Problems in the bedroom

[thecloudsandrain]

I've never really had the capability to hold an erection past the 10 minute mark. I can get an erection, slip the condom on, and even pump away for between 5-10 minutes, but it slowly becomes limp. The thing is, while I'm pumping, I'm not really getting a whole lot of stimulation, and having my knees slowly slip out from underneath me doesn't help either. In fact, to some extent I feel a tad bit emotionless...going through the emotions if you will. I'm getting erections but not the over whelming sexual fire. Even when I masturbate I feel like I'm not really reaching my peak.

In the past I've used Horny Goat Weed and it has taken me to an entirely new level. I actually feel that the positive effects of it lasted well beyond the duration of the supplement. Apart from women who orgasm incredibly fast, the use of the supplement has been the only time I've been able to have a great session.

At 26, I'm still pretty young and have plenty of time to figure the problem out, but when you lose a girl knowing you couldn't make that strong attachment in the bedroom it's a horrible feeling. I've been thinking it may be a circulation problem or a lack of nitric oxide. I do have episodes where toe will fall asleep or a finger, generally my thumb, will start to swell on the pad. I did notice that when I first took Horny Goat Weed that a sharp pain went through the base of my penis to the tip, as if the vessels had expanded exponentially. It makes me wonder if they're not receiving enough blood or if something was clogging the lines.

Can anyone shine some light on the issue?

 

[Landlord]

I can't believe nobody has even taken a stab at answering this.

1. try different positions for more stimulation? Like standing doggy style or regular doggy style

2. get a real girlfriend who is on birth control who you can shag condom-less. OR, presuming you are comfortable that you won't give or get anything (including STD's or a child), ditch the condom. I've had girls who trusted me from day 1, others who would never let me bareback it. I gave a good notion of how far I am from coming, so I don't worry about an accident, but this depends on lots of factors. I can say for sure that my likelihood of losing wood WITH a condom is much higher than without.

3. if you go limp ask her to give you head to get you hard again. If you're wearing a condom, take it off for that. You can do 69 if she needs to keep her elevation too.

4. Are you in shape? thin? Exercise? try Yoga 3-4 times/week for improved circulation. AND/OR interval training

5. See a Urologist to check that everything is healthy. Ask him to prescribe you viagra as a test, even if you're very young. For 1, you can just keep it handy in case you're in a situation with a girl where you really need an edge, for 2, even without your problem V is fun as hell. You get an erection like you never had in your life and it delays climax considerably—you can pound away fiercely, for hours. Just take a 1/4-1/2 of a 25mg pill, it's enough for someone who does not have a bonafide ED issue. I always keep a half pill in my wallet in case of whisky-dick, performance anxiety, or just want to spice it up a bit. It does tend to stuff up my nose, though...If I have access I use a bit of nasal spray to sort that out.