Pretty girls who are used to having guys spend money on them

[leverage]

Hi,

I've started asking girls out a bit more and I've noticed there are some really pretty girls who are used to having guys spend money on them (nice dates, gifts etc).

I've noticed on some occasions a girl might be excited/attracted to see me (first date after getting their number), but then show a very big drop in attraction / disappointment when I lead them to a "cheap" place for lunch/dinner.

Are there any tips to be a "lover" instead of a "provider", and refocusing the interaction into a short-term relationship? Or should I just move on to other girls?

Thanks

 

[ray_zorse]

Just take them for coffee or a hot chocolate... I've also heard icecream mentioned though that might be more appropriate as an insta-date if it happens to be afternoon or late evening. Also move faster -- by the time you are setting up dates you've already got one foot in boyfriend territory. Try for insta-date?
Cheers, Ray
PS If they know they are paying for their own food they shouldn't mind going to a cheap place, not sure how you would make this clear beforehand tho, I'd usually say it when ordering.