Hey all!
Kicking myself for this one... Approached a couple cute girls in the gym and they were both into it. The one I liked more (colored eyes, leggings showed nice butt) was also seemingly more engaged, so after some back and forth, I asked if she'd like to hang out some time. They say she has a boyfriend and the other one is single.... felt toast at that point. I joked about asking the other one out, but said that would be mean. My mind is still not readjusted to pickup/seduction enough, so it felt unrecoverable. The kicker is the single one was eyeing me earlier, so she was a warm lead that I blew up...
My potential fix is simply asking all girls involved if they're single conversationally (not AS direct as with a solo girl), to get a better lay of the land. Thoughts? Other strategies to probe their status before going in too deep, or even ways to fix it without making the second girl feel like leftovers?
Thanks all!
Kicking myself for this one... Approached a couple cute girls in the gym and they were both into it. The one I liked more (colored eyes, leggings showed nice butt) was also seemingly more engaged, so after some back and forth, I asked if she'd like to hang out some time. They say she has a boyfriend and the other one is single.... felt toast at that point. I joked about asking the other one out, but said that would be mean. My mind is still not readjusted to pickup/seduction enough, so it felt unrecoverable. The kicker is the single one was eyeing me earlier, so she was a warm lead that I blew up...
My potential fix is simply asking all girls involved if they're single conversationally (not AS direct as with a solo girl), to get a better lay of the land. Thoughts? Other strategies to probe their status before going in too deep, or even ways to fix it without making the second girl feel like leftovers?
Thanks all!
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