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I met this woman on Hinge 2 days ago, she had just downloaded the app and I was her first match according to her. Before her, I had already made date plans with 2 girls, but cancelled on them because I wanted higher quality. I will no longer go out with women I would fuck but wouldn't date. It feels like a waste of time because I enjoy relationships more than increasing my lay count.
I invited my date to an ice cream spot in chinatown. My goal was to meet for ice cream for a few mins, get her comfortable, and move her to a bar within walking distance.
I arrive at the ice cream spot and she's there waiting for me. She looks stunning. I'm greeted by a gorgeous face with sexy piercings and a vibrant smile, she gets up to greet me, we hug and I kiss her cheek.
She asks shall we order? I have her grab the menu, I go to sit on the chair next to her, when she comes back she tries to switch spots and sit across, I stop her off before she sits and tell her I prefer not having a table blocking us, she complies.
From here we talk a bit, she grabs her, I get to know her a bit and keep the conversation on her, make some jokes here and there, she is receptive. After a few minutes, she looks anxious to order, I have her help me pick a flavor and we order.
We sit back down, continue talking. I initially face her at an angle, as to not come off too strong early, but at this point, I am mostly facing her and she is facing me. I repeatedly bump my thigh on her thigh during conversation, getting her used to my touch.
I mostly look at her with openness and desire to get to know her, my eye contact is a strong gaze, I mostly never break eye contact unless I'm talking and she comments later on that I have very strong eye contact and that I've probably been told that before.
We get our ice cream, my choice was tiny while she had a cone. We laugh about it, and she shares her ice cream with me. We laugh at my awkward way of eating a cone of ice cream, and she uses her hand to wipe ice cream from my mouth. I then grab that same hand and gently hold it in my own hand and rub her palm with my thumb. She lets me do this for about 30 seconds before pulling away.
At this point my thigh is resting on her thigh, and I touch her thighs with my hand a few times during high points of the interaction. I grab her palm and pretend to read it, I trace the lines with my finger and tell her one of the lines means she'll have 5 mixed babies. She says "oh wow, I didnt have kids planned but sure"
We finish our ice cream, I tell her lets go to the bar, and off we go. The bar is 4 minute walk, I place my arm around her shoulders and tell her I'm cold
We arrive at the bar, there is a bouncer outside and I ask him if this is x bar. The man attempts to tool me by pointing to his shirt, which said the name of the bar at the bottom. I tell him I'm new around here, he laughs and says what does that have to do with anything? calls me a crazy man. I remain unaffected by his behavior, my girl defends me, he asks if I am on drugs and I give a curt no. Then he asks if I must've done the drugs before I got there, I give another curt no and he lets us inside.
I believe he was desperately trying to peacock his "alphaness" in front of my beautiful date. If there's better ways of handling that I'm open to them. I was nervous being in a new area and new venues, so I do awkward stuff sometimes until I'm more comfortable.
My girl's vibe did not change off the tooling attempts, I knew if I got defensive or confrontational it would dry up my date's pussy. So I stayed calm and didn't even mention the interaction once we sat in the bar.
We ordered 1 drink each, we continue to chat, she talks about her drink, we try each other's drinks, I start to hold her hand for minutes at a time. She pulls away at some point and I put my hand on her thigh and leave it there, etching closer to her crotch area as time passes. She does not attempt to remove my hand at any point. I tell her I want to smell her perfume, she brings her neck closer to me, and I purposely make facial contact with her neck. I pull back and comment in how lovely she smells, describe that it smells like a calm ocean breeze, and I have her smell my neck. I tell her I want to smell her perfume again, and I do, but before I pull away I give her a peck kiss on her neck. She cutely smiles and shrugs her shoulder up the way girls do when they're trying to be cute.
Our drinks are almost finished, I ask her if she loves tacos. She says yes, and I tell her I know how to make the best tacos, and tell her let's go I'll make you some. She agrees and we start leaving the bar.
As we walk out, she asks where we are going, and I tell her my car. I start describing all the ingredients I will use for her taco, enticing her. But I can tell she feels hesitant to go, because I live 25 miles away... I am holding her hand as we walk, we pass her car on the way to my car and she points at her car, I make a comment about her car being cool but keep leading her towards my car, a lesser man would've hesitated and she would have called it a night then.
We go inside my car, I put my gps and start driving. She makes a comment, "We're not really going over there are we?" I tell her yes we are. I try to calm her and tell her I will bring her right back to her car. She goes with it, but as I drive she gives another objection and tells me she'd really just like for me to drop her off at her car. I say okay, and stay quiet for about 20 seconds. I have not attempted to redirect course to her car, I give it one last shot turn to her with a big smile and tell her, "I promise you will really love my tacos", she finally calms her resistance and agrees. But says we are not having sex, I tell her that we wont do anything she's not comfortable with, my guarantee. That line truly eases her and I continue driving.
We arrive at my place, and she's cheesing and giggling at the fact I took her to another state. We enter my apartment, and she loves it. It is a seduction haven. I ask her if she likes wine, she says yes, I open a bottle and serve drinks, then I sit with her on my sofa which has a section you can lay your legs on. We both lay down next to each other with our drinks. I place my arm behind her head and rub on her arm, touch my feet with her feet.
We talk for a few more minutes, then I grab her chin and turn her face towards me to kiss her and she goes wild kissing me all over, she then gets on top of me and starts grinding on me while she keeps making out with me. I have her take her shirt off and then take her bra off, and she takes off my shirt.
After a few seconds of passion, I tell her let's go to my room and we do. I gently but dominantly throw her in bed and get on top of her, making out, teasing her neck, and rubbing my boner on her panties. She calls me a great kisser.
I take off my underwear and take her panties off, and here I make a small mistake. I incorrectly believed she was done with her resistance towards sex, so I am building it up, rubbing my cock on her pussy while we're still kissing, working my way down to nibbling and sucking her breasts, then I go down and eat her pussy for a bit. I come back up, and attempt to penetrate her and she stops me, saying we're not having sex, and asks to let her suck my dick. I ignore her and continue making out with her, not trying to penetrate her but rubbing my dick in her pussy. I try to build her up and penetrate her a few more times, but she continues to stop me.
I let her get on top of me and she passionately gives me a blowjob. After a few minutes, I manhandle her to the bottom position again and attempt to penetrate her one more time but she resists again. I believe if I had just penetrated her early on when she was her most horny instead of going down on her, that she wouldve let me fuck her then.
But I decide the best move is to stop for a bit and we stop. I refill our wine, and we drink cuddled in bed as we talk. She ends up explaining to me that she has trouble with feeling pain in her pussy during sex until she's comfortable with someone, and that it usually takes a few dates for the sex to no longer hurt.
I ask her if the men before me were ever gentle with her? she said no, they weren't, and that she sometimes felt scared of telling a man to stop while he was inside, so she avoided just starting the sex altogether.
And then I do something that apparently no other man has done in this beautiful woman's life. I tell her that I am willing to go really slow, and be very patient as I penetrate her, making sure I enter her slowly so she doesnt feel any pain, and that at any point she felt uncomfortable to just tell me and I will stop. I asked her if she wanted to try that with me and she agreed.
It quickly got hot between us again as my understanding made her extremely horny, I get on top of her and penetrate her with the tip. She's incredibly wet and I move the tip back and forth, barely half an inch inside her. She moans for me, I talk dirty to her, tell her how naughty she is for me as I slowly go deeper inside her. She mentions it hurting at some points, and I pull out a bit and continue penetrating her. I eventually get my whole cock inside of her, as I penetrate her harder I tell her that I want her to cum for me, that she sounds so sexy, I put my hand around her neck and lightly choke her as I fuck her. She orgasms for me, I try to keep fucking her but she quickly mentions its hurting. I tell her I will stop thrusting and just leave my cock inside her. I reward her for cumming for me, she says I'm really sexy and she loves how I talk to her. Not long after, I start thrusting into her again, building my way back up from the tip. She cums again for me and I cum inside her(she had an iud).
We cuddle for a bit. Talk about the experience. She's quite happy and satisfied. We get hot one more time and I try to fuck her again, but this time her pain wouldn't go away, so we stopped for the night. We chat a little more, get dressed, and I drive her back to her car.
I tell her to text me when she gets home, and she asks me to do the same. She makes out with me before she leaves my car, tells me she really enjoyed her time with me, and we part ways. She texts me that she's home and again tells me how much she liked spending time with me.
I invited her the next day for dinner and wine over at my place, she told me that she would really love to do that with me, but that her schedule would be really busy these next few weeks and if I could give her some time for her to figure out her availability, I stayed chill and told her to let me know and we can find an appropriate day for it
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She really is a busy girl from what I got to know about her, lots of friends and popular, sings in a band, bisexual, and her profile mentioned non-monogamy.
She asked in the bar what I was looking for and if I wanted somethinf seriois, and I told her that I'm easy, I go with the flow and what feels right. She agreed with that. She did mention to me that she's had 4 boyfriends, and each relationship lasted 2 years, so she's not some easy slut or a girl that inevitably cheat. My goal is to see if I can make her want to be in a monogamous relationship with me. She's actually very much my type so I would want her to be my girlfriend, but I don't know if our physical distance will create too much resistance to make that work.
I'm going to try and find if I can rent any cheap rooms for 1-2 hours in the city, and I will pull the women there instead. I also need to find a quiet spot within walking distance for my 3rd and final location to move her to, where I can get more sexual and seductive before pulling her home.
As you guys could see I made it work with only 2 venues but there was resistance, a 3rd spot before telling her to go home with me would have likely eliminated her resistance. But it's also incredibly cold outside so finding an ideal spot like that could be difficult. I'll have to do some searching.
I hope you all enjoy my lay report and I welcome any and all advices.
I invited my date to an ice cream spot in chinatown. My goal was to meet for ice cream for a few mins, get her comfortable, and move her to a bar within walking distance.
I arrive at the ice cream spot and she's there waiting for me. She looks stunning. I'm greeted by a gorgeous face with sexy piercings and a vibrant smile, she gets up to greet me, we hug and I kiss her cheek.
She asks shall we order? I have her grab the menu, I go to sit on the chair next to her, when she comes back she tries to switch spots and sit across, I stop her off before she sits and tell her I prefer not having a table blocking us, she complies.
From here we talk a bit, she grabs her, I get to know her a bit and keep the conversation on her, make some jokes here and there, she is receptive. After a few minutes, she looks anxious to order, I have her help me pick a flavor and we order.
We sit back down, continue talking. I initially face her at an angle, as to not come off too strong early, but at this point, I am mostly facing her and she is facing me. I repeatedly bump my thigh on her thigh during conversation, getting her used to my touch.
I mostly look at her with openness and desire to get to know her, my eye contact is a strong gaze, I mostly never break eye contact unless I'm talking and she comments later on that I have very strong eye contact and that I've probably been told that before.
We get our ice cream, my choice was tiny while she had a cone. We laugh about it, and she shares her ice cream with me. We laugh at my awkward way of eating a cone of ice cream, and she uses her hand to wipe ice cream from my mouth. I then grab that same hand and gently hold it in my own hand and rub her palm with my thumb. She lets me do this for about 30 seconds before pulling away.
At this point my thigh is resting on her thigh, and I touch her thighs with my hand a few times during high points of the interaction. I grab her palm and pretend to read it, I trace the lines with my finger and tell her one of the lines means she'll have 5 mixed babies. She says "oh wow, I didnt have kids planned but sure"
We finish our ice cream, I tell her lets go to the bar, and off we go. The bar is 4 minute walk, I place my arm around her shoulders and tell her I'm cold
We arrive at the bar, there is a bouncer outside and I ask him if this is x bar. The man attempts to tool me by pointing to his shirt, which said the name of the bar at the bottom. I tell him I'm new around here, he laughs and says what does that have to do with anything? calls me a crazy man. I remain unaffected by his behavior, my girl defends me, he asks if I am on drugs and I give a curt no. Then he asks if I must've done the drugs before I got there, I give another curt no and he lets us inside.
I believe he was desperately trying to peacock his "alphaness" in front of my beautiful date. If there's better ways of handling that I'm open to them. I was nervous being in a new area and new venues, so I do awkward stuff sometimes until I'm more comfortable.
My girl's vibe did not change off the tooling attempts, I knew if I got defensive or confrontational it would dry up my date's pussy. So I stayed calm and didn't even mention the interaction once we sat in the bar.
We ordered 1 drink each, we continue to chat, she talks about her drink, we try each other's drinks, I start to hold her hand for minutes at a time. She pulls away at some point and I put my hand on her thigh and leave it there, etching closer to her crotch area as time passes. She does not attempt to remove my hand at any point. I tell her I want to smell her perfume, she brings her neck closer to me, and I purposely make facial contact with her neck. I pull back and comment in how lovely she smells, describe that it smells like a calm ocean breeze, and I have her smell my neck. I tell her I want to smell her perfume again, and I do, but before I pull away I give her a peck kiss on her neck. She cutely smiles and shrugs her shoulder up the way girls do when they're trying to be cute.
Our drinks are almost finished, I ask her if she loves tacos. She says yes, and I tell her I know how to make the best tacos, and tell her let's go I'll make you some. She agrees and we start leaving the bar.
As we walk out, she asks where we are going, and I tell her my car. I start describing all the ingredients I will use for her taco, enticing her. But I can tell she feels hesitant to go, because I live 25 miles away... I am holding her hand as we walk, we pass her car on the way to my car and she points at her car, I make a comment about her car being cool but keep leading her towards my car, a lesser man would've hesitated and she would have called it a night then.
We go inside my car, I put my gps and start driving. She makes a comment, "We're not really going over there are we?" I tell her yes we are. I try to calm her and tell her I will bring her right back to her car. She goes with it, but as I drive she gives another objection and tells me she'd really just like for me to drop her off at her car. I say okay, and stay quiet for about 20 seconds. I have not attempted to redirect course to her car, I give it one last shot turn to her with a big smile and tell her, "I promise you will really love my tacos", she finally calms her resistance and agrees. But says we are not having sex, I tell her that we wont do anything she's not comfortable with, my guarantee. That line truly eases her and I continue driving.
We arrive at my place, and she's cheesing and giggling at the fact I took her to another state. We enter my apartment, and she loves it. It is a seduction haven. I ask her if she likes wine, she says yes, I open a bottle and serve drinks, then I sit with her on my sofa which has a section you can lay your legs on. We both lay down next to each other with our drinks. I place my arm behind her head and rub on her arm, touch my feet with her feet.
We talk for a few more minutes, then I grab her chin and turn her face towards me to kiss her and she goes wild kissing me all over, she then gets on top of me and starts grinding on me while she keeps making out with me. I have her take her shirt off and then take her bra off, and she takes off my shirt.
After a few seconds of passion, I tell her let's go to my room and we do. I gently but dominantly throw her in bed and get on top of her, making out, teasing her neck, and rubbing my boner on her panties. She calls me a great kisser.
I take off my underwear and take her panties off, and here I make a small mistake. I incorrectly believed she was done with her resistance towards sex, so I am building it up, rubbing my cock on her pussy while we're still kissing, working my way down to nibbling and sucking her breasts, then I go down and eat her pussy for a bit. I come back up, and attempt to penetrate her and she stops me, saying we're not having sex, and asks to let her suck my dick. I ignore her and continue making out with her, not trying to penetrate her but rubbing my dick in her pussy. I try to build her up and penetrate her a few more times, but she continues to stop me.
I let her get on top of me and she passionately gives me a blowjob. After a few minutes, I manhandle her to the bottom position again and attempt to penetrate her one more time but she resists again. I believe if I had just penetrated her early on when she was her most horny instead of going down on her, that she wouldve let me fuck her then.
But I decide the best move is to stop for a bit and we stop. I refill our wine, and we drink cuddled in bed as we talk. She ends up explaining to me that she has trouble with feeling pain in her pussy during sex until she's comfortable with someone, and that it usually takes a few dates for the sex to no longer hurt.
I ask her if the men before me were ever gentle with her? she said no, they weren't, and that she sometimes felt scared of telling a man to stop while he was inside, so she avoided just starting the sex altogether.
And then I do something that apparently no other man has done in this beautiful woman's life. I tell her that I am willing to go really slow, and be very patient as I penetrate her, making sure I enter her slowly so she doesnt feel any pain, and that at any point she felt uncomfortable to just tell me and I will stop. I asked her if she wanted to try that with me and she agreed.
It quickly got hot between us again as my understanding made her extremely horny, I get on top of her and penetrate her with the tip. She's incredibly wet and I move the tip back and forth, barely half an inch inside her. She moans for me, I talk dirty to her, tell her how naughty she is for me as I slowly go deeper inside her. She mentions it hurting at some points, and I pull out a bit and continue penetrating her. I eventually get my whole cock inside of her, as I penetrate her harder I tell her that I want her to cum for me, that she sounds so sexy, I put my hand around her neck and lightly choke her as I fuck her. She orgasms for me, I try to keep fucking her but she quickly mentions its hurting. I tell her I will stop thrusting and just leave my cock inside her. I reward her for cumming for me, she says I'm really sexy and she loves how I talk to her. Not long after, I start thrusting into her again, building my way back up from the tip. She cums again for me and I cum inside her(she had an iud).
We cuddle for a bit. Talk about the experience. She's quite happy and satisfied. We get hot one more time and I try to fuck her again, but this time her pain wouldn't go away, so we stopped for the night. We chat a little more, get dressed, and I drive her back to her car.
I tell her to text me when she gets home, and she asks me to do the same. She makes out with me before she leaves my car, tells me she really enjoyed her time with me, and we part ways. She texts me that she's home and again tells me how much she liked spending time with me.
I invited her the next day for dinner and wine over at my place, she told me that she would really love to do that with me, but that her schedule would be really busy these next few weeks and if I could give her some time for her to figure out her availability, I stayed chill and told her to let me know and we can find an appropriate day for it
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She really is a busy girl from what I got to know about her, lots of friends and popular, sings in a band, bisexual, and her profile mentioned non-monogamy.
She asked in the bar what I was looking for and if I wanted somethinf seriois, and I told her that I'm easy, I go with the flow and what feels right. She agreed with that. She did mention to me that she's had 4 boyfriends, and each relationship lasted 2 years, so she's not some easy slut or a girl that inevitably cheat. My goal is to see if I can make her want to be in a monogamous relationship with me. She's actually very much my type so I would want her to be my girlfriend, but I don't know if our physical distance will create too much resistance to make that work.
I'm going to try and find if I can rent any cheap rooms for 1-2 hours in the city, and I will pull the women there instead. I also need to find a quiet spot within walking distance for my 3rd and final location to move her to, where I can get more sexual and seductive before pulling her home.
As you guys could see I made it work with only 2 venues but there was resistance, a 3rd spot before telling her to go home with me would have likely eliminated her resistance. But it's also incredibly cold outside so finding an ideal spot like that could be difficult. I'll have to do some searching.
I hope you all enjoy my lay report and I welcome any and all advices.
