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After work my approach started off with a chance meeting with a girl I slept with but didn't fuck (she was a virgin). She stopped me and said heyy! I greeted her but couldn't remember her name. She was with a group of friends but she left them to say hi to me. The girl seemed like she fell in love with me the first night and she was looking at me with the same loving eyes now. We made chitchat for a while, I told her to write to me and not be a stranger and left.
Next, I saw two beautiful tall girls. They were really beautiful. One was a blond with blue eyes, the other seemed asian. I saw them go past me and told myself fuck it I'm gonna approach those chicks. Even though I usually do better with asians I decided to approach the blond because I liked her more. I walked fast got past them and turned and told the blond:
- I saw you walk and I had to come and tell you (pregnant pause) that you have the best fashion sense I saw today.
And it was true she wore a summer dress and wore a hat, she was gorgeous. She said thank you I introduced myself, they did the same we got to talking. They wore both from Kryghizistan. The blond was visiting her friend who studied in Istanbul. She seemed really interested in me. She was smiling, answering my questions excitedly etc. Her friend even started to walk a bit further away to give us room to speak. They stopped and were trying to decide where to go. I had two options either I could continue hanging out with them or I could ask her for a coffee. I thought she is staying here for two weeks so I can meet up with her later and would have some privacy or I could continue hanging out with them and see what happens. I decided to ask for a coffee because (i) I didn't wanna be a nuisance and (ii) it would have been hard to isolate her from her friend. But honestly, I think they would have been cool with me hanging out with them. I asked the blond to drink a coffee with me (I think I transitioned from how long she was staying in Istanbul). She was flustered and said she wasn't allowed to because she had a husband. I didn't force it. I gave them high fives and wished them an enjoyable time in Istanbul.
I think I should have opted to hang out with them and try to isolate her later. Because she did say they were tired and would go to bed early after eating and walking a bit more. Next time, I'll try that.
Next I appriached a girl who was walking beside me.She was cute, dressed sexy with military pants and a cute top. She had a piercing on her nose and two on her teeth. She was carrying two birds. I asked her if they sang. She said they didn't, we continued to talk a bit more. She was wearing owl earring and to let her know why I was talking to her I said I liked them and said something about her liking birds. I suggested grabbing something to drink. She agreed and we went inside. I deep dived (not gonna write her life story here). She bought the birds today so we named them. She gave me something she handcrafted.
She chose this place and we were sitting across each other so I moved her to another place I know. I ordered a beer and she ordered a coke. Once she was comfortable she said she broke up with her boyfriend that day. I listened a bit, maybe she needed to get it out of her chest? She said she only had 2 boyfriends, one was only for a week and the next and last one was for a year and a half. They weren't sexual. They went to a hotel but slept in separete rooms. I gave a speech about how we are all animals and we want to mate and reproduce and how did it get so complicated, similar to what chase recommends. Anyhow I threw a bored look after that whenever she talked about her bf after that. She would see me do it, change the topic I would continue to talk with her then she would mention her bf again (that's exactly like what he does! etc.). I told her straight up: Are we gonna talk about your ex all day because frankly it's boring for me.
She was sorta okay with me touching her and warmed up to my touch gradually but didn't comply to simple requests. I would inspect her bracelets (she had a ton). But she wouldn't bring her chair when I asked her to. At first I thought this cool marginal chick would be experienced but no she was a virgin and religious to boot.
One thing which was cool was she didn't remember my name. So I made told her, she asked me to guess her name. She forgot we already exchanged names. I wass hmmm (her name). She was shocked. She asked me repeatedly how I knew. I told her it was just a lucky guess. I made her guess my middle name and gave her the inital letter and three tries. She couldn't and asked me to do same and gave me the inital and three tries. I said firuze (first name I could think of) then fatma (maybe the most common name with that initial). The look on her face was priceless when she realized I guessed it at the second try. She said the first name (firuze) was a gemstone she was wearing on her necklace so that's probably why I thought of that at first. I was growing bored so I suggested we bounce. She asked me whether I had a time limit. She wanted to spend more time. I said no but I just wanted to walk.
My plan was to ask her to come with me to a hotel. It was a pretty low chance but what the hell what did I have to lose? She didn't want to hold my hand when I was leading her so I knew that this wouldn't go anywhere. She wanted to spend more time but I was trying to find a way to eject in a socially graceful way. I already spent too much time with her at that point. She bought me a coffee and we talked a bit more. The place was a gay friendly place and she told me she kissed a girl (butch type lesbian) but didn't do anything else. And I suggested we bounce and left her.
I should have left her when she shouldn't stop talking about her ex. It was obvious her mind was still on him.
Cold approach is fun. Much more fun then online gaming. I'm gonna master this shit!
Next, I saw two beautiful tall girls. They were really beautiful. One was a blond with blue eyes, the other seemed asian. I saw them go past me and told myself fuck it I'm gonna approach those chicks. Even though I usually do better with asians I decided to approach the blond because I liked her more. I walked fast got past them and turned and told the blond:
- I saw you walk and I had to come and tell you (pregnant pause) that you have the best fashion sense I saw today.
And it was true she wore a summer dress and wore a hat, she was gorgeous. She said thank you I introduced myself, they did the same we got to talking. They wore both from Kryghizistan. The blond was visiting her friend who studied in Istanbul. She seemed really interested in me. She was smiling, answering my questions excitedly etc. Her friend even started to walk a bit further away to give us room to speak. They stopped and were trying to decide where to go. I had two options either I could continue hanging out with them or I could ask her for a coffee. I thought she is staying here for two weeks so I can meet up with her later and would have some privacy or I could continue hanging out with them and see what happens. I decided to ask for a coffee because (i) I didn't wanna be a nuisance and (ii) it would have been hard to isolate her from her friend. But honestly, I think they would have been cool with me hanging out with them. I asked the blond to drink a coffee with me (I think I transitioned from how long she was staying in Istanbul). She was flustered and said she wasn't allowed to because she had a husband. I didn't force it. I gave them high fives and wished them an enjoyable time in Istanbul.
I think I should have opted to hang out with them and try to isolate her later. Because she did say they were tired and would go to bed early after eating and walking a bit more. Next time, I'll try that.
Next I appriached a girl who was walking beside me.She was cute, dressed sexy with military pants and a cute top. She had a piercing on her nose and two on her teeth. She was carrying two birds. I asked her if they sang. She said they didn't, we continued to talk a bit more. She was wearing owl earring and to let her know why I was talking to her I said I liked them and said something about her liking birds. I suggested grabbing something to drink. She agreed and we went inside. I deep dived (not gonna write her life story here). She bought the birds today so we named them. She gave me something she handcrafted.
She chose this place and we were sitting across each other so I moved her to another place I know. I ordered a beer and she ordered a coke. Once she was comfortable she said she broke up with her boyfriend that day. I listened a bit, maybe she needed to get it out of her chest? She said she only had 2 boyfriends, one was only for a week and the next and last one was for a year and a half. They weren't sexual. They went to a hotel but slept in separete rooms. I gave a speech about how we are all animals and we want to mate and reproduce and how did it get so complicated, similar to what chase recommends. Anyhow I threw a bored look after that whenever she talked about her bf after that. She would see me do it, change the topic I would continue to talk with her then she would mention her bf again (that's exactly like what he does! etc.). I told her straight up: Are we gonna talk about your ex all day because frankly it's boring for me.
She was sorta okay with me touching her and warmed up to my touch gradually but didn't comply to simple requests. I would inspect her bracelets (she had a ton). But she wouldn't bring her chair when I asked her to. At first I thought this cool marginal chick would be experienced but no she was a virgin and religious to boot.
One thing which was cool was she didn't remember my name. So I made told her, she asked me to guess her name. She forgot we already exchanged names. I wass hmmm (her name). She was shocked. She asked me repeatedly how I knew. I told her it was just a lucky guess. I made her guess my middle name and gave her the inital letter and three tries. She couldn't and asked me to do same and gave me the inital and three tries. I said firuze (first name I could think of) then fatma (maybe the most common name with that initial). The look on her face was priceless when she realized I guessed it at the second try. She said the first name (firuze) was a gemstone she was wearing on her necklace so that's probably why I thought of that at first. I was growing bored so I suggested we bounce. She asked me whether I had a time limit. She wanted to spend more time. I said no but I just wanted to walk.
My plan was to ask her to come with me to a hotel. It was a pretty low chance but what the hell what did I have to lose? She didn't want to hold my hand when I was leading her so I knew that this wouldn't go anywhere. She wanted to spend more time but I was trying to find a way to eject in a socially graceful way. I already spent too much time with her at that point. She bought me a coffee and we talked a bit more. The place was a gay friendly place and she told me she kissed a girl (butch type lesbian) but didn't do anything else. And I suggested we bounce and left her.
I should have left her when she shouldn't stop talking about her ex. It was obvious her mind was still on him.
Cold approach is fun. Much more fun then online gaming. I'm gonna master this shit!
