Date Plans Plausible deniability to go to HER place

[Skjöldr]

Sounds like you got a good date vibe down. And you're handling some questions that a lot of guys don't deal with so well.

"No plan survives contact with the femininity. - Sum One, 1969,"

I wouldn't sweat it about not closing at the end of the date, seems like you did what you could and she wants to see you again.



Smooth. Stealing it.

Yeah i think so too. AFC days i would think "wow she said she wants to see me again!!!" But im gonna be more skeptical now. She probably wants to see me again but i wont get devastated if she doesnt. It was very smooth and my vibe was awesome. I had a very low energy vibe the whole time. If you know James Marshall you know what i mean. I had his vibe. Been binging his videos all week on youtube. She did 80-90% of the talking, i just asked more questions and sometimes related with a similiar story. I just said "riiiight...." "N'aalright...." "Yeeeah...." Hard to demonstrate on text but just think James Marshall from Natural Lifestyles hahaha.

Thinking about pinging her tomorrow or monday with a "Hey there, thanks for last time, i had alot of fun. Good luck seeing your parents soon!" Or summing and then 2 days later "Hey there, hope you are having a good day. How does your schedule look for next week?". Lemme know what you think.

 

[Skills]

the kiss at the end of the day = death sentence...

 

[Skjöldr]

the kiss at the end of the day = death sentence...

Yeahh i have heard about that. Some says not to kiss because it validates her. Others says to do it because it shows you can make a move. Idk who to believe.

How should you text a girl after a first date which didn't end up in bed? Wait for her to text? Wait 1, 2 or 3 days? Im confused man

 

[Skills]

Yeahh i have heard about that. Some says not to kiss because it validates her. Others says to do it because it shows you can make a move. Idk who to believe.

How should you text a girl after a first date which didn't end up in bed? Wait for her to text? Wait 1, 2 or 3 days? Im confused man

no! lets see i am doing my stuff, and for whatever reason i do not have the lay, i just set things up for the next encounter it should never get to the "kiss at the end of the date, consolation price" it screams chode.

 

[Skjöldr]

no! lets see i am doing my stuff, and for whatever reason i do not have the lay, i just set things up for the next encounter it should never get to the "kiss at the end of the date, consolation price" it screams chode.

One GC by Tony says he makes out with girls every few blocks on his way back home with a girl, others say not kiss a girl before you are home with her prior to sex and here it is recommended to kiss at the end of the date (as i sort of read it?). Idk point is, lots of conflicting things out there. Some say kiss, some say don't. Some say text her the same night saying you had a good time, others say wait 3-4 days. It is quite confusing and i'm not really getting an answer anywhere. Might just have to experiment with stuff myself.

 

[Skills]

One GC by Tony says he makes out with girls every few blocks on his way back home with a girl, others say not kiss a girl before you are home with her prior to sex and here it is recommended to kiss at the end of the date (as i sort of read it?). Idk point is, lots of conflicting things out there. Some say kiss, some say don't. Some say text her the same night saying you had a good time, others say wait 3-4 days. It is quite confusing and i'm not really getting an answer anywhere. Might just have to experiment with stuff myself.

is called context tony, makes out so do i, prior to sex = good.....

fast kissing for validation in clubs = kind of no good cause you amp up sexual tension with no investment it crashes down after....

Courtship go out and have a good time no sexual tension, no sexual frames, no she making a huge effort to control herself and not to fuck you for some out of control issues = kind of bad/consolation price..

I could not open the chase link...

 

[Skjöldr]

is called context tony, makes out so do i, prior to sex = good.....

fast kissing for validation in clubs = kind of no good cause you amp up sexual tension with no investment it crashes down after....

Courtship go out and have a good time no sexual tension, no sexual frames, no she making a huge effort to control herself and not to fuck you for some out of control issues = kind of bad/consolation price..

I could not open the chase link...

Here's the link: https://www.girlschase.com/content/points-no-return-seduction-and-courtships

Alright. Well i had shitty logistics. Couldn't get in with her. Other part of me thinks if she was dying to fuck me she would have made an excuse to push her work 30-60 minutes and have me fuck her before sending me on my way again. But idk, maybe the work was really important to her. She said we should schedule something some other time and after we did our quick kiss she said "see you!". She havent texted since the end of the date which is like 7-8 hours now. How long should i wait to text her if she doesn't text in the meantime? Can't help but force myself to have the attitude that she has a low priority because she didn't let me smash. How dare she oo. Haha. Ego protection i guess. Should have kissed her when we were on the bench in the park.

Her parents are coming to visit her on Tuesday. That'll be 3 days of no text since date. Thinking about not texting her before then (unless she beats me to it) and then hit her up with something like "Hey (name), hope your parents have arrived safe and sound! I'm busy this weekend, but how are your schedule looking the weekend after?" (I actually am busy that weekend and her parents are here to Friday the 26th. I want her to come Saturday-Sunday, that's a 2 weeks from now. If she says she needs some rest, then it'll be 3 weeks.)

 

[Skills]

Here's the link: https://www.girlschase.com/content/points-no-return-seduction-and-courtships

Alright. Well i had shitty logistics. Couldn't get in with her. Other part of me thinks if she was dying to fuck me she would have made an excuse to push her work 30-60 minutes and have me fuck her before sending me on my way again. But idk, maybe the work was really important to her. She said we should schedule something some other time and after we did our quick kiss she said "see you!". She havent texted since the end of the date which is like 7-8 hours now. How long should i wait to text her if she doesn't text in the meantime? Can't help but force myself to have the attitude that she has a low priority because she didn't let me smash. How dare she oo. Haha. Ego protection i guess. Should have kissed her when we were on the bench in the park.

Her parents are coming to visit her on Tuesday. That'll be 3 days of no text since date. Thinking about not texting her before then (unless she beats me to it) and then hit her up with something like "Hey (name), hope your parents have arrived safe and sound! I'm busy this weekend, but how are your schedule looking the weekend after?" (I actually am busy that weekend and her parents are here to Friday the 26th. I want her to come Saturday-Sunday, that's a 2 weeks from now. If she says she needs some rest, then it'll be 3 weeks.)

I do not have pay chase blog service, you guys keep posting links for chase so makes me run out of articles super fast.

I could not date for shit! i was used to either ons and/or setting sexual frames through text, i got good at dating accidentally recently (less than 3 years ago) when i sucked at dates, the only way i used to close second encounters was if we would meet at club a second time, or me going to her house/she comming to my house directly, but normal "dates" i sucked till i develop something called the 3 bounce my ratios totally skyrocket, now one thing i did as well was if i did the 3 bounce and for whatever reason i was not 100% sure sex was going to happen, i would do a second 3 bounce in a different location = 100% close rate by doing 2 3 bounce methods (live demo)

About texting, my only advice is not to schedule more than couple of days in advance.

 

[Skjöldr]

I do not have pay chase blog service, you guys keep posting links for chase so makes me run out of articles super fast.

I could not date for shit! i was used to either ons and/or setting sexual frames through text, i got good at dating accidentally recently (less than 3 years ago) when i sucked at dates, the only way i used to close second encounters was if we would meet at club a second time, or me going to her house/she comming to my house directly, but normal "dates" i sucked till i develop something called the 3 bounce my ratios totally skyrocket, now one thing i did as well was if i did the 3 bounce and for whatever reason i was not 100% sure sex was going to happen, i would do a second 3 bounce in a different location = 100% close rate by doing 2 3 bounce methods (live demo)

About texting, my only advice is not to schedule more than couple of days in advance.

Hm. I met this girl last sunday, set the date monday and didnt text until our meet up today. That's 5 day waiting and she didnt flake or anything. Confirming dates just doesnt fit my personality. If we set a date, it's on unless one of us speaks up. Her parents visit her until the 25th of June. Should i really ghost her until a few days before that?

 

[Skills]

Hm. I met this girl last sunday, set the date monday and didnt text until our meet up today. That's 5 day waiting and she didnt flake or anything. Confirming dates just doesnt fit my personality. If we set a date, it's on unless one of us speaks up. Her parents visit her until the 25th of June. Should i really ghost her until a few days before that?

yeah i don't confirm dates either... that is good if she did not flake i am saying higher odds scheduling few days in advance vs far away in advance....

 

[Skjöldr]

yeah i don't confirm dates either... that is good if she did not flake i am saying higher odds scheduling few days in advance vs far away in advance....

Yeah i'll just have to live with these bad logistics. What would you do in this situation?