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Zoro

Cro-Magnon Man
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I am getting ZERO replies.

I have decent game and girls generally like me, so I'm assuming my profile is the issue.

PM me and I'll send you a link to it.

Tinder, POF, Okcupid. Same results. Funny that when I was in Eastern Europe I was swimming in dates with beautiful girls, and back home I can't even get ONE response.

I've had some guys tell me don't even bother with online dating sites, because it's a tough nut to crack. But I think it's a worthy challenge, even if I have to get some better pictures or experiment here and there. It'll be a nice way to meet girls besides daygame, especially when I travel.
 

Drck

Cro-Magnon Man
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Why is it that guys are always asking "What am I doing wrong?" Or "What more should I do so she notices me, likes me?"

Why is it that guys always take the problems and responsibility upon themselves?

Why is it that guys always break their backs, always work hard, always study (seduction) hard - while girls don't move their finger? How much do the girls today do to get you - you had working guy who cares?

Do you ever see just ONE little add where HOT girl posts something like: I will be faithful to you, I will cook and clean for our family, I will take good care of myself and your children, I will alwayd respect you as a man - please take me in and provide for me" ... Exactly, you will never see it, and if you do it's just a fucking sarcastic joke....


There is NOTHING fucking wrong with you. You are already doing your best, you are already doing 800% more than you should, you are already a great guy. Yet the girls simply don't care about you, you have ZERO value, the market is already saturated with guys just like you... Any girl can go on social media and see hundreds of guys just like you, guys who are selling their value to them, guys who are supplicating to them, guys who are putting them on a pedestal by paying too much attention to them... everywhere they go there are tens of guys just like you... There are so many guys just like you, the girls simply don't care...

She swipes application to the left, and there is this cute supplicating cock. She swipes application to the right, and there is that cute supplicating cock. She goes on FB or instagram, and there are anonther hundreds of cute and supplicating cocks, one cuter that the other, each looking to get into her panties.... Do you get it? Girls have so many choices, her value may be 6 but because of the abundance she may believe she is 9.5. She already has 4897 cocks on her FB account, and keeps adding more. Thus she doesn't care about you at all, and if she does she can flake on you anytime she wants, or she may dump you anytime she feels like to - and there will always be more cute silly and stupid cocks waiting for her finger swap... You have no value, you work too hard and you get minimal returns...

Stop that crap. Stop asking stupid questions, stop moving fingers for girls. Stop beating yourself down. Stop offering yourself on a market where no one is interested to buy, stop "getting" girls... Girls simply don't care, they live in abundance of supplicating cocks... Do LESS, not more... Get a life, stop worrying about girls liking you...

Give them NOTHING, don't move a finger for them - that is the only way they will respect you...
 

Zoro

Cro-Magnon Man
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Just trying to improve my online dating results when I'm lounging around at home.

I've got the rest covered.

Thanks for the well intentioned advice Drck.
 

BlackBolt

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Have you read Chase's articles on online dating? Have you bought Colt's tinder series? Doing those two things worked wonders for me, first month with tinder had 4 lays. That's tinder alone not including approaching. And that was only the first month, its been a while since I used tinder or online dating but some of the most important things I remember are having a few REALLY GOOD pictures like as good as possible. You might even have to pay to get some professional pictures done but that is very important on online based gaming.
 
the right date makes getting her back home a piece of cake

Zoro

Cro-Magnon Man
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Blackbelt,

Yup,

I have some decent photos,
two from 2 photoshoots with a photographer.

I switch up my profile and photos from time to time to see if that makes a difference.

Online, foreign girls love me. The girls "nextdoor" won't reply.

PS

Just to be clear I go out to meet women and do fairly decent. Figuring out online dating is merely for shits and giggles.
 

ProblemSolving

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The answer is your pictures. It always is. "Decent" pics won't cut it. If you want to hit up chicks online, your pics have to be better than 90% of the competition for it to be worth your time.

Eastern Europe is a notoriously low competition market which is why you had success there, but nothing else where. Easy markets are in Eastern Europe, Asia, and New York, due to it's skewed demographics and extremely high population density.

If you're serious about improvement, post the pics that you're using or google "top male tinder profiles" to get an idea of what you're up against and how to replicate the type of photos that they are using.
 
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