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GodsGift said:
You mean the "nice guy" as in playing the guy who gives women what they want? or the "nice guy" that people say and what most guys are doing?
Zac
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GodsGift, in the pick up community you'll find out that playing the nice guy role has almost no advantages, and a plethora of disadvantages.
The "nice guy" mentality has too many "weaker" mindsets that help to push women away, and the majority of nice guys provide no chase to women, and usually qualify themselves to the woman, again, providing no chase. Nice guys also have the tendency to do too much for the woman, beckoning to her every whim and gesture, and the only women who fall for these guys are abusive, controlling, dominant, or insecure, all types of women you don't want!
However, I'm not sure what to classify myself as, whether it be suave sexy man, romantic man, edgy man, I'm more like Light ( a universal adapter) type of man, but I no longer have a "nice guy" mentality because it gets you absolutely no where with women. After finding this site, and implementing some theories and ideas both Chase and the community members had and soon saw the folly in being a "nice guy," and now maintain a much different mindset when talking to women.
Best of luck to you GG,
Richard
The "nice guy" mentality has too many "weaker" mindsets that help to push women away, and the majority of nice guys provide no chase to women, and usually qualify themselves to the woman, again, providing no chase. Nice guys also have the tendency to do too much for the woman, beckoning to her every whim and gesture, and the only women who fall for these guys are abusive, controlling, dominant, or insecure, all types of women you don't want!
However, I'm not sure what to classify myself as, whether it be suave sexy man, romantic man, edgy man, I'm more like Light ( a universal adapter) type of man, but I no longer have a "nice guy" mentality because it gets you absolutely no where with women. After finding this site, and implementing some theories and ideas both Chase and the community members had and soon saw the folly in being a "nice guy," and now maintain a much different mindset when talking to women.
Best of luck to you GG,
Richard
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Read over Chases articles on abundance as well as his articles on:
-How to Be Edgy
-How to Be Smooth
-How to Be a Dominant Man
-How to Be a Good Lover
-How to Be a Sexy Man
-How to Be an Alpha Male
This is what I was saying when I don't know which of these categories I fall into, but I'm no longer a "nice guy."
When asking a girl out or making plans with her, since they're saying they're busy or tired, I assume you are asking that day like "Hey so and so, thinking about dinner tonight, you interested?" something along those lines. IF SO, DON'T! Don't ever ask a girl for plans that day, or that night, ask her for her schedule and see what days work best for her, when you ask a girl out that night, she most likely already has plans, or is working, or is tired, and it creates a "NO" ladder so basically, she knows she's said no to you once and it's more likely she will say no again.
Tweaking your nice guy mentality can be done in a number of ways, but I find the best two teachers, as with all things in life, are success and failure. Play the nice guy role and it fails so you start to systematically eliminate some of the "nice guy" traits you have to experiment with getting results, and when the results start to pile in more and more, you eventually break the mentality itself and without knowing it have become a dominant man, edgy, smooth, and sexy. However, if you know the qualities of being an "edgy, smooth, dominant man, good lover, sexy man, and alpha male" then you can start to implement those qualities, and start turning yourself into one of or many of those men.
Good luck, and if you have any more questions, feel free to post,
Richard =D
-How to Be Edgy
-How to Be Smooth
-How to Be a Dominant Man
-How to Be a Good Lover
-How to Be a Sexy Man
-How to Be an Alpha Male
This is what I was saying when I don't know which of these categories I fall into, but I'm no longer a "nice guy."
When asking a girl out or making plans with her, since they're saying they're busy or tired, I assume you are asking that day like "Hey so and so, thinking about dinner tonight, you interested?" something along those lines. IF SO, DON'T! Don't ever ask a girl for plans that day, or that night, ask her for her schedule and see what days work best for her, when you ask a girl out that night, she most likely already has plans, or is working, or is tired, and it creates a "NO" ladder so basically, she knows she's said no to you once and it's more likely she will say no again.
Tweaking your nice guy mentality can be done in a number of ways, but I find the best two teachers, as with all things in life, are success and failure. Play the nice guy role and it fails so you start to systematically eliminate some of the "nice guy" traits you have to experiment with getting results, and when the results start to pile in more and more, you eventually break the mentality itself and without knowing it have become a dominant man, edgy, smooth, and sexy. However, if you know the qualities of being an "edgy, smooth, dominant man, good lover, sexy man, and alpha male" then you can start to implement those qualities, and start turning yourself into one of or many of those men.
Good luck, and if you have any more questions, feel free to post,
Richard =D
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GodsGift said:
IT depends. If you talking about younger girls, there's definitely an element of her applying the "chasing game". You know she will try to say she's tired, busy. So you tweak it by having the mentality that sometimes you are going to send some text over a period of time, give it a month.
So try that out and see if it works for you. Just don't text her continuously. Make sure that if she doesn't reply, give some one to three days of radio silence. At the end of the day, she must be interested or it will just be troublesome.
Zac