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I finally laid my unicorn girl, a Persian! This lay was on 5/10 after meeting the girl on 5/7.
I wrote up 3/4 of the report in May, but wanted to gather more cultural information on Middle-Eastern culture before posting. I think my knowledge of Middle-Eastern culture helped me connect with her from the get-go.
Cultural Aspects
Before I go into the report, there are a few cultural facts about Persians I was able to cold-read or connect with them later in the conversation. I read a couple books on Arab and Persian culture and compared their personal interactions with Americans. I am writing this down because from a Western perspective, it may appear Arab girls are flirting. I have only been studying this material for a couple months and any input would be appreciated! I am not creating stereotypes, but gathering generalizations from my experiences and books to help me interact with Middle-Eastern girls. In my area, there are many new Middle-Eastern immigrants, so I definitely noticed these trends.
-Many Middle-Eastern friends of mine have complained about the burden of having big families requiring constant attention.
-Enthusiastic and thorough introductions. (What I thought was a hook).
-Asking personal questions like relationship status openly is normal. (Thought she was flirting with me).
-Asking someone out to lunch/food is normal because being isolated is rare. (I thought she wanted an instant date).
My Background
This report holds great significance because I have had biased experience interacting with Middle-Eastern (Arab and Persian) girls. From middle school to college, every girl that has REALLY gotten under my skin was a serial flirt middle-eastern girl. Before joining the site, I was an awkward introvert that was drawn to emotional, talkative, and voluptuous girls. In fact, the girl who motivated me to approach is Arab
Being able to attract my type of girl really boosted morale.
College Background
I graduated from college less than a year ago, but took 2 programming night classes during the spring semester (January-May) at a community college. I was 22 at the time, so I blended in quite well with everyone else. M-TH after work, I would go into class from 5-615pm and spend 2 hours in a classroom tutoring center. Every time I went, there was the same Persian girl surrounded by a group of friends speaking Farsi. Ironically, almost all the tutors in the center were Persian, so frequent attendees were mostly Persian (with the exception of me - I’m white). Besides the day I approached her, I never talked to her over the 5 month period. I had social proof, with all the tutors, office clerks, and several students knowing my name by the second month. However, I preferred to work alone after greeting people in the center so I could leave to do day game while running errands!
Persian Girl
28 y.o., 5’7’’ in height, DD boobs, big ass, slight muffin top so she wasn’t skinny. Feminine, dramatic, and emotional personality - she loves toying with people. Unusual hair style for a Persian girl, short curly hair at her shoulders with greasy mouse. Probably weighs more than me because she has muscular legs and arms. She was quirky and energetic from the get-go, strange how aloof she was with other people. Turns out she moved to the U.S. 6 years ago and got divorced after a couple years. The chances of immigrants staying together in marriage in the U.S. is quite low.
Series of Events:
5/7
-Met girl in tutoring room
-Walked around and kissed
-Ate lunch
5/10
-Picked her up
-Starbucks and walked around
-Fucked in car
Pt. 1 Meeting her
5/7
I took the day off work and went to the tutoring center at 12pm prepared to spend the whole day. I wore tungsten rings on both hands, blue neff beanie, navy basketball shorts, BRIGHT red nike basketball shoes, and a red henly with a hood. Along with that, I had full stubble - aka not in the mood to meet anyone that day
I walk into the classroom, say my introduction to the clerk, sign in at the desk and position myself RIGHT across the desk from the Persian girl. This was the first time ever seeing her without the Persian group, so I had to take a chance. Since I got laid twice over the weekend, I had absolutely no motivation to approach and after 20 sec. of inactivity I was like “fuck it I don’t care” and didn’t open - just pulled out my laptop and started working.
What I saw next was hilarious, a guy opening her while starting to sit down and BLOWING OUT! The guy has boring fundamentals and dressed frumpy. I see the guy in there every day, but very awkward to talk to. Whenever I tried starting a conversation he would just nod and mutter something unintelligible back to me - absolutely no social calibration.
After working for around 5 min., I got sick of this uncomfortable feeling of not being able to talk to the Persian girl. I decided that by bringing a tutor to the table, I could get pre-selection (maybe) and her attention for a conversation. I get up, talk to the hottest tutor (asian, skinny but pretty and dressed well) and bring her to the table. It was my first time meeting the tutor, so I deep-dived about her and she did the same. After a couple minutes, I don’t really mention the problem - just continued talking instead. She asks about my professor and I tell her interesting facts about the tests, how it’s structured, ect. All of a sudden, the Persian girl dramatically interrupts us.
I worked with the tutor for about 10 min. on a specific problem, then called the Persian girl over.
I start talk about the online test a bit. She doesn’t move that close to me, but sits in the swivel chair next to me. She then asks me about what classes I am taking and with who.
The girl starts talking about her life story about trying to be a programmer, but complains hows the classes are so hard. She tells me how she grew up in Iran and moved to the U.S. five years ago after Russia.
She admits to seeing me in the tutoring center all the time working hard by myself. She says she likes that I am along trying to get stuff done because she is swarmed with Persian guys trying to talk to her. She also mentions how Indian guys in her programming class are always trying to talk to her by asking dumb questions (nudging my arm as she tells the story). She tells the story with such enthusiasm I am wondering if she is treating me like a girl or is always that bubbly. I am talking about a 16 y.o. girl rambling on about Harry Styles or something!
As we walk out of the building, I perform a lot of kinos - arm pinching, pushing, putting my hand on her waist. She was not resisting to anything and returned all of them as well. There was a lot of people on campus that day, but I wanted to escalate fast with her. I deep-dive and it turns out she lives 8 blocks away from my house (1 min by car lol). As we turn a corner by the building, I go in for the kiss.
There are people walking nearby, but I felt so excited I didn’t care. We eventually sit down and eat our lunches. She feeds me the soup and tries cold-reading me by examining my occupation and clothes lol. This is where i used my previous knowledge of Persians to use the mother of all cold-reads.
She was so shocked that she opened her mouth and could barely speak. She admitted to being overwhelmed by her Persian family and friends wanting to be around her all the time. After eating, we get up and I suggest we find a garbage can. I took her to the other side of the pillar, took away the lunch pale, shoved her against the wall, and started making out. I had my left hand running through her hair and my right grabbing her big ass. She stopping me from kissing her in the middle of it by putting her index finger on my lips. I pull out the dirty talk:
She picked up her lunch pail and following me into the classroom. In front of a couple of Persian friends, she handed me her phone to get my number. When she was across the table, we texted.
Pt. 2 Date 5/10
This part was not interesting at all - pretty straightforward date. Picked her up, go to starbucks, drive to a park, and have sex in the car. The only difficulty was handling her lame LMR and fake regret afterwards. I texted her a couple days after meeting and she told me over text she has a kid (she never brought that up!!!). I arrive at a fancy duplex near my neighborhood and see her in grey spandex, gold jewelry, and a low cut shirt. She wore a LOT of makeup with her cheeks an unnatural peachish-red color and mascara clumped to her eyelashes. On the way there, I banter about her dressing fancy and being Persian. I have never encountered a girl quite this feminine in her mannerisms or conversation skills. She exaggerated everything to cover up her nervousness or naturally flirts like that - anyways, her personality was different than we first met.
I connected with her that I grew up with a diverse group of friends and met a lot of Persians throughout my neighborhood. When we got to starbucks, I listened to her tell me how Persians are always trying to grow. Getting the best jobs, buying nice things, and living by good schools - all in the process of bettering themselves (that’s the way she phrased it). I did nothing at Starbucks besides banter and rapport, she was giving me such good reception I did not want to over-provide good feelings. I was more serious than usual, hardly smiling, and being low-energy as possible. I have dealt with flirts before and giving them energy keeps them ranting instead of getting intimate. After 10 minutes of Starbucks, we start walking around the open-air mall. She started questioning me more, but I answered it all seriously. Here was her most interesting question:
We get back to the car and drive to the park with my hand on her lap the entire time. I drive a couple laps around the park until I find a HUGE tree blocking the streetlights - like pitch black under this tree. We are still parked on the street, but its in a residential neighborhood, not a lot of activity. I parked the car suggesting we gaze at the stars, even though the tree blocked everything LOL! The girl started shifting in her seat and batting her eyes at me after I turned off the car. After 5 min. of talking about stars, I went for the kiss:
I manhandle kissed her and she returned it softly. Didn’t move her lips at all, just puckered the top lip and had me suck it (kinda weird). I caressed her scalp with one hand and ass with the other. After 2 min. or so of this, she didn’t give me tongue so I kissed along the jawline. She let out her first gasp of air here (this is where I loose it). I start becoming aggressive by squeezing her ass with both hands and moving from one side of the jawline to the other. I try pulling her shirt down over her breasts while kissing her collarbone, but the shirt wouldn’t come down b/c of the aesthetic design. We are in the driver and shotgun side of the car (front). I reach my hand in the shirt, but she softly stops me:
I turn up the escalation and start fingering her before she gets a chance to respond. She’s completely lost in animalistic lust, but I wanted to be extra cautious in case she pulls something else. After a couple seconds I get my middle and ring finger in and start fingering towards her body aggressively.
Loudest moan I ever heard, OMG. I took the opportunity of taking my pants off (I had no underwear on).
She sat on top of me in the back seat and made out with me - HARD. She pulled her pants like half-way off in order to get me in. With one hand she had my cock and the other running through my hair. She tried bouncing to get it in, but I stopped her and put the condom on. I am ashamed to say that after 5 sec. I came. I noticed that if I have a full bladder, I come quicker - not to mention being in a car makes it too exciting. I used Franco’s technique for framing this the right way.
She didn’t answer but laid in the back of the car and started rubbing her clitoris. I took the condom off and started fingering her while she moaned loudly. I thought she was faking it, but after a couple minutes her body went rigid, the moaning stopped, and she eagle gripped my arm. At least she orgasmed by my hand!
I could tell this was a poorly done LMR, so I didn’t extend much effort either. She was so emotional and a good actress that I was not sure if anything she said was real that whole night. It was so funny, she even told me this was a shit test in the car on the way home. She said that I didn’t want to think badly of her, so I said sex was a good thing and I have a socially progressive view of women. She admitted to dating a white guy before, but she still had to check. After I said that, her personality went back to her goofy self when I met her at school. She started cracking jokes and became less dramatic/emotional. When I walked her back to the house, she let me kiss her once quickly b/c she didn’t want the neighbors to see us.
Overview:
After this lay, things started going awry. She texted me the next week for a date during the day at school, but I declined b/c we couldn’t have sex there. I only met up with her twice after that at night from May to the end of June. I got put in the boyfriend zone b/c she:
-Wanted to set up real dates
-Wanted to see where I live
-Wanted to hang out at my house and meet my parents
-Started texting me randomly throughout the day, even while I was on vacation
Upon first meeting her, I said I was excited to move out and didn’t want to stay in the area. She understood and on the second FWB date, I said we are seeing each other for fun. It’s been a month since she lasted texted me, but I’ve moved on. The sex on the two dates after that was fantastic, lasting 15-20 sessions in public on the grass under a towel I don’t think I should of dragged it out any longer than I did.
I wrote up 3/4 of the report in May, but wanted to gather more cultural information on Middle-Eastern culture before posting. I think my knowledge of Middle-Eastern culture helped me connect with her from the get-go.
Cultural Aspects
Before I go into the report, there are a few cultural facts about Persians I was able to cold-read or connect with them later in the conversation. I read a couple books on Arab and Persian culture and compared their personal interactions with Americans. I am writing this down because from a Western perspective, it may appear Arab girls are flirting. I have only been studying this material for a couple months and any input would be appreciated! I am not creating stereotypes, but gathering generalizations from my experiences and books to help me interact with Middle-Eastern girls. In my area, there are many new Middle-Eastern immigrants, so I definitely noticed these trends.
-Many Middle-Eastern friends of mine have complained about the burden of having big families requiring constant attention.
-Enthusiastic and thorough introductions. (What I thought was a hook).
-Asking personal questions like relationship status openly is normal. (Thought she was flirting with me).
-Asking someone out to lunch/food is normal because being isolated is rare. (I thought she wanted an instant date).
My Background
This report holds great significance because I have had biased experience interacting with Middle-Eastern (Arab and Persian) girls. From middle school to college, every girl that has REALLY gotten under my skin was a serial flirt middle-eastern girl. Before joining the site, I was an awkward introvert that was drawn to emotional, talkative, and voluptuous girls. In fact, the girl who motivated me to approach is Arab
Being able to attract my type of girl really boosted morale. College Background
I graduated from college less than a year ago, but took 2 programming night classes during the spring semester (January-May) at a community college. I was 22 at the time, so I blended in quite well with everyone else. M-TH after work, I would go into class from 5-615pm and spend 2 hours in a classroom tutoring center. Every time I went, there was the same Persian girl surrounded by a group of friends speaking Farsi. Ironically, almost all the tutors in the center were Persian, so frequent attendees were mostly Persian (with the exception of me - I’m white). Besides the day I approached her, I never talked to her over the 5 month period. I had social proof, with all the tutors, office clerks, and several students knowing my name by the second month. However, I preferred to work alone after greeting people in the center so I could leave to do day game while running errands!
Persian Girl
28 y.o., 5’7’’ in height, DD boobs, big ass, slight muffin top so she wasn’t skinny. Feminine, dramatic, and emotional personality - she loves toying with people. Unusual hair style for a Persian girl, short curly hair at her shoulders with greasy mouse. Probably weighs more than me because she has muscular legs and arms. She was quirky and energetic from the get-go, strange how aloof she was with other people. Turns out she moved to the U.S. 6 years ago and got divorced after a couple years. The chances of immigrants staying together in marriage in the U.S. is quite low.
Series of Events:
5/7
-Met girl in tutoring room
-Walked around and kissed
-Ate lunch
5/10
-Picked her up
-Starbucks and walked around
-Fucked in car
Pt. 1 Meeting her
5/7
I took the day off work and went to the tutoring center at 12pm prepared to spend the whole day. I wore tungsten rings on both hands, blue neff beanie, navy basketball shorts, BRIGHT red nike basketball shoes, and a red henly with a hood. Along with that, I had full stubble - aka not in the mood to meet anyone that day
I walk into the classroom, say my introduction to the clerk, sign in at the desk and position myself RIGHT across the desk from the Persian girl. This was the first time ever seeing her without the Persian group, so I had to take a chance. Since I got laid twice over the weekend, I had absolutely no motivation to approach and after 20 sec. of inactivity I was like “fuck it I don’t care” and didn’t open - just pulled out my laptop and started working.
What I saw next was hilarious, a guy opening her while starting to sit down and BLOWING OUT! The guy has boring fundamentals and dressed frumpy. I see the guy in there every day, but very awkward to talk to. Whenever I tried starting a conversation he would just nod and mutter something unintelligible back to me - absolutely no social calibration.
After working for around 5 min., I got sick of this uncomfortable feeling of not being able to talk to the Persian girl. I decided that by bringing a tutor to the table, I could get pre-selection (maybe
) and her attention for a conversation. I get up, talk to the hottest tutor (asian, skinny but pretty and dressed well) and bring her to the table. It was my first time meeting the tutor, so I deep-dived about her and she did the same. After a couple minutes, I don’t really mention the problem - just continued talking instead. She asks about my professor and I tell her interesting facts about the tests, how it’s structured, ect. All of a sudden, the Persian girl dramatically interrupts us. I worked with the tutor for about 10 min. on a specific problem, then called the Persian girl over.
I start talk about the online test a bit. She doesn’t move that close to me, but sits in the swivel chair next to me. She then asks me about what classes I am taking and with who.
The girl starts talking about her life story about trying to be a programmer, but complains hows the classes are so hard. She tells me how she grew up in Iran and moved to the U.S. five years ago after Russia.
She admits to seeing me in the tutoring center all the time working hard by myself. She says she likes that I am along trying to get stuff done because she is swarmed with Persian guys trying to talk to her. She also mentions how Indian guys in her programming class are always trying to talk to her by asking dumb questions (nudging my arm as she tells the story). She tells the story with such enthusiasm I am wondering if she is treating me like a girl or is always that bubbly. I am talking about a 16 y.o. girl rambling on about Harry Styles or something!
As we walk out of the building, I perform a lot of kinos - arm pinching, pushing, putting my hand on her waist. She was not resisting to anything and returned all of them as well. There was a lot of people on campus that day, but I wanted to escalate fast with her. I deep-dive and it turns out she lives 8 blocks away from my house (1 min by car lol). As we turn a corner by the building, I go in for the kiss.
There are people walking nearby, but I felt so excited I didn’t care. We eventually sit down and eat our lunches. She feeds me the soup and tries cold-reading me by examining my occupation and clothes lol. This is where i used my previous knowledge of Persians to use the mother of all cold-reads.
She was so shocked that she opened her mouth and could barely speak. She admitted to being overwhelmed by her Persian family and friends wanting to be around her all the time. After eating, we get up and I suggest we find a garbage can. I took her to the other side of the pillar, took away the lunch pale, shoved her against the wall, and started making out. I had my left hand running through her hair and my right grabbing her big ass. She stopping me from kissing her in the middle of it by putting her index finger on my lips. I pull out the dirty talk:
She picked up her lunch pail and following me into the classroom. In front of a couple of Persian friends, she handed me her phone to get my number. When she was across the table, we texted.
Me: X, thanks for the soup! Save my number - Barry =)
X: You are very welcome blue boy
Me: Stop it, I gotta do hw ;P
X: You stop it mean boy
Pt. 2 Date 5/10
This part was not interesting at all - pretty straightforward date. Picked her up, go to starbucks, drive to a park, and have sex in the car. The only difficulty was handling her lame LMR and fake regret afterwards. I texted her a couple days after meeting and she told me over text she has a kid (she never brought that up!!!). I arrive at a fancy duplex near my neighborhood and see her in grey spandex, gold jewelry, and a low cut shirt. She wore a LOT of makeup with her cheeks an unnatural peachish-red color and mascara clumped to her eyelashes. On the way there, I banter about her dressing fancy and being Persian. I have never encountered a girl quite this feminine in her mannerisms or conversation skills. She exaggerated everything to cover up her nervousness or naturally flirts like that - anyways, her personality was different than we first met.
I connected with her that I grew up with a diverse group of friends and met a lot of Persians throughout my neighborhood. When we got to starbucks, I listened to her tell me how Persians are always trying to grow. Getting the best jobs, buying nice things, and living by good schools - all in the process of bettering themselves (that’s the way she phrased it). I did nothing at Starbucks besides banter and rapport, she was giving me such good reception I did not want to over-provide good feelings. I was more serious than usual, hardly smiling, and being low-energy as possible. I have dealt with flirts before and giving them energy keeps them ranting instead of getting intimate. After 10 minutes of Starbucks, we start walking around the open-air mall. She started questioning me more, but I answered it all seriously. Here was her most interesting question:
We get back to the car and drive to the park with my hand on her lap the entire time. I drive a couple laps around the park until I find a HUGE tree blocking the streetlights - like pitch black under this tree. We are still parked on the street, but its in a residential neighborhood, not a lot of activity. I parked the car suggesting we gaze at the stars, even though the tree blocked everything LOL! The girl started shifting in her seat and batting her eyes at me after I turned off the car. After 5 min. of talking about stars, I went for the kiss:
I manhandle kissed her and she returned it softly. Didn’t move her lips at all, just puckered the top lip and had me suck it (kinda weird). I caressed her scalp with one hand and ass with the other. After 2 min. or so of this, she didn’t give me tongue so I kissed along the jawline. She let out her first gasp of air here (this is where I loose it
). I start becoming aggressive by squeezing her ass with both hands and moving from one side of the jawline to the other. I try pulling her shirt down over her breasts while kissing her collarbone, but the shirt wouldn’t come down b/c of the aesthetic design. We are in the driver and shotgun side of the car (front). I reach my hand in the shirt, but she softly stops me:I start making out with her and I take off my shoes and end up in the back seat. I remembered to put up the sun visor as well. She does another lame LMR.
I turn up the escalation and start fingering her before she gets a chance to respond. She’s completely lost in animalistic lust, but I wanted to be extra cautious in case she pulls something else. After a couple seconds I get my middle and ring finger in and start fingering towards her body aggressively.
Loudest moan I ever heard, OMG. I took the opportunity of taking my pants off (I had no underwear on).
She sat on top of me in the back seat and made out with me - HARD. She pulled her pants like half-way off in order to get me in. With one hand she had my cock and the other running through my hair. She tried bouncing to get it in, but I stopped her and put the condom on. I am ashamed to say that after 5 sec. I came. I noticed that if I have a full bladder, I come quicker - not to mention being in a car makes it too exciting. I used Franco’s technique for framing this the right way.
She didn’t answer but laid in the back of the car and started rubbing her clitoris. I took the condom off and started fingering her while she moaned loudly. I thought she was faking it, but after a couple minutes her body went rigid, the moaning stopped, and she eagle gripped my arm. At least she orgasmed by my hand!
I could tell this was a poorly done LMR, so I didn’t extend much effort either. She was so emotional and a good actress that I was not sure if anything she said was real that whole night. It was so funny, she even told me this was a shit test in the car on the way home. She said that I didn’t want to think badly of her, so I said sex was a good thing and I have a socially progressive view of women. She admitted to dating a white guy before, but she still had to check. After I said that, her personality went back to her goofy self when I met her at school. She started cracking jokes and became less dramatic/emotional. When I walked her back to the house, she let me kiss her once quickly b/c she didn’t want the neighbors to see us.
Overview:
After this lay, things started going awry. She texted me the next week for a date during the day at school, but I declined b/c we couldn’t have sex there. I only met up with her twice after that at night from May to the end of June. I got put in the boyfriend zone b/c she:
-Wanted to set up real dates
-Wanted to see where I live
-Wanted to hang out at my house and meet my parents
-Started texting me randomly throughout the day, even while I was on vacation
Upon first meeting her, I said I was excited to move out and didn’t want to stay in the area. She understood and on the second FWB date, I said we are seeing each other for fun. It’s been a month since she lasted texted me, but I’ve moved on. The sex on the two dates after that was fantastic, lasting 15-20 sessions in public on the grass under a towel
I don’t think I should of dragged it out any longer than I did.
