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What's up gentleman, I hope everything in your pick-up lives is going well, but if not, here is a practice I've found helpful in developing your openings, as well as your on the spot wordplay. It worked in my favor, so I figured I'd share, maybe the veterans can provide a pros and cons though.
Writing out an imaginary conversation - The human brain is constantly changing, every day, every second of your life, your brain is making new connections and adapting to the world around you. Retraining your brain is quite easy, and you can consciously make the new connections in you brain. With this in mind, you can plan for future interactions now by training your mind to familiarize itself with them, rerouting your thought process to cope with future challenges so to speak. Anyway, the meat of the bone is, every day no matter what, write out an imaginary conversation from start to finish after reading the articles on "what to say to women," "what girls want to hear," "how to talk to women," and so on. Use the principles you learn in these articles and incorporate them into a new imaginary conversation every day . What I found that this does is, when you do approach women and get a conversation flowing smoothly, you'll:
1- Recall things you've said in some of the conversations you've written, and can respond more quickly and in a much more confident manner.
2- Feel like you've already done it before (even though you may not have, your brain just feels familiar with the context of the physical situation.)
3- Your wordplay will change dynamically (if you have incorporate exciting words into your imaginary conversations). The way you speak your words will change for the better.
However, when writing a conversation out, try to make it as universal as possible, and singular in flow, not jumpy. By that I mean, don't write about a woman who is an accountant in a firm and is a scuba diver on weekends because if you should happen to meet an accountant in a firm, your brain (due to the availability heuristic) will most likely try to gear to drive the conversation towards her scuba diving in reality which is probably not the case. Making a conversation singular allows you to stay on point in future conversations, because, if you write out a conversation, you will more than likely expect that conversation to match with a woman in a real encounter who is similar to the woman you wrote about, and your expectations may fall short.
This is by no means an invitation to write out rehearsed lines to use in life because you cannot prepare for every encounter, this simply allows you to familiarize yourself with what women may say and then allow you to respond in correlation with what they say. This is a practice which allows you to update your vocabulary and gear yourself towards becoming a better conversationalist.
Enjoy,
Richard
Writing out an imaginary conversation - The human brain is constantly changing, every day, every second of your life, your brain is making new connections and adapting to the world around you. Retraining your brain is quite easy, and you can consciously make the new connections in you brain. With this in mind, you can plan for future interactions now by training your mind to familiarize itself with them, rerouting your thought process to cope with future challenges so to speak. Anyway, the meat of the bone is, every day no matter what, write out an imaginary conversation from start to finish after reading the articles on "what to say to women," "what girls want to hear," "how to talk to women," and so on. Use the principles you learn in these articles and incorporate them into a new imaginary conversation every day . What I found that this does is, when you do approach women and get a conversation flowing smoothly, you'll:
1- Recall things you've said in some of the conversations you've written, and can respond more quickly and in a much more confident manner.
2- Feel like you've already done it before (even though you may not have, your brain just feels familiar with the context of the physical situation.)
3- Your wordplay will change dynamically (if you have incorporate exciting words into your imaginary conversations). The way you speak your words will change for the better.
However, when writing a conversation out, try to make it as universal as possible, and singular in flow, not jumpy. By that I mean, don't write about a woman who is an accountant in a firm and is a scuba diver on weekends because if you should happen to meet an accountant in a firm, your brain (due to the availability heuristic) will most likely try to gear to drive the conversation towards her scuba diving in reality which is probably not the case. Making a conversation singular allows you to stay on point in future conversations, because, if you write out a conversation, you will more than likely expect that conversation to match with a woman in a real encounter who is similar to the woman you wrote about, and your expectations may fall short.
This is by no means an invitation to write out rehearsed lines to use in life because you cannot prepare for every encounter, this simply allows you to familiarize yourself with what women may say and then allow you to respond in correlation with what they say. This is a practice which allows you to update your vocabulary and gear yourself towards becoming a better conversationalist.
Enjoy,
Richard
