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killerman

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So there's two things that everyone talks about in the seduction world. That girls love guys that are passionate about stuff and that have hobbies and interests but that they also love mystery. My problem is this…how do i tell a girl who asks me on a first date what stuff i'm into that I'm really passionate about music and guitar while keeping the mystery? Because on one hand i want to tell her how much i love it and am passionate to show that i'm not boring and without interests like a lot of guys but on the other hand wouldn't i be spoiling the mystery by telling her about my passions? How do i do this properly? How much am i supposed to tell her?
 

Drck

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You are overthinking it, you worry too much what she thinks about you and whether she sees you as an attractive guy... You are trying to impress her by being this or that, by being this mysterious guy that she will fall in love for years... That's the real issue, not whether you are mysterious or not...

Tell her what you love, tell her what are you passionate about if she asks. Don't say more than you have to then switch the subject back onto her, what is she passionate about. If she wants to know more about you playing the guitar she will ask you. I bet she will not ask you, she will prefer to dream about you as a rock star :)
 
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