I do not understand the point of this KJ debate. Been skimming through it, and it just make no sense to me. Like I do not really understand what the arguments are.
Exactly... You are not risking screening her out with escalation or sex talk that is telegraphing direct interest.
What are you talking about? Please do not try to force-frame me with what you think I do.
Sex talk can be used to screen for certain types of sexual personalities - for instance by being extremly explicit right away (to test whether she is "sexually liberated") or screen for certain sexual acts by for example talking about say anal sex, in order to see if she is a girl likely to be receptive to it. Those are examples of sex talk used for screening, and I used it more that way in the early days.
How much I screen depends on my mood, and the girl - if she is "not so hot" I will screen harder for certain personal sexual attributes. But generally I do not use it for screening. This is partly due to the fact her words rarely relect how she actually is in bed (she can say that she is inexperienced, and not into this and that... only to actually be a total nympho... and vice versa - that said those that are very detailed and explicit -the sexual freak - tend to have their sex talk reflect how they are in bed)
It can also be used to screening for interest by being a bit more direct too - even though I do not recommend it (more cons than pros).
And then we have what is often labelled as "screening game", which is about screening women for X property, but generally it is referred to screening for interested girls prior to opening. Another term that is frequently used is "sniper game".
Screening game:
1. looking for greens.
2. Be a sniper, look for AI, trigger AI (e.g. hover) in order to increase your chances of success.
3. Look for the ideal timing and ideal setting to open.
That's how 60 and sleazy were doing it.
Mass-approaching with direct openers (to look for greens) is technically a form of screening but has been historically been refered to as playing the "numbers game" or "shot-gun game" (unlike the sniper where you aim for one specific target).
It is pretty straight forward.
I still cannot grasp why this needs pages upon pages with debates.
-Teevster
