- Joined
- Nov 15, 2019
- Messages
- 12
Despite have had ONS, FWB, and LTRs before I got the bag my life took a very different turn after. Things I learned for better or worse:
1. Women are scared/attracted to powerful men. This is hurting me a lot so I focus on being approachable warm etc but I have ways to go. It just seems weird to most women in their 20s that I don’t have a boss or a job to go to and drink Crystal every night. I am capable of using vagabond disqualifiers plus lifestyle hiding - I’m broke, I live with my parents - but I really hate that as it is dishonest. Unfortunately, that is a better position than limiting myself to 500k/yr+ women or something. This problem is not the same I think as being the ‘corporate guy’ because that guy has money but no time, I’m the guy with both and a lot of women just hate dealing with that.
2. A lot of women don’t play provider games if they know the guy “gets it”. Bringing up all of my past sexual experiences _really_ pushes providing out of the conversation. Looks + style can help I know but talking about SEX directly is the best move I think. Especially if you can honestly describe how great those experiences were. This pushes the convo along WITHOUT investment - you are relating past things that happened to you without hiding, that is almost 0 investment imo.
3. Most girls even in their 30s have nothing to offer outside looks and I’m sure even the experienced guys agree a 9/10 that is not needy - social circle money - is a hell of a lot more attractive than a 10/10 who is all looks. It seems like 99% of women are very money needy for some reason. I just don’t understand it when all the male money games are legally required to accept women and the women only money games - Female Twitch streamer - cannot take men at all. There are no men’s studies departments where you can only hire male employees why are women so broke? They could at least be average.
4. Finding the right male friends is the most important thing I think more important than most of the things you do yourself.
5. Fitness matters a ton since you are no longer looks disqualified and can get approached rather than do the approaching. I would tell people to care a lot about this.
1. Women are scared/attracted to powerful men. This is hurting me a lot so I focus on being approachable warm etc but I have ways to go. It just seems weird to most women in their 20s that I don’t have a boss or a job to go to and drink Crystal every night. I am capable of using vagabond disqualifiers plus lifestyle hiding - I’m broke, I live with my parents - but I really hate that as it is dishonest. Unfortunately, that is a better position than limiting myself to 500k/yr+ women or something. This problem is not the same I think as being the ‘corporate guy’ because that guy has money but no time, I’m the guy with both and a lot of women just hate dealing with that.
2. A lot of women don’t play provider games if they know the guy “gets it”. Bringing up all of my past sexual experiences _really_ pushes providing out of the conversation. Looks + style can help I know but talking about SEX directly is the best move I think. Especially if you can honestly describe how great those experiences were. This pushes the convo along WITHOUT investment - you are relating past things that happened to you without hiding, that is almost 0 investment imo.
3. Most girls even in their 30s have nothing to offer outside looks and I’m sure even the experienced guys agree a 9/10 that is not needy - social circle money - is a hell of a lot more attractive than a 10/10 who is all looks. It seems like 99% of women are very money needy for some reason. I just don’t understand it when all the male money games are legally required to accept women and the women only money games - Female Twitch streamer - cannot take men at all. There are no men’s studies departments where you can only hire male employees why are women so broke? They could at least be average.
4. Finding the right male friends is the most important thing I think more important than most of the things you do yourself.
5. Fitness matters a ton since you are no longer looks disqualified and can get approached rather than do the approaching. I would tell people to care a lot about this.