Pick Date Location

[mjk1234]

I got a girl's number and I have been texting her in the style of Chase's articles on texting. It's working wonders; I have a date set up for tomorrow night. Now I need to pick the location. There is a bar about 100 yards from my apartment that would be perfect. It's nice and it's incredibly convenient to pull her back to my place. I have no idea where she lives so I don't know if it's a convenient location for her.

Do I just tell her to meet me there assuming that if she's interested, she will just go along? Or do I show consideration and ask where she lives and find something mid-way between us, assuming that if she's interested I can pull her from a location further from my place?

 

[Franco]

Hey mj,

Invite her to the bar that is close to your place. You always want your logistics to be as optimal as possible, and generally, women comply with your requests as long as you're clear about where and what it is you are inviting her to. If it is extremely out of the way, she will let you know, and she'll probably request something a bit closer for her.

Always suggest what works best for you though, first. The last girl I bedded drove almost 30 minutes to have a drink with me after only conversing with me for about 20 minutes at a bar. I can tell you right now that she did not regret it one bit... just make sure not to let this girl regret it either!

- Franco

 

[mjk1234]

Thanks, Franco! I suspected that was the answer and wanted some confirmation. Falls in line with spezzatura. When in doubt, put in the least amount of effort.

Believe me, if I bed her, she will not regret it and will never forget it I will also post a LR when appropriate. I owe this site at least that much!