Hello guys,
This post would mark an eye-opening experience for me that would probably change my seduction path forever!
So I started learning about seduction seriously for about 5 months. For the first 4 months, I was focusing on building inner confidence, the approach and fine tuning my dates. Although the only one thing I have never done before is: pulling her home. I'm still in college in Japan and it is my primary dating scene.
So I have one (of many) Japanese girl who was really into me. I physically escalated with her to a certain degree, including holding her hands, playing with her hair, hugging her and kissing her on the cheek. This girl has been the girl I used as the training ground throughout my seduction career from day 1. I tried all kinds of techniques on her, things I've learned and wanted to experiment. Now this girl still was attracted to me until recently according to my observation of her body language and she has a very high compliance to my request, even going to karaoke with me until 4 AM in the morning with no objections, unless she is genuinely busy.
Now, as the girl who I've been testing and trying my seduction on for a long time, I have been on about 4 dates with her. On the forth date, instead of pulling her, I can see that she may have put me in the boyfriend territory and thus, instead of pulling, I asked her to be my girlfriend instead.
I know, that is, wrong wrong wrong. However, I pushed for it anyway. She gave in a lot of thought and I was using hard push with her during her decision whether to become my girlfriend or not, as well as trying to address her concerns. Ultimately, she asked for 3 days time, which I had to give her after I was worn out after 1.5 hours of persistence. The final answer I received 3 days later was, She was "sorry" that she couldn't get on a relationship with me and that she wanted to "focus" on her studies and job hunting. So I said, well fine, we can be friends.
Question is, now that I'm working on my closing and that I have nothing to lose with her, do you think I stand a chance of turning the tide over and make her my lover instead? Has anyone of you had experiences hooking up with girls who rejected your relationship proposal in the past? I know most of you would say, just move on and find another girl. That is exactly what I'm doing. But in gratitude for being a guinea pig for me (sorry for the offensive term) to test all the seduction weapons on for this long time, I figure that I'd give her a night of passion as a reward. So what do you guys say? I'd love to hear all of your comments!
With respect,
Jay
This post would mark an eye-opening experience for me that would probably change my seduction path forever!
So I started learning about seduction seriously for about 5 months. For the first 4 months, I was focusing on building inner confidence, the approach and fine tuning my dates. Although the only one thing I have never done before is: pulling her home. I'm still in college in Japan and it is my primary dating scene.
So I have one (of many) Japanese girl who was really into me. I physically escalated with her to a certain degree, including holding her hands, playing with her hair, hugging her and kissing her on the cheek. This girl has been the girl I used as the training ground throughout my seduction career from day 1. I tried all kinds of techniques on her, things I've learned and wanted to experiment. Now this girl still was attracted to me until recently according to my observation of her body language and she has a very high compliance to my request, even going to karaoke with me until 4 AM in the morning with no objections, unless she is genuinely busy.
Now, as the girl who I've been testing and trying my seduction on for a long time, I have been on about 4 dates with her. On the forth date, instead of pulling her, I can see that she may have put me in the boyfriend territory and thus, instead of pulling, I asked her to be my girlfriend instead.
I know, that is, wrong wrong wrong. However, I pushed for it anyway. She gave in a lot of thought and I was using hard push with her during her decision whether to become my girlfriend or not, as well as trying to address her concerns. Ultimately, she asked for 3 days time, which I had to give her after I was worn out after 1.5 hours of persistence. The final answer I received 3 days later was, She was "sorry" that she couldn't get on a relationship with me and that she wanted to "focus" on her studies and job hunting. So I said, well fine, we can be friends.
Question is, now that I'm working on my closing and that I have nothing to lose with her, do you think I stand a chance of turning the tide over and make her my lover instead? Has anyone of you had experiences hooking up with girls who rejected your relationship proposal in the past? I know most of you would say, just move on and find another girl. That is exactly what I'm doing. But in gratitude for being a guinea pig for me (sorry for the offensive term) to test all the seduction weapons on for this long time, I figure that I'd give her a night of passion as a reward. So what do you guys say? I'd love to hear all of your comments!
With respect,
Jay
