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One year of GC

Atlas

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Hey guys! I just wanted to write a quick article thanking everyone who helped me out over my past 1 year with GC, so without further ado: A little over 1 year ago I was terrible with women. I could barely look a woman in the eye without experiencing serious anxiety and definitely couldn't have a sexual conversation with one. That was when I decided to make a change. while browsing around, I found a bunch of websites that I read a few articles from, but they always had me asking some questions; most notably, what was the point of writing the article? The other websites had mostly filler to make it look like they were answering the question, but never really did. That all changed when I found GirlsChase. I knew from the very first sentence of the first article I read that this website was different, and definitely for the better. I read off of the main website for a month or two and then finally joined the boards Sept. 8, 2013.

I was a little skeptical about joining the boards at first, and I'm not sure why. After a few days on the board, I met so many people who were exactly like me, they wanted to get better with women and were dedicated no matter how hard it got. But I digress, I wanted to write this post to thank everyone who has helped me in the past year. I'm not going to mention anyone specific because you guys know who you are, but I would like to thank Chase and Franco for helping make this amazing website along with the boards. My past year has been one of the best of my life, and I believe a great deal of that is because of you guys on the boards. I don't know where I would be without you all, but I know for damn sure I wouldn't be anywhere near as good as I am with women today. So thanks to everyone who has helped me, be it directly, by answering the shit load of questions I have had, or indirectly, by writing FRs and LRs that has inspired and motivated me to keep striving no matter what.
Keep it real,
Atlas
 
you miss 100% of the shots you don't take

Franco

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Atlas,

Awesome to hear man, and I'm glad we could help in whatever way we have. I know the boards have only been up for a little less than two years, but it's so great to already have so many guys starting threads about how the website (and the boards) have helped them get to a much better place. It makes us feel like our effort here is worth the time. =)

Cheers!

- Franco
 

fsc

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BROOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO WE'RE LIKE TWINS

IT HAS BEEN A YEAR FOR ME TOO! Sept. 8, 2013 was the date of my first cold approach.

LOLOL I'm also working on writing up a similar post right now too.

DAYUM
 

Atlas

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BROOO I KNOW RIGHT!? Just a side note, you better not steal any of the shit I wrote!
 

fsc

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Atlas said:
BROOO I KNOW RIGHT!? Just a side note, you better not steal any of the shit I wrote!
I copied and pasted. Word for word.
 

BarryS1

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This is great to hear Atlas! I started around the time as you from the exact same place. I love hearing stories about this site succeeding in helping guys like us get up to speed! Just curious to know what piece of advice gave the biggest impact? I'm trying to think what changes first for guys like us starting with no experience.

Mine was avoiding the entertainer vibe to make people take me seriously.

Again, awesome job. Keep on rolling!
 

Atlas

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BarryS1 said:
Just curious to know what piece of advice gave the biggest impact? I'm trying to think what changes first for guys like us starting with no experience.

Mine was avoiding the entertainer vibe to make people take me seriously.

Hey Barry, thanks for tuning in man! Its funny, because I believe we started on opposite ends of the spectrum here. I started out the extremely shy and nice guy who took everything seriously. I would add no sexual humor and little humor at all into my interactions at first because I was afraid of messing it up. When I got a little better I started to work on it, but if I made a joke or said something that a girl didn't agree with and looked at me all weird, I would instantly apologize. So to sum it up, I was just a little bitch haha. I slowly worked on it, and developed a more energetic vibe, didn't give a shit about rejections and became an asshole. Oh, and I used to take it all personally too. If a girl rejected me, I got all depressed and started feeling sorry for myself and shit. So glad I got over all of that! So the piece of advice that gave me the biggest impact was to stop being a nice guy; I had such an epiphany when I read that article. How about you? I'm curious to hear how you curbed your entertainer vibe as well.
Keep it Real,
Atlas
 
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