Sexual Technique Position to Limit Jackhammer Exhaustion

[Regal Tiger]

So, lots of girls like the psychological aspect of getting rough and roughed up

But this girl I've been seeing (not the same one from my LR) physically gets off from, what I can only describe as a pornstar jackhammer mode. It's a first for me. Like when she says she likes it rough she actually means it. I've started running again to increase my physical cardio stamina because of this (and I like running)

She has some mental barriers that I'm working on breaking down in general and I can still get her off with her vibrator. But when it comes to fingering (admittedly not the best) or oral I can't get her to orgasm. I can get her close but then she loses it. Which is the mental stuff I'm working on with her

However, I noticed that she will get close when I go full sprinting jackhammer mode. But the problem is, is that I only have like 3 minutes of that tops. I found a position last night where I got to that time, but my ass was on fire, legs and back were burning, heart pounding and I started getting light headed. I couldn't keep going to the point where my dick got soft and I was huffing the air like I was dying lol

There are positions where you can be rougher and faster but you use the bed to kinda bounce her and you're not actually exerting much effort. But it still gives the "effect" of dominating her because you're moving her entire body so much

This isn't that. I mean full on balls to the walls, giving her all she has and then some sprint mode


So yeah, got any positions/tips to extend the time it takes to tap out here? In addition, she isn't very good at riding which is something else we're working on so that option is out

I'll still work on getting her more comfortable and out of her head and into her body during sex. Still plenty of foreplay and then even foreplay teasing in between. Last night I even over teased her a little. But until then I'd like to make her cum from penetration and this seems to be the only way to do it. She's admitted that she's only cum once with penetration and it was, you guessed it, rabbit fucking lol


The only thing I can think of is to figure out how to make her bounce harder and faster with the bed but if I go too much it feels awkward for me and takes me out of it. So maybe I'm over thinking it when I try to pick up the pace on this one? Not sure, but I definitely lose my rhythm when I try to go harder with this one

 

[Ambiance]

Here are my position ideas:

- Adapted missionary - since you are lying on top of her you will wear out much slower, and you can still really pound her. The clitoral stimulation helps a lot. Put your arms under her back and grip her shoulders with your hands and pull her into your thrusts for added effect. Bear hugs also work great.
- Spooning position - no idea what this position is actually called, but its essentially her lying on her stomach with her butt slightly up (you can use a pillow or folded blanket underneath to accomplish this), and you are lying right on top of her. Just like AM^ your stamina will wear out slower. You can wrap your arms around her chest or neck or head to smother and further dominate her (make sure she can breathe though lol). She will be tighter so be fast or have lube on hand in case you use up all her natural juices.
- Missionary with her legs on your shoulders while (lightly) choking her - best as a "finishing move" since you will get very deep penetration and her pussy and cervix need to be warmed up and ready for it, and because this position will drain you. Use one hand to stabilize yourself and the other hand to choke her (but don't put too much pressure downward with this hand). You can slap her, yank her hair back, or stick your fingers in her mouth too. Her legs will give your core some support in holding you up above her to help you go longer.
- Cowgirl* (assuming you are strong/she isn't too heavy) - this lets her contribute to the effort. Works best if you are at about 135 degrees and she can lean on you, and she uses her body to bounce up and down while you grab her sides and add power. Be wary of it slipping out though.

Other tips:
- Try getting her tipsy - this might help reduce her mental hangups around orgasms
- Find out if she has any sexual triggers - maybe she particularly likes spanking, or choking, dirty talk, sweet talk, or hair pulling. Find out and capitalize on it
- Stick a finger in while fucking her - ideally in a come hither motion so you can really get that G spot. Works great in Missionary with legs on shoulders
- Improve cardio and strength - highly recommend pushups to failure. Do a bunch of reps, hold a hand plank position while catching your breath, get a few more reps, plank some more, and keep repeating until you can barely get 1-2 reps following a plank.

 

[topcat]

Get her close either via tongue, fingering or the methods Ambiance gave you, then jackhammer her to get her over the edge. That's worked for me on days where I'm tired or feel gased.

Running to increase your cardio is not a bad shout... mine has taken a hit this winter and I'm working to get back to where I used to be

EDIT:

also, use your arms to pull her into you vs thrusting into her with your hips

 

[Ambiance]

also, use your arms to pull her into you vs thrusting into her with your hips

This is a great point. You can absolutely use your upper body strength to bolster your stamina. I have always relied on my formidable strength to make up for what I might lack in cardio.

Used to do this when I rowed in college. Rowing is supposed to be like 85/10/5% legs/core/arms, but I would do like 70/10/20% legs/core/arms. It is not sustainable, and my coaches didn't like it, but it made me second best on the team for sprints despite having arguably the worst cardio and form.

Topcat's comment made me remember I do this all the time with sex. Especially with doggy and cowgirl. Girls LOVE being manhandled like this too.

 

[Regal Tiger]

@topcat @Ambiance thanks for the replies gents, we'll see how it goes. Might be a while due to schedules but I'll keep everything in mind


This girl made me realize that without my favorite position it kinda limits me on what I can do lol. Plus the relaxing into it more stuff we gotta work on

But it's like a fun challenge and I get to relearn some stuff. So it's kinda fun in a way