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Picking up girls at conventions

Raqimus

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I'm attending an anime convention and I've been trying to pickup girls, today I went in civy clothes and I want to say I aproached like 5-10 girls complimented a hole bunch more and had exchanges with quite a few aswell. I get my social juices flowing with everyone. I got rejected each time, I'm not upset I just think there is something I am doing wrong. For one I feel like I am far to confident for these women because even in my civy clothes women are checking me out and when I enter a room or panel everyone immediately turns. I have the presence but I feel like my attainability might be the issue here along with just carrying the conversation. I'm gonna cosplay tomorrow and see if my rates improve.

Has anyone tried picking up girls at anime conventions or any other conventions for that matter? Any tips would be appreciated.
 

Man-O

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I haven't but you can be pretty sure to deep dive and qualify the girls you see there about the stuff that happens on conventions without going all wrong.

Else it's simply like any other daygame. Stay relaxed and keep having fun and give fun + sexual vibe and don't talk for more than 5 mins.
When I'm confident I sometimes have too much energy compared to the girls I talk with. It may be the reason why you get rejected.

Simple pickup got a video where they pick up girls at a convention.
 

Raqimus

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Hey Man-O quick update. I tried at the convention, got rejected 15 times lmao no closes. I feel like a lot of what it is, is that I've separated from the anime community so to speak, I haven't been that much into anime more than manga so I couldn't relate to all these newer animes and shit, I felt a bit too high value(in terms of socializing, so I noticed awkwardness). In my cosplay my fashion was on point everything fit and I had some sick chelsea boots and I consider myself attractive in the face (Women would always be checking me out) I didn't fit the mold, there would be guys who fit the mold, overweight etc and theyd grab a girls number ( don't think it ever amounted to anything it as more of a get this guy away from what I noticed).

Maybe it was my approaches, I approached confidently, maybe almost too confident, I felt like I was a threat to the pussy so to speak, maybe I was too direct, not enough friendly, not enough sexuality, maybe I was too serious, maybe I was too condescending, maybe I approached the wrong girls! I've been analyzing the stuff I did wrong and still am. I just don't think I was approaching these girls correctly. I'll try some different stuff next year and who knows by then maybe the stuff I'm working on now on the street will work. Still enjoyed every interaction and the convention of course.

Oh yea and a lot of them had boyfriends! so there was attraction but that may have prevented some stuff.
 
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