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Boom_1982

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Is it possible to keep a party girl that also happens to be an attention whore as LTR? I know I'm seeking trouble but just wanted to check if there are any strategies.
 
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Are you willing to be out with her during all this? if you are her party conduit, she will be yours for the asking....until someone better comes along.
 

Teevster

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Are you willing to be out with her during all this? if you are her party conduit, she will be yours for the asking....until someone better comes along.

Going out with party girls FB is like death.

Oh don't you dare flirt with other girls! you are hers and hers only, and if you break that rule, she will give you some crazy drama.

But then, she hooks up with some other dude, you have to be ok with it.

I say fuck no. Party girl goes out with me, will be at HER own risk. Not mine ;)

Best,
Teevster
 

Boom_1982

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Any additional suggestions on frame, pounding her hard and setting expectations? Do they work with attention whores?
 

Teevster

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Any additional suggestions on frame, pounding her hard and setting expectations? Do they work with attention whores?

Your ability to deal with jealousy plots, and ability to mirror them when they occur to maintain frame is the key here.

Basically, to outframe an attention whore you need to be as good as her at her own game, which basically means you need to be really good at opening and hooking girls.

It ain't easy, tons of work, little benefits. Although I have done it for ego-validation in the past.

Best,
Teevster
 
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Boom_1982

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Your ability to deal with jealousy plots, and ability to mirror them when they occur to maintain frame.

Basically, to outframe an attention whore you need to be as good as her at her own game, which basically means you need to be really good at opening and hooking girls.

It ain't easy, tons of work, little benefits. Although I have done it for ego-validation in the past.

Best,
Teevster
Great comment @Teevster. Working on attention whores and getting better with them makes me superior in my game to easily land other chicks.
 

Teevster

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Great comment @Teevster. Working on attention whores and getting better with them makes me superior in my game to easily land other chicks.
If you can deal with such a girl (as your FB/GF) at a club may as well just meet a new chick.

Because you will have to approach and hook a lot. So why not just seal the deal while you are at it. LOL-

Best,
Teevster
 

Chase

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@Boom_1982,

To add to the other guys here:

Is it possible to keep a party girl that also happens to be an attention whore as LTR? I know I'm seeking trouble but just wanted to check if there are any strategies.

Are we talking oLTR, or monogamy?

If it's oLTR, and you are the super non-jealous type, don't really care what the girl is doing at all, etc., and are fine with her doing her thing multiple nights of the week, entertaining her constellation of orbiters, and so on, then I don't see a reason not to.

If you're talking monogamy though... I would only do this if you're moving with her to the remote northern parts of Canada to live in a log cabin somewhere where the closest people around are 15 miles away, and then you're just going to keep her knocked up pumping babies out for you until menopause sets in. Then the worst she can do is parade around in her underpants on OnlyFans. (of course, then you've got to worry about your attention whore daughters in 15 years... like mother like daughter...)

That said, if you really have to try it, there is always this article of Hector's:


Good luck...

Chase
 

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Is it possible to keep a party girl that also happens to be an attention whore as LTR? I know I'm seeking trouble but just wanted to check if there are any strategies.
Again, nothing changes i sound like a broken record, you date multiple women as you are dating them and competing for you if they pass the evaluation they are in... usually club rats as i call them at the bottom of the list, but once with you they will usually stop going out, or go out with you... no difference, if the guys hitting on her, you chill, no jealous attitude she will go home with you anyways...
 
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