Porn and Sex with Real girls

[DavidEdge]

I stopped porn and masturbation now and I finally realized how much it affects me, here is a list:
- Low Focus
-Low Sex drive
-Not attractive/ turned on to real women
-Shaky Memory
-social anxiety
-Low confidence
-lack of motivation( to move, sleep,eat, etc)
-Approach anxiety
-Brain fogs

I'm still a virgin so I can't say porn affected my sexual performance. I am retraining my brain to be attracted to real women again.

Do any of you guys feel like porn is stopping you in your relationships with women, do you feel the same symptoms that I listed? Would love to hear from you guys, thanks.

 

[Ryan]

Here's only 157 pages of benefits if you stop Porn! http://www.reuniting.info/download/pdf/0.BENEFITS.pdf

Good luck, it's worth quitting it for good

 

[Thedoctor]

DavidEdge,

There was an article that Chase wrote on porn addiction. If you haven't read it yet, you can find it here:

https://www.girlschase.com/content/break ... ls-instead

Apparently, this is becoming a bigger and bigger problem to the younger generation because access to pornography is getting so easy. Not like back in my day where you would wait for the scrambled channel to unscramble for a couple seconds.

That being said, I found this site very interesting when I came across it a while back:

http://yourbrainonporn.com/

The part with the rats on the main page is kinda interesting, and also offers explanation of why a lot of people just can't be monogamous.

-Doc

 

[DavidEdge]

Here's only 157 pages of benefits if you stop Porn! http://www.reuniting.info/download/pdf/0.BENEFITS.pdf

Good luck, it's worth quitting it for good

Yes it is, porn isn't worth it. If more people knew what effects porn has when you watch it, lots of people wouldn't even bother watching it. Thanks for the link.

 

[DavidEdge]

DavidEdge,

There was an article that Chase wrote on porn addiction. If you haven't read it yet, you can find it here:

https://www.girlschase.com/content/break ... ls-instead

Apparently, this is becoming a bigger and bigger problem to the younger generation because access to pornography is getting so easy. Not like back in my day where you would wait for the scrambled channel to unscramble for a couple seconds.

That being said, I found this site very interesting when I came across it a while back:

http://yourbrainonporn.com/

The part with the rats on the main page is kinda interesting, and also offers explanation of why a lot of people just can't be monogamous.

-Doc

Yeah I read the GC article about porn and the website already, but I wonder if women get addicted to porn.

 

[DavidEdge]

Wow Ryan, I just read the whole thing, It really is worth it. It not only help with your sex life, but with your whole life, quitting makes you more productive in everything. This really motivated me to keep going with no masturbating or watching porn. Thanks for showing me this.

 

[Knightrain]

I haven't touched my cyclops for about a week and just had my first makeout (with a girl I just met, on a minigolf course, on a cruise ship, at 2 AM, who was 15 months older than me).

I think this stuff really helps, I'm probably gonna just relieve my self twice a month too keep my plumbing running and my sex drive alive (no pornography will be used).

I did have blue balls for like 4 hours on that night :C , so its not all sunshine and roses

 

[Whizzy]

At the rate you're going relieving yourself will be tough with girls wanting to now Keep it up!

 

[fsc_old]

I used to masturbate close to once a day before I began approaching girls. That number has since decreased to 1-3 times a week, and I've also toned down the type of porn I watch. If I need to get off an urge, my first stop is the girls section of thechive.com. Sometimes I still need to escalate to videos, but I try to control it to not-so-extreme porn. That self-control has been successful probably half the time.

For the first time, I've got tingles in my penis while talking to a girl in a tight dress a week ago.

I now usually get turned on by looking at girls on campus who are wearing yoga pants or shorts. I've been turned on by just the face alone before as well, and this was when I haven't masturbated for about 5 days.

 

[metomeya]

Apparently, this is becoming a bigger and bigger problem to the younger generation because access to pornography is getting so easy. Not like back in my day where you would wait for the scrambled channel to unscramble for a couple seconds.

I remember those days! On rare occasion they would come in perfect! (except the images were negative...it is weird to masturbation to blue girls with white shadows...I guess the cum would be black too...) Problem was when a friend realized I had the channel (it depends on your tv and/or cable box if you got it) they would not stop coming over!

 

[BarryS1]

There was an article that Chase wrote on porn addiction. If you haven't read it yet, you can find it here:

https://www.girlschase.com/content/break ... ls-instead

Favorite article on the site, quit a 9 yr. porn addiction cold-turkey after reading! After quitting in July, I've developed a mild ornery, restless temper towards interacting with girls. Almost like picking up a "zest" in a food I never thought was interesting before.

Great decision DavidEdge!