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Alright guys, I'm actually getting girls phone numbers now (frequently)! But it doesn't help that I am bad at doing anything with the numbers.
For example, yesterday I went to my college to get some admissions stuff out of the way and talked to 7 girls and got 2 numbers. These weren't long interactions, the ones I got numbers on lasted like 2-3 minutes then got cut short by the girl having to leave, then before she leaves me qualifying her and suggesting a date then taking a number.
So usually I:
- pre open the girl with eye contact and a smile
- open the girl (always direct)
- then trade names and make some small talk (so where are you headed today? What brought you out here today?)
- deep dive them on their majors in college (I tell them how cool the major is then ask how they got into it then speak to them on that for a bit)
- then the girl has to leave because we walked together to her parking garage or something and I qualify (compliment her on her personality and looks) and suggest a date, she may say yes or maybe (usually not a no) then I take a number and check it to make sure it's real
Then with the number I am clueless. I got 2 numbers yesterday morning and decided I would call both girls in the evening of the same day with no texting at all. When I called, none of them answered. In the past I'd send them text messages but I guess I'd do it wrong as I'd get no responding texts.
Where do I go from here? I've heard that it helps to:
-Suggest the date in person (which I do)
-Have longer interactions
-Be more sexy and chase frame, push pull etc. (basically turn her on more initially according to Ray)
-Set up a time to call the girl and tell her that I'm bad at text
-Make the first text a greeting and a callback to something funny in the interaction
That's what I've heard but it's hard to have longer interactions when the girl has to leave so soon or turn her on when I'm inexperienced at turning girls on, so where do you think I go from here?
For example, yesterday I went to my college to get some admissions stuff out of the way and talked to 7 girls and got 2 numbers. These weren't long interactions, the ones I got numbers on lasted like 2-3 minutes then got cut short by the girl having to leave, then before she leaves me qualifying her and suggesting a date then taking a number.
So usually I:
- pre open the girl with eye contact and a smile
- open the girl (always direct)
- then trade names and make some small talk (so where are you headed today? What brought you out here today?)
- deep dive them on their majors in college (I tell them how cool the major is then ask how they got into it then speak to them on that for a bit)
- then the girl has to leave because we walked together to her parking garage or something and I qualify (compliment her on her personality and looks) and suggest a date, she may say yes or maybe (usually not a no) then I take a number and check it to make sure it's real
Then with the number I am clueless. I got 2 numbers yesterday morning and decided I would call both girls in the evening of the same day with no texting at all. When I called, none of them answered. In the past I'd send them text messages but I guess I'd do it wrong as I'd get no responding texts.
Where do I go from here? I've heard that it helps to:
-Suggest the date in person (which I do)
-Have longer interactions
-Be more sexy and chase frame, push pull etc. (basically turn her on more initially according to Ray)
-Set up a time to call the girl and tell her that I'm bad at text
-Make the first text a greeting and a callback to something funny in the interaction
That's what I've heard but it's hard to have longer interactions when the girl has to leave so soon or turn her on when I'm inexperienced at turning girls on, so where do you think I go from here?
