Pick up Strategy, which is better?

[Hugh]

Hey All,
So lately Ive been going out to bars with a new group of people. Their strategy for getting women is to talk amongst the group in a high energy fun way, and ignore the surrounding environment, until they get approached, if they get approached by women. I can see this being really effective on the women that they get approached by, but it limits their variety of women greatly. The way I go about my business is by interacting with the environment (other people) as much as possible until i find the right girl. I am curious of what others thoughts on the subject are, which is more effective?

Thanks,
Hugh

 

[Franco]

Hugh,

This method really isn't that effective, although I'm sure your friends have a few tricks up their sleeves to at least make it slightly more effective than it would be if it was your first time trying it. There's no guarantee that the women who approach you are interested in you, and there's no guarantee that the women who approach you are even attractive to you.

While this method will net you results occasionally, in the amount of time it takes you to net one average-looking girl who is possibly interested in something physical with you, you could have nabbed 4-8 phone numbers of much more attractive women who are likely much more interested if you cold approached them directly and then received a number from them.

So if you're asking whether or not this method can get you results... it CAN, but it's just going to be much, MUCH less efficient than directly approaching the women you want to meet directly. It sounds like your method is much more effective, so I would just keep doing what you're doing to get women if it's working for you. =)

- Franco

 

[Hugh]

Your a boss Franco, Thanks

 

[SaltyT]

I deff dont recommend what you are doing... It just makes you look like a guy that hides in it's atmosphere, i've done it before, when girls are interested in you they don't just check you out, they check out everyone in your group, then they do the female judging in every person (the way they dress, walk, laugh, what they are drinking, etc)

It's insane because you can be awesome but you can't control your other people..AND...if you leave them for an other girl they will remember how "bored they made you so you had to leave" in a sarcastic way..

If you want to approach in bars and clubs you need to have a subtle way to approach...

Let's say there are two girls talking... you just don't approach and say any line, you have to wait that "cold" moment in their conversation, then go to talk, approach from behind or at the side of the girl you like, then talk to them and say something like "i'm sorry i tough you were someone i know, anyways i'm X," you guys look too good to be sitting here well too good for the dance floor too, My name is X, you guys are talking about me? they say NO, then why not? (cute smile :3) i'm X, Hey! I'm not from town (or i'm from town but have never seen these beauties), what is this bar like, why aren't cute girls dancing? My name is X"

I always say lines like this, or something stupid to make them smile and tell me their name... of course your fundamentals have to be like AWESOME... then it's basically the same, past small talk, deep dive, shit like that... learn to dance (real dancing not just fist punk)

Night game is such a awesome way to meet woman, if you need advices just ask bro, but don't recommend that way you are doing, anyways it's good to try new stuff i like that..