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I admit, I'm supposed to be reading for exams but I'm procrastinating like hell. Good luck that the exams are a few weeks further away.
I decided to do a short meter which shows easily the range of AI's and CAS's which I've gotten so far. Feel free to build up your own and put it as a reply. Mine doesn't have for example direct openers from women as case examples, I haven't really had those yet (I guess there are indirect openers from them but anyway)
From bottom to top
cold approach shields
(This one was years ago)
-2 I'm looking at this one gal across the room I have a crush on. She's eating her lunch and notices me. Goes almost instantly to switch the side of the table so that our eyes don't meet anymore and she's her back towards me. Well that was a cold one, but looking at it now she was probably just inexperienced and got nervous by the whole thing.
(This one around a year ago)
-1 I'm standing in a bus and I notice my crush is standing at the other end of the bus. She notices me, looks for a second or two and rolls her eyes in a really bitchy gesture. I really wanted to flip a finger for her act, geez. Thanks for giving a great start for the morning.
Neutral zone
-0 I'm at an evening event and I notice this really gorgeous gal sitting further away at the table. She notices me and gives a selfproud-like smile with a sarcastic hint (she doesn't even look at me while doing it), like "Well here's a smile for you. Happy?" Yeah, thanks for the obvious turnoff.
+0 I'm walking at a corridor. This one gal sits alongside it at a bench and gives me a long look. Doesn't show any emotions, just stares. Thanks, I guess?
Check-outs and approach invitations
+1 I'm eating a lunch at a table. I look to another table on the side where there's a group of women. One of them has turned to check me out. She looks for a few seconds, then turns back for her friends. / I'm sitting at the same diner another day. It's a huge diner and I'm just watching people passing by. I turn my view to the queue at the far side, around 10 meters away. There's quite a pretty woman checking me out and she slowly turns her view away once I notice her. I'm sitting behind a pillar so I'm almost hidden from the queue, but I still got the gal's attention just by sitting there and doing nothing. That's a confidence boost.
+2 I'm eating a lunch at yet another diner
There's a woman, a bit older than me, sitting at another table with a friend of her. She takes glances towards me at times. At one point she starts to beat her foot sole at the floor, like when someone's really excited and he/she has to vent the energy. I wonder where she got that energy surge, probably from the food. During the peak of the whole thing she's giving me some quite lustful stares. Should've probably just gone and approached her. Well, my bad that I didn't.
+3 I'm at an evening event and there's a gal further away. She gives me a sexy, confident smile and finishes the gesture with a wink. The amount of energy I had during the rest of the evening, wow.
This thread is not about bragging, but to indeed show the range of experiences which can be had relating to just the dimension of approach invitations, both positive and negative.
So keep doing the thing that you do, don't give up. Always rise back on your feet.
Replies are welcome and appreciated!
I decided to do a short meter which shows easily the range of AI's and CAS's which I've gotten so far. Feel free to build up your own and put it as a reply. Mine doesn't have for example direct openers from women as case examples, I haven't really had those yet (I guess there are indirect openers from them but anyway)
From bottom to top
cold approach shields
(This one was years ago)
-2 I'm looking at this one gal across the room I have a crush on. She's eating her lunch and notices me. Goes almost instantly to switch the side of the table so that our eyes don't meet anymore and she's her back towards me. Well that was a cold one, but looking at it now she was probably just inexperienced and got nervous by the whole thing.
(This one around a year ago)
-1 I'm standing in a bus and I notice my crush is standing at the other end of the bus. She notices me, looks for a second or two and rolls her eyes in a really bitchy gesture. I really wanted to flip a finger for her act, geez. Thanks for giving a great start for the morning.
Neutral zone
-0 I'm at an evening event and I notice this really gorgeous gal sitting further away at the table. She notices me and gives a selfproud-like smile with a sarcastic hint (she doesn't even look at me while doing it), like "Well here's a smile for you. Happy?" Yeah, thanks for the obvious turnoff.
+0 I'm walking at a corridor. This one gal sits alongside it at a bench and gives me a long look. Doesn't show any emotions, just stares. Thanks, I guess?
Check-outs and approach invitations
+1 I'm eating a lunch at a table. I look to another table on the side where there's a group of women. One of them has turned to check me out. She looks for a few seconds, then turns back for her friends. / I'm sitting at the same diner another day. It's a huge diner and I'm just watching people passing by. I turn my view to the queue at the far side, around 10 meters away. There's quite a pretty woman checking me out and she slowly turns her view away once I notice her. I'm sitting behind a pillar so I'm almost hidden from the queue, but I still got the gal's attention just by sitting there and doing nothing. That's a confidence boost.
+2 I'm eating a lunch at yet another diner
There's a woman, a bit older than me, sitting at another table with a friend of her. She takes glances towards me at times. At one point she starts to beat her foot sole at the floor, like when someone's really excited and he/she has to vent the energy. I wonder where she got that energy surge, probably from the food. During the peak of the whole thing she's giving me some quite lustful stares. Should've probably just gone and approached her. Well, my bad that I didn't.+3 I'm at an evening event and there's a gal further away. She gives me a sexy, confident smile and finishes the gesture with a wink. The amount of energy I had during the rest of the evening, wow.
This thread is not about bragging, but to indeed show the range of experiences which can be had relating to just the dimension of approach invitations, both positive and negative.
So keep doing the thing that you do, don't give up. Always rise back on your feet.
Replies are welcome and appreciated!
