphon off all the memories and thoughts that are currently making me feel so horny and giving me the desire to masturbate, l then open a huge chest l happen to have around nearby and store all these thoughts and memories of pornography into it and lock it up. l then take this box to a lake l used to meditate next to. l then sink this box ddep down the sea to make sure l cant access these memories.

the funny thing about this mehtod is that l immediately feel a dulling in my desire to break my own rules and play with myself, and l can thereby make a decision that is not influenced by my dick.

This method has helped my testerone boost and thus l have been able to approach girls almost every where l head.

Am very sleepy so l wont go into the second quite since its not whatl was posting about. Kindly feel free to ask or comment as you deem freely
 
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Smith

Tool-Bearing Hominid
Tool-Bearing Hominid
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I have heard various opinions on whether masturbating from porn is good for you or not. Tyler from RSD admits that he likes wanking and do it now and then, and he doesn't feel guilty. Whereas there are some other PUAs/seducers, such as sasha and James marshal, who prefer not to do it because it drains your energy and motivation to meet women and most importantly your ability in bed.

Sometimes I'll fall back to porn only if I don't go out to meet girls for days, otherwise at the end of the day, I'm too tired to do it. But I don't feel guilty if I do it, people need release now and then. As long as it's not obsessive, then it could be consider healthy. (Research actually shows masturbation decrease your risk of prostate cancer because it cleans the pipe)
If you lift weights, it's a good way to boost your testosterone, and compensate for a drop in testosterone if you wank.

Your imagination technique is actually quite interesting. I have heard psychiatrists that use this kinda technique to treat people who survived the holocaust. They simply told these people to lock the memories away because it's too painful. but in your case, it's porn lol

It's also important not to beat yourself up if you can't resist to wank. It's a natural thing to do. The more you beat yourself up, the more likely you're gonna do it again.
 
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