Perfect date accoring to sciences and the AS If principle (need feedback)

[Witcher]

Hey everyone

Last time i was going trought Richad Wiseman -59 Secondes By , self-help book. Not a classci of the category since it expose the flawed theorie of thje industry and just keep the advices backed up by sience and could easily be implemented in less than a minute.

The book talks about various subjects like Peruasion , Motivation etc.. and there is also a chapter on Attraction/Seduction, the most interesting thing was about the perfect date and what we should talk and do on a meeting with a perosn we want to GET!!

Here is some of the main advices and i would love your opinions about them :

1. Love at First Fright. You may think that going somewhere romantic on a first date is good, but in fact you are better off choosing somewhere scary. Research shows your date will attribute their racing heart to you, rather than the scary activity, convincing them that you are the one. So, avoid country walks, and instead go to a horror film or on a rollercoaster ride.

2. The Sharing Game. Research shows that disclosing some personal information during a date quickly leads to feelings of intimacy. Ask your date to describe something they have always wanted to do or one of the happiest days of their life.

the second one goes with GC common tradition, for the first one it goes againit GC of simple date and generally GC never contradict science !!

Source: https://richardwiseman.wordpress.com/20 ... ance-tips/

Add to this a game where we should draw something seperatley and starte at each other eyes trying to guess what the other drew. This is supposed to create what lover do when they are in love, like gunwitch hiover where you lake her create an AI.

So go guys what do you think of it ?

 

[Metalus]

2.sounds like NLP to me. I think its actually a good advice somewhat close to the typical "deep dive" approach right ?

1.Its kinda weird. I do believe it might end up working but at the same time your date might just think you are strange when you tell her "lets go watch texas chainsaw massacre".
Wouldnt go for that approach. And I consider both points to be kinda hard to pull off together. Assuming you are going to watch a horror film and afterwards talk with her about things she
"always wanted to do".