FR Potentially blew a booty call

[Kaida]

This is a girl that came over a few months ago, I took her in a mini date to a nearby food spot and we walked to my dorm after. I got her bra off but I didn’t get the lay due to LMR (“I dont think just fucking anyone outside a relationship is good blah blah”) but we left on good terms.

I met her at the club February 4th. I revived it really well I’d say. Very flirtatious, had a pretty long conversation, I got her number after it.

After I texted her though I didn’t feel like she was giving me much (and I couldnt really be bothered to do all that to increase her investment) so I just left her alone and didnt reply.

But then, she suddenly texted me a week later (today) at 9:30pm. I assumed it was a booty call, I didn’t want to go for the meet too fast because last time she saw me as too much of a player.

And she additionally didn’t really give me any openings. I screened for logistics but she seemed busy saying she was “at a party” and was “sleeping over at a friends” etc. Didnt seem like she was ready to be pulled.

I called her also 2 hours later (I lowkey forgot to reply) and asked wyd but no response

I feel like I blew it and could have handled it better.

Heres the texts:

https://flic.kr/p/2pxtDeZ https://flic.kr/p/2pxAoUL https://flic.kr/p/2pxAoTP
How could I have handled it better?


Edit: I know what I’ve been told about “wyd” but I remember seeing that it works decent for booty calls and things like that

 

[gameboy]

She wasn't at home alone looking for someone to fuck, so this doesn't look like a booty call to me.

More likely, she was at that Valentine's party and realized she didn't have a partner. Possibly she wanted you to come to the party with her?

But you replying "wyd later" kind of ruled that out...

 

[topcat]

Edit: I know what I’ve been told about “wyd” but I remember seeing that it works decent for booty calls and things like that

it works decent for booty calls in context..

for instance she hits you first with a “what you up to” out the blue..

you can then hit her back with “i’m chilling. wyd?”

you hit her with “wyd” when she told you she can’t talk..like why bro?

I also don’t read a booty call in this.. “u up” kinda suggests one but the fact that she confirmed she was busy would quickly put that to rest in my mind. You pursued anyway..

 

[StrayDog]

I also don’t read a booty call in this.. “u up” kinda suggests one but the fact that she confirmed she was busy would quickly put that to rest in my mind. You pursued anyway

one track mind

 

[StrayDog]

@Kaida you're hardly even responding to what information she is conveying to you. Like she says she is sleeping over there and you go off the rails and start teasing her about holding her liquor. What is the rational here? Her response of "Right" makes perfect sense. Like "okay dude, what are you on about. You're gonna teach me how to hold my liquor. Right..." You really think you have that kind of authority over her? I'd think that that kind of comment would probably just make her self conscious, and feel needlessly aggressive.

Here she is at Valentine's party thinking bout you and you start poon hounding. So clearly trying to booty call her. Not even being smooth about it.

 

[Kaida]

She just sent me this:
https://flic.kr/p/2pxKjtn


Lol

Thanks though, still good notes for me to keep in mind

 

[StrayDog]

@Kaida photo is not loading

 

[Kaida]

@Kaida photo is not loading

It was a photo of a dare card from a drinking game that said “Allow the person across from you to send texts from your phone and delete it before you read what it was” Lol

 

[StrayDog]

wait, what? that's a confusing thing for her to send. Sounds like she is saying that her friends sent the text to last night as a dare?

 

[Kaida]

wait, what? that's a confusing thing for her to send. Sounds like she is saying that her friends sent the text to last night as a dare?

Yeah ans she said “Idk what my friend said we were drunk ”

Lol i was wondering why she texted. So random

 

[TomInHo]

wait, what? that's a confusing thing for her to send. Sounds like she is saying that her friends sent the text to last night as a dare?

She is implying that her friends were texting him during the galentine's party. As in they were trolling him

 

[StrayDog]

Lame. Well. Bigger fish to fry ✌

 

[StrayDog]

Yeah ans she said “Idk what my friend said we were drunk ”

Also, I take it back. Maybe you should teach her how to hold her liquor

 

[StrayDog]

or just gives her the "k"

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thats what I'd probably do in this scenario