Socializing Opening girls in a small night club

[Major Lance]

Hello forum members!

General question about opening girls in clubs. To be upfront, I'm terrible in these surroundings.

Yesterday i was in a club, dancing to reggae/dub music. I'm in my 30s and girls here are in their 20s, mostly students.
In this club I always see some girls glancing at me but I can never capitalize on it.

This one girl was also dancing, looking every now and then at me and later she came closer, basically nudging me with her backpack and then looking in my direction, although not directly at me.
The club wasn't fully packed and I treated it as an approach invitation and positioned myself parallel to her and tried to hip bump her. It came a little bit awkward, I lost my balance a little. I told her with a smile: "I almost fell, I thought you were gonna catch me."
She then said something to her friend and they promptly left. Oh well

My question is: is it a lame line or a weird reaction from her?
What would be a better approach in these situations?

Cheers!

 

[Skills]

Line was good, the hip bump meh... problem was the hip bump no the line...

 

[Major Lance]

Thanks for the input!
Do you maybe have a suggestion or a technique how to attract girl's attention on the dance floor in a smoother way?

 

[Skills]

Thanks for the input!
Do you maybe have a suggestion or a technique how to attract girl's attention on the dance floor in a smoother way?

in that specific situation i would have approach at a 45 degree angle from the front and dance... There are lots of way to approach from dance floor not a fan, of bumping and stuff like that personally.... for me shows lack of confidence... in my blog i have a lot of different ways like encoraging her to dance with gesture like pointing, ehhy (like a cheer encouranging to dance), the clap with the hands palm up vs fingers facing forward one clap you reverse hands and clap again.... (eventually may have to show in a video or something)..

these are some ones ( don't do the floss totally outdated):

Unusual, weird, and retarded but very effective openers I have been using lately - The Skills Method

First, an opener is when you interact and engage a total stranger could be a girl, guy, couple, group etc…. Now there are different types of openers such as: Opinion … Continue Reading →

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The pointing technique is a very easy way to open in the dance floor - The Skills Method

Let me introduce you to an easy way I open that has worked very well for me, I am going to call it “the pointing technique”. First, it works ideally … Continue Reading →

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Another easy way to come across as the life of the party! - The Skills Method

One easy way to sub communicate fun, open and be the life of the party, is the “uhhhh ohhhh” “okay” sounds (please watch the video sample for this post … Continue Reading →

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in the last post they took down the video the sound is some of this, these type of sounds common at club (if you sound out of place you will sound like a retard, you need to perfect it like they sound cheering)

 

[Major Lance]

@Skills I appreciate the tips, definitely need to experiment with different approaches!

If you have the time you should really put some of these techiques in a video and post it, so it's easier to understand.
Cheers!