Porn, Is it a Realistic Expectation of The 21st Century Male Sex Experience?

[Mr.Rob]

Just read an article on how porn causes extremely exaggerated expectations for sex for men (i.e. facial ejaculations, anal sex, hard pounding, face fucking, calling women dirty sluts, etc).

This was news to me since my go to sex with women would fit right in with typical porno flick (and all the girls I hook up with are typically eager to participate). The article I read says those are very unrealistic expectations, so I guess that makes me an idealist? ... then again the article was written by a PC feminist so that may have something to do with it.

What is yall's thoughts on this?

 

[Richard]

Yeah,

I'm inclined to think the woman writing it has a social bias; feels like she can't openly admit that women love getting fucked in the ass, choked, and generally rammed out without slut-shaming them. So, it's easier to say "Men shouldn't expect this."

That being said, porn does a terrible job at showcasing actual GOOD sex; most positions are for viewer pleasure than for physical pleasure and they exaggerate that dick size is what causes the orgasms and screaming, haha.

-Richard

 

[Mr.Rob]

Yeah kinda goes back to whole you shouldn't expect slutty behavior unless your the type of guy that women can act slutty around (which is typically not most men being addressed in said article). I always liked Drexel's metaphor as women being like water and taking the shape of whatever glass (men) they are around.

Haha good point, I suppose porn does showcase poor sex for the most part. When I rarely do watch porn I'm always quite amused by the women faking the pleasure that they're clearly not experiencing... RIP quite a few boners from laughing while watching low budget pornos.

-Rob