One Way Trip from Hell to Mastery --- Davo

[Davo]

Hello All, Pleasure to be here and and to at last make the commitment to become a Master of the game. I'm burning the ships behind me and will plow through whatever rejection, embarrassment, and obstacles I must because I absolutely have to get this area of my life handled. It's been a gaping hole in what is otherwise now an extremely productive and disciplined life. I work out, I eat great, I go hard in my career and in my education, I am passionate about many things and am well-versed in many fields---- but I have neglected the world of women for very long and even developed a porn addiction as a result of the hole. Although I have taken incredible women to bed in the past, women that I would describe as 10s, it has been only periodically as a result of my lack of commitment and action.

So I'm being pushed by both the carrot and the stick. The carrot is beautiful women with great personalities. The stick is porn urges that inevitably show up when I've made no attempt to meet women and have sex for too long.

I've read every single article on GC and it has already done so much for my life. I've been dedicated to nailing the fundamentals down and it has made an awesome difference in every area of my life. Even though I've taken like 6 women to bed in my life the more recent ones have all seen me as some kind of incredibly desirable player and I attribute this to the airtight fundamentals and of COURSE all the other knowledge I've gained from the incredible GC website---what a lifechanger. Huge thank you to Chase Amante for making it all happen and every single other contributor to this enterprise who also put out amazing articles and perspectives.

I'm working out of Los Angeles and I plan to conquer the city entirely before I leave it (women terms, I haven't built an army to wipe out the LAPD...yet ).

GOALS (I believe in setting goals based on potential, not current ability. So they are extremely ambitious but I will do whatever it takes to accomplish them).

Short - Term Goals
-No porn or even masturbation anymore. I want to keep that energy and tension inside me for motivation. All sexual release comes from real women.

-University starts again in 7 months. I want to have taken 100 women to bed before then so I can be ready to meet women at school and have high closing ratios.

I calculate that if I'm going to take 100 women to bed in 7 months, that's about 18 women to bed each month, about 5 girls to bed every week. Using a ratio of 1 girl closed out of every 10 girls met, (and this should be quite a conservative estimate) that means I will have to walk up and say hi to 50 girls each week, so at least 8 girls approached every day. I shall report here at the end of every day with the results.


Long-Term Goals
-By the time I'm finished with school in 2 years, I want to be so fucking good that seducing women has become an autopilot skill. I no longer need to dedicate massive amounts of time to it, I no longer need to approach massive amounts of women, I no longer need to expend so much mental energy figuring things out. I know with confidence that I can go out on any given day and bring women home. Sex and beautiful, dynamic women are in abundance. In other words, in two years time I want to have reached Mastery. To get some concrete numbers, let's say 400 lays. Coming from that background of abundance, I'll consider myself ready to start a happy relationship where I remain the dominant partner and don't engage in any kind of needy behavior. And of course I can only imagine the massive confidence that sort of success will bring me. Incredible.

The only enemies on this path are the same enemies that stop any human in any great endeavor. Fear of rejection, fear of failure, fear of embarrassment, fear fear fear. Even as I write this post and set these goals they are showing up in my mind. But if I can get them to wake up and get scared just writing a forum post, then they know that I'm being fucking serious here and that makes me smile.

To counter these enemies
- I will act immediately. See a beautiful woman? Take a deep breath and go say hi. Remain in the present moment and out of my head.
- Immerse myself in the community and its knowledge base to know exactly what to do in any situation.
- Discipline and Continued Progress in every other area of my life to stay sold on myself and my value.
- Affirmations and visualization.

So here we go. The goals and targets have been set, calculations made, the strategy and the tactics have both been worked out. Let us begin the campaign. My highest goal is to have this journal one day be an inspiration to people starting from the bottom. Trust me when I say that I've been there. Entire days wasted away watching porn, playing World of Warcraft, no friends, straight loser, been there done that. But I've gotten just a taste so far of what it feels like to win, and I can never go back. This is my trip from Hell to Mastery.

-Davo

 

[Davo]

Awesome day today. I kept fully busy exploring my new city, must have visited like 10 venues today. The campaign map is becoming clear!

One mall in particular I visited was a jackpot. Many ghetto ass people over there unfortunately, and there has been stabbings there. But meh, the things I do for women. Really...it's the things I'm willing to do for myself.

Trader Joes and Whole Foods are also great spots, and both pretty close. The awesome part about my city is all the action is so close together and all on one street! Extremely simple and convenient.

Tomorrow I will explore two piers and the coffee shops. I made a mistake today of spending too much time doing work at home. Why not at coffee shops? So tomorrow I'm going to check out the closest ones and see which ones would be ideal for this game. After these latest explorations, I may consider venturing a bit out of town closer to densely populated downtown LA. But is it worth it considering there may be girls there who may live too far away to make it logistically possible? We'll see!

Once I have all these locations worked out, I'm going to craft a schedule, or probably a rotation, that includes all the best spots at all the best times.

I also did manage to get a number today from a cougar. Girl is in her 40's, bangin body, used to be a stripper and I wasn't surprised lol. When I sent a follow-up text she not only responded warmly but sent a picture as well. I would call that all but closed lol! I'll move that forward this week and report back on it.

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The excuse generator got in the way of even more awesome results. I read somewhere that a good idea to eliminate the irrational fears that show up is to write them all down and then give a reason why it's BS, so I'm going to include that as part of the journal as well.

"It's a mall bro. She'll think I'm some kind of player who does this all the time." If she thinks that or says that, then she may not believe she has enough value to be approached for HER which would imply some self-esteem issues. That would be her screening herself out. In any case, I'd rather come off as a player than not take action at all. Worthless player impression is bad but being a little bitch is the worst.

"She's with a friend." Well, I can understand how that would make her a bit more restrained. But then I've met girls who were able to totally escalate interactions right in front of their friends like they didn't even exist. So not all girls give a shit. Even if she does give a shit that her friend is there, and she blows me out and uses me as a social value boost....well that sucks but I can handle it to find the girls who aren't like that.

"There's little kids/parents in the group." Okay. She'll likely be restrained. Maybe even throw me into Boyfriend territory right off the bat. Worst case scenario blow me out and use me as social value boost. All of these situations suck, but not taking action at all guarantees failure. So -- what's better. 10% success chance or 0? Besides moms often get wide eyes and a beautiful smile when their daughters get hit on by Mr. Confident and Charming. It'll be fun.

"It's too fast. I just saw her. She'll think I'm on the hunt here." She might. And it is pretty fast. She might also think that I'm an incredibly sharp mother fucker who stays on his toes, has absolutely no fear, and takes the plunge immediately like a true man would.

"She's going to be a bitch and give me the "creep" look and scoff as she blows me out." This scenario pops in my head a lot because its happened to me quite a bit. When I first started cold approaching girls I got this a LOT because at first I came off like a total needy nice guy, and then I swung to the other side of the spectrum and started coming off like a total player, or like I didn't give a shit about the girl. I guess all those bad reactions made an impression on me and now whenever I contemplate taking an action I have to deal with that image. But these days it's so rare. If I've given the woman any kind of positive consideration and demonstrate kindness from a place of strength this reaction almost never happens. But even if it does happen. I can save girls who want nothing to do with me anyways 10 seconds by not approaching at all, or I can approach anyways for the chance that she'll be a cool and receptive girl who wants to talk and would flash a smile immediately at my approach. Which demographic am I trying to please here?
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Hmmm....I like that. As I was writing those I really felt some resistance being broken there. We will see how well it works in the field tomorrow!

I just finished a DETOX program as well that was taking something like 4 hours a day from me. I can now redirect most of that time to the MISSION!

So tomorrow -- explore 2 piers, coffee shops, a mall in an outside city. Approach 13 girls at least. Do all work at a coffee shop, grab all meals at Whole Foods, and comb all the hot spots throughout the day for opportunities.

I'm going to start a counter as well to get an increased sense of urgency here. 193 days until it's back to school time, and I have to be ready to PLAY by then.

Awesome, Awesome, AWESOME.

 

[Davo]

27 views. Thank you to all who have stopped by here. Knowing that you are now watching my progress gives me fuel when I'm out in the field. It's not just a duty to myself anymore, but a duty to you all because the success of one inspires success in others!

Work caught up with me today, but it was still quite a productive day on the mission. I'm finished exploring my city. We have two malls, both gold mines. One huge Whole Foods, gold mine. A little coffee shop where all the seats are crammed together --- totally ideal for "chance" conversations. And finally, one of the two piers nearby is GREAT. So a schedule is starting to form here. I kick the morning off in the coffee shop where I can build some easy momentum and (maybe) get some work done. Go to Whole Foods, talk to every chick on the way while I'm grabbing some good food. Then I hit up the Pier -- mass approach like a man who's been in jail for 10 years. Do the same at Mall #1, then Mall #2, and return triumphant.

What's awesome on top of this mission is that I haven't had any urges to watch porn, which is a sign to me that my energy is being utilized enough to make the outlet unnecessary. So not only am I taking action to bed real women now, but every day that goes by my body and mind heals more from all the damage watching porn, and I have no doubt I'll see massive improvements in my game just from that alone. At this point, I'm approaching women but I don't even feel the attraction for them, I've been training myself to be attracted only to girls on a computer screen. Just wait until I actually want to bone these women that I'm approaching! LMFAO!!

All the groundwork has been laid. Those of you who want to start seeing some massive field action...you'll get it tomorrow.

 

[Davo]

Haha my friends, I went out with great intentions, stopped by a suit store and was absolutely waylayed by an extremely competent salesman. The man is an inspiration to all closers. I ended up spending the rest of the day looking at suits and spend upwards of $1500. A long-term investment in my career I'm calling it.

I feel fucking amazing. A new man in fact. I feel my resistance to approaching practically gone and I am once again sold on myself and my value. I'm doing so much shit every day to give me momentum in my life. I will report here tomorrow with FIELD REPORTS.

Yours,
Davo

 

[ray_zorse]

Good job brother. I suggest reading and internalizing the following advice:
http://www.sashapua.com/how-to-defeat-approach-anxiety-forever/
If u need any help just ask. It's great to hear you're getting out and approaching.
-Ray

 

[Davo]

Hey bro! I appreciate the link, thank you! Very good stuff. It's true, I've been setting specific times for approach instead of seeing it as just something I do at all times. I will remember that.

I've been MIA for the past few days because honestly fear has been getting the best of me, and I didn't even want to show up here until I had some solid results. The embarrassment is too much lol. Some of the most down moments ever in my recent life history when I return home after 4 hours of walking past hot girls saying nothing, totally defeated, feeling like a coward, bla bla I'm sure many of you know the drill lol. But by creating this thread I have made a promise that I will persist until mastery, so you all have my word that I will continue to go out every single day to achieve my goals and keep showing up until this fear has been conquered. The targets I set at the outset of this thread will never be changed. Post again soon!

Yours,
Davo

 

[Davo]

Great news my friends. It took about 10 days of walking past hot girls, but the frustration had grown enough to push me to finally conquer the fear.

4 approaches. Could've done more, should've done more, but it's a great start considering we are talking day game, busy girls, no social context.

Approach 1

I go in smiling like a fool. I definitely come off needy but hey...that's to be expected on my first cold approach after 10 days of cowardice.

"I have a boyfriend" and she walks away.

Approach 2

This time I'm not smiling naturally, but I try to force it and it's clear to her that it is a forced smile, so it doesn't go down well.

She stops, looks at me like "wtf are you doing stopping me out of nowhere". I don't know wtf to say, so I'm just staring at her, and she is staring at me, and I'm just happy to have done it so I walk away. In the future however, I'm going to remain in that moment of tension.

Approach 3

I stick my hand out in front of her, she keeps walking.

Approach 4

I say hello and stick my hand out in front of her, she keeps walking.

So two blowouts, 1 rejection, and 1 that probably could've gone somewhere but I must stay in the tension.

I can't say how happy I feel to have finally taken the leap guys. It would've been great to run into one of the good leads, the girls that are really excited to meet me, get some early success, but at the same time it's important to get the rejection and challenge. I knew I wouldn't just reenter the sexual marketplace and have girls immediately recognize my amazing value and jump into my bed. There's going to be lots of resistance I'll have to push through and I'm prepared for that!

So two things I'm going to work on today based on yesterday's approaches.

#1 -- Probably better not to even attempt to smile if I just don't feel it. For now, I'll go in with a blank expression. Better to risk aloofness than mr. needy nice guy.

#2 -- Remain in the tension that develops when I have nothing to say and she's not contributing. Make a rule that only the woman can close the interaction. I must remain there no matter what.

It's great to finally be on the field guys. After my approaches, even though they went shitty, I felt and acted like a champion for the rest of the day because I knew I had acted as a man should, with courage. It took a while, but I still have 183 days left to accomplish my initial goals. I look forward to hitting the marketplace again today!

--Davo

P.S. Also, the other part of the mission is going amazing. Historically, 8 days without porn was the moment where my willpower would collapse and I'd be back to fapping to the screen. I'm extremely happy to say that now it's been 14 days and I'm still going strong. Urges have come and gone but I've redirected myself successfully. I can only assume that my mind is drawing additional power and fuel from the mission I'm on and the fact that I am actually taking action!! I am also vividly imagining sex with all the women I see out and about and yesterday I was actually able to get like half-hard just by doing that, so my attraction to real women is coming back as well! The momentum continues to build.

 

[Davo]

HUGE fucking progress today.

Let's see...I gotta go in the depths of my memory to pull up the approaches. There were about 5 of them today. Fear of rejection and failure has definitely been conquered, but fear of embarrassment still remains. What's keeping me from approaching 50 women is the fact that in most scenarios there are lots of bystanders, and I'm only going for the women that are more isolated because I don't want an audience. This is obviously the next thing that needs to be conquered in order to bump my activity level up and really start taking the game to the next level!

Without further ado

Approach 1

I go in cool and confident...but mind is still racing with the unknowns. This girl hits me with a line I wasn't expecting.

"Is this a social experiment?" She's acting suspicious as if she is being played for some kind of human mating psychology class or something lmfao. I should've just said no but I tried to joke with it and she took the joke seriously and bounced out. Lesson learned --- just shut down this line of thought immediately and be genuine. Gotta let the girl know this is between me and her and it's forreal.

Approach 2

This one was very interesting, and I'm kicking myself a little bit over it still. Blonde bombshell of a woman. I go in cool and confident. (By the way my demeanor in these approaches is a night and day, huge advance from yesterday's approaches, was amazing). I ask her where she is going, she responds saying that she "Is on her way to dinner with her boyfriend." At this point my noob mind is thinking it's over and I begin preparing for an exit. BUT...it is ONLY when she notices this that SHE actually exits. A sexual connection was there and it was entirely possible for me to seduce her if I just ignored the boyfriend line and kept pushing. Lesson learned. I'm not even going to talk about BF if it becomes evident that one exists. I'll let her decide with her feet whether she wants to proceed or not, and I will continue to my duty as a man and seduce.

Approach 3

This was an international student, Middle Eastern chick. From the very beginning, it was TOO comfortable. No awkwardness, no tension. Simply no sexual connection existed. Still, I made conversation for the momentum and went for a quick close just for the practice. The closing words came out quickly, displaying a little bit of nervousness on my part during that crucial moment. She rejected the phone number close, but in all honesty I wasn't too excited about it one way or the other. Some of the girls out there there's just no spark.

Approach 4

This one also taught a valuable lesson. I walk up to the woman, introduce myself. She says she needs to go....BUT SHE'S STANDING STILL. She only leaves when I acknowledge her words and say "okay". But had I asked her for just two minutes of her time (which obviously would've turned into more than 2 minutes), I could have eased her fears of a long-winded interaction and at the same time provided us with a chance. Big lesson learned here.

Approach 5

Ah, and the last one was the best one, right on my way out of the venue and to my car. An Asian chick. I walk up and introduce myself and immediately it is clear that there is SEXUAL TENSION LIKE FUCKING CRAZY. SPARKS FLYING. We never even let go from the initial handshake. There we were standing and talking for like 10 minutes and our hands were still holding onto each other the entire time and it became like the elephant in the room pretty soon. She was getting embarrassed that we seemed to be moving quickly, began to ask lots of questions and act jumpy but I knew that she was just also feeling nervous under the tension just as much as I was. I knew that this chick and I could go places, and sure enough I got the number. Unfortunately, I made several mistakes here as well and time will tell if it was too many mistakes. Mistake 1 -- Laughing too damn much. I was even less comfortable with the tension than she was. Natural for a guy who's been out of the game for soo long, and I expect this to naturally get better as I do this more and more. Mistake 2 -- Spilling the beans. I spilled the beans on pretty much everything. My attraction for her, my job, bla bla. I realize now that I think back on it that I was really just trying to ease the massive amount of tension present. Will keep my mouth shut and be vague next time. Mistake 3 -- I should've capitalized on the tension, moved closer to her, start caressing her hand and really dial up the connection and sparks. Instead, we remained at a rather uncomfortable distance apart. Mistake 4 -- I might have even been able to go for the BIG close here instead of just a number. My car was right nearby, it's an SUV...we could've totally done it, sealed the deal, and boom I would have had a dedicated customer now.

Solution 1 -- Approach more to get more comfortable with tension. Try as hard as possible to hold laughter back.

Solution 2 -- Keep mouth shut, and create vague responses. Job? Secret. Can't say. You could be a spy. Why did I approach you? I was curious. About what? *Smile*, change subject.

Solution 3 -- Always be escalating vibe. Persist in getting close to her, and go for her hand to create that mutual moment of connection.

Solution 4 -- Number close is a secondary option. Primary option is always "Come with me."

In addition,

-- Persist in getting girl to chat by saying "just a few minutes. Come on."

-- Ignore any comments about boyfriend and simply continue the process.

-- Stop trying to have a cool and smooth joke ready for everything. Sometimes it works, right now its backfiring a lot. Shut up and be genuine. "Is this a social experiment?" No. This is between you and me.

-- MOST OF ALL!!!! Begin to approach women no matter WHO is around. See it as an opportunity to demonstrate confidence and determination to the world, instead of just one woman.

Lots of things learned! Lots of progress made! Perhaps the most amazing thing of all is there has been a total mindset shift for me. Just a couple days ago I was actually AFRAID IN ADVANCE/DISAPPOINTED when a woman was crossing my path because I knew it would be another missed opportunity, another cowardly choice, a further weakening of morale. How fucking PATHETIC man. And now it's incredible. In my head I'm like "WHERE THE FUCK ARE THE WOMEN! YOU! COME HERE! DON'T MAKE ME CHASE YOU BITCH!!" hahahahaha. I'm becoming extremely calm during the opening and in the interaction, it's just a simple matter of making that slight mental push of getting in front of the woman's path, but my feelings about the entire opening process have shifted entirely and now I am much more comfortable and excited about it. Absolutely beautiful.

Lots of love in my heart because at last I am behaving like a true man, with courage and vitality.

Write again soon my friends,

Davo

 

[Davo]

I approached about 12 girls today --- no results. By facing this fear I have definitely become stronger, but today made me realize how the primary battle is with the damage that watching porn has done. I'm experiencing crazy ass mood swings -- 16 days without porn now -- as well as crazy libido swings. I felt absolutely no attraction for women today when I was out there, complete apathy. I was totally just going through the motions of the seduction, even with very hot women with amazing bodies I didn't care to fuck at all, I'm just missing the fire. I experienced a Herculean struggle with porn urges last night in bed but thankfully I prevailed. Nevertheless, I will continue to approach women with the primary objectives of conquering fear, increasing strength to resist porn urges, boosting confidence, and continuing to master the style of game I'm employing. CAN'T WAIT FOR MY BRAIN TO HEAL AND MY LIBIDO TO RECOVER!! lol. But so proud of the progress I have made. Write again soon.

Davo

 

[ray_zorse]

Solid approaching bro. Props.
Ray

 

[Davo]

Thank you my friend! I set myself back the past couple days watching porn, but I sat down and figured out how it happened, how I could prevent it, and immediately recommit myself to my goals. I've read at length about what successful people go through to get where they are and I expected to experience plenty of failure, setbacks, and rejection on this path and they may slow me down but they'll never derail me.

BTW, I know this isn't quite the community to talk about porn addiction and rebooting your brain, (there's another entire community out there for that) but it's so intricately connected to my seduction mastery progress that I can't help but discuss it here as well. I know there are many of you here who see no issue with porn, and indeed, many people seem to be able to just open up a video, get it over with quickly, and it doesn't impact their lives very much. But like anything in life that gives you pleasure, some people can consume in moderation, some people go overboard, and I definitely went overboard. So if you see me talking about it and you're like "wtf is the big deal about porn lol" just know I'm not here to preach or convince anyone about eliminating porn from your life. It's just something I must do personally.

More field reports coming soon!

 

[ray_zorse]

Actually I don't think your assumptions are correct re the porn, I would say many, in fact most, of the guys here are recovered / recovering porn addicts, some like me are pretty open about it, I have been porn free since last June & am loving it. I def can personally attest that high speed internet porn ruins your sex life, I am 39 and as a teenager I used to masturbate to a couple of playboys that I would hide in my bedroom but this wasn't such a big deal since it didn't give the regular dopamine hits of constant new women and freakier and freakier shit, still it was a stepping stone for when internet got big. My porn addiction was prob worst when I was unhappily married (wife a control freak & wouldn't sleep w me for like a year after birth of second child, what a bitch)... anyway, shameful things hide in dark corners and get nourished there... own your porn addiction, bring it into the light, talk about it with other human beings who share your experiences, and things will get easier.

Quitting anything isn't easy... weed, tobacco, over drinking, over eating, co-dependent relationships, internet addiction, shopping addiction, porn, procrastination... all things I have struggled mightily with, and fallen over more times than I can count and just got back up and into the ring again... so can u brother. Persevere. You'll be golden if you just stick at it

Ray

 

[Davo]

Thank you for your extremely inspiring post my friend. I see I was mistaken about the demographic here.

I just cleared my phone of all internet access and dropped my personal computer back at home, so access to porn is currently impossible. Typing this from a library computer. I am 100% committed. Heading back out into the field right now. Thanks again for your awesome post. Your success inspires me. Congratulations on your string of conquests over your old unproductive habits!

 

[Davo]

My friends! It's been a while, given the fact that I need to get to a library to access a computer right now.

I have decided to throw my entire energy into my career and self-development and back off the game until my brain has reset from the porn addiction. I'd love some input on this decision, particularly from Ray. On the one hand, I feel like it's a retreat and even if it's only a temporary retreat I hate to do it. But on the other hand, is it a wise decision to continue to plow in the game even when my libido is nonexistent? Am I accumulating too many rejections and losses by playing this game without really having my heart (penis) in it? I know from personal experience that it's dangerous to jump into any field halfway, and how can I be fully committed to seducing women when the libido is gone?

The current plan is to occupy my mind completely with my career and self-development, and then return to the game in 3 months (the average reboot time). I will have about 90 days left at that point to accomplish my initial goals I set at the start of this thread....which will require having to sleep with multiple women in one day, many days of the week. Which will require a fucking incredible level of approaching. But to be honest, after 3 months without porn...without the last thing in my life that is holding me back...with a reset mind and all the benefits that come with it...I think anything would be possible at that point. It might be a retreat, but only to prepare a much more invigorated attack...lol .

Very interested to hear more about the things you did to beat your PMO Ray, and particularly how active you were with women during the process.

 

[Seppuku]

Hey Davo,

Congratulations on your approaches. It looks like a great start. Keep in mind that ultimately you need to come with a goal driven process. The goal is to bring the girl to your bed. You need a clear-cut process to achieve this goal. You approach girls with the entire process, and the goal, in mind. The process is something like 1. get a lot of numbers 2. convert numbers into dates 3. Bring your dates home 4. Seduce them. You lead the process from beginning to end. Personally I find it useful to always keep the end goal in mind.

Regarding porn addiction, I had a relatively light one. I was not aware of the damage it was causing to me until I stumbled on some website which opened my eyes. Then I cut porn and masturbation for 3 months. Now the problem I had after 3 months is that I was so horny that I could not help staring at every ass passing by, and came across as very needy. So I voluntarily ended after 3 months. It had nevertheless the effect of cutting the addiction. Only good things can come out of it. I can only recommend that you go on this route. It becomes easier.

Looking froward to read more from you!

Seppuku

 

[ray_zorse]

Davo I know where you are coming from because I took about a 2mth break from approaching after I'd been practicing seduction for around 3mths, because I wanted to focus on work and other matters. I think it did help to get my head in the right place, because I got laid immediately after (posted my first LR haha). But having said that, I think it's probably overall best to keep approaching no matter what. Approach anxiety is a very twisted thing and something that you may never get fully handled, but a mistake that a lot of guys make is in making excuses not to approach... good excuses no doubt, but at the end of the day you need to get laid and that's going to be a function of how many women you approach. I can certainly remember a lot of times failing to get it up with women in the early part of my journey, and that's intensely frustrating at a time when getting a woman back to the house is a rare event, but the solution is to make it not a rare event
Ray

 

[Davo]

Seppuku -- THANK YOU for the congrats and the advice. I will remember it while I'm out there. Work with the end goal always in mind.

Ray -- You're absolutely right. There's no excuse to stop. This "no libido, wait for recovery" shit is at the end of the day just an excuse and I should've seen it for what it was. Thank you for giving me the outside perspective my friend. I've brought women home too where I fail to get it up because I was still watching too much porn but at the same time I still felt like a fucking champion for doing it and I CERTAINLY got better and smoother the next time. I may not dedicate as much time to approaching women solely because career circumstances have changed and I need to devote lots of time to it, but when I am out and about it will be my duty and obligation to approach every cute women along the way. Thank you for setting me straight Ray! More field reports coming soon.

 

[Davo]

No update lately --- had a massive shift in life circumstances and plans. Been spending all my time cooped up in the library and at companies job hunting. Just got the new job and now it's serious hustle time. I'm upset that I haven't made any new progress with women and have much less time to do it now but on the huge plus side I can feel my brain resetting itself from porn. Going through MASSIVE mood swings. Champion one minute, depression the next. My urge to even watch porn has gone entirely and right now I'm in this weird limbo state where I have no sexuality at all. LOL. I've been expecting it all though from what I've read of other people's rebooting experiences. Now that I have this job that I'm extremely excited about it will be a lot easier as well to get through the process.

Also now that I'm not just going from home to library to offices I should be able to see more women in my day to day! But at this point, I'm just happy for every single day that passes by regardless because I know my brain is changing in a BIG way for the positive. God...I'm going to be a fucking monster on womankind being completely clean after 10 miserable years of porn. Towards Victory my friends.

I hope life is well with all of you.

--Davo