Opening Girls Who Are With Their Boyfriend

[foggy]

When I'm day gaming often I will see a girl who I want to talk to, except she's with a guy. The guy could be her boyfriend, an orbiter, or someone else. Sometimes I come across a group of 2 girls and 2 guys, etc.

I want to open these girls to get some great reference points. But I feel that if I do this it will increase the likelihood of me getting beat up especially if I go in direct.

Do you guys have any tips for me? What are your experiences?

 

[Ambiance]

LOL don't be afraid of getting beat up. Approach the girl you like, not the group. Address the group to apologize for interrupting if necessary. Or just get the girl's attention and have her come to you away from the group. You can do that verbally or non-verbally. Give the girl a warm and confident direct opener. Isolate her and talk to her just enough to build a quick connection, then set a date and get a number. If the group interferes or gets curious, don't be a dick and be cool, but keep your focus on the girl. You can also use the group to put a little social pressure on the girl to open up to you.

And if some guy jumps you, defend yourself, push him away, and demonize him to his friends: "What the hell is with your friend? You need to calm your friend down."

Ambiance

 

[Bboy100]

LOLOOLOLOLOL. No one is going to beat you up. I promise. Especially not in the middle of the day. If anywhere, that would be more likely to happen at a night venue where there is alcohol involved. But even then, if you don't do anything really stupid like getting angry or cussing the girl out or something absurd like that, its unlikely to happen.

The only advice I can give you is to recognize that what I just said is true. And to go out and do it anyways, despite your discomfort. Once you talk to a few girls with guys around, you'll internalize the fact that getting beat up is a very unlikely event and you'll stop worrying about it

 

[kalyan]

Chase sent out an email regarding this a few weeks ago. I used to do his way before i read the email though. If a firl is with a guy they could be anything. My solution? Ask. No guy is goingto beat you up because 1) most guys dont have the balls and 2) even if they do, they probably dont have a solid reasonto unless you're being rude. Now if he's gabbing her ass and she's melting on im, there really is no debate and you'll probably look socially uncalibrated.

How? Igo in with "hey, i know this might be weird, (or i dont mean to be rude) but are you guys dating?" No matter what the response,i tell them the fact of the matter, that i felt she's beautiful and i wanted to talk to her. If they are dating, i eject there, if not it's a green light baby.