- Joined
- Jan 2, 2013
- Messages
- 100
I've now been reading GirlChase for a year and it has definitely set me on the right track. I learned a hard lesson with a girl in 2012 and have vowed ever since to right the many wrongs about myself that prevented me from getting her.
I started 2013 pushing myself to go out every weekend and talk to girls. I learned the Law of Least Effort at work with a co-worker, and though it ultimately didn't pan out, I felt I made almost every right move. 2013 was a year of firsts for me. I broke out of my comfort zone and started going out consistently two to three nights a week. I finally got comfortable on the dance floor and figured out how to get dances (though that one can still be tricky). I shattered any anxiety about approaching and found methods of opening to girls that work for me (though I still need a wingman for some groups). I learned the value of asking for dates before getting numbers and can now pickup in a few seconds whether a girl is interested or not. And I finally got my first kiss and make out session!
However, I've been a little unlucky in some ways. All but one girl I asked out in person has gone on a date with me. And even with texts configured to Chases' specifications and some cool persistence, I still had difficulty getting most of them to text back. Online dating has improved my options and I've gotten a good deal of numbers, but I've lost some of the girls to differing schedules, competition, and over rapport building with texts. I'm hoping the dates I do get from online girls will help me with in person interactions. My sexiness has gone up but its still not quite there. I'm finally comfortable with the idea of trying to pull girls the same night I meet them, so we'll see how that pans out.
So final report: 32 numbers in person, 7 numbers online, 2 dates, 2 makeouts, 0 sex
I've always been a slow learner. I'd like to thank everyone that has made this such a special site. I'm going to continue to learn, but mark my words, I will get sex this year!
I started 2013 pushing myself to go out every weekend and talk to girls. I learned the Law of Least Effort at work with a co-worker, and though it ultimately didn't pan out, I felt I made almost every right move. 2013 was a year of firsts for me. I broke out of my comfort zone and started going out consistently two to three nights a week. I finally got comfortable on the dance floor and figured out how to get dances (though that one can still be tricky). I shattered any anxiety about approaching and found methods of opening to girls that work for me (though I still need a wingman for some groups). I learned the value of asking for dates before getting numbers and can now pickup in a few seconds whether a girl is interested or not. And I finally got my first kiss and make out session!
However, I've been a little unlucky in some ways. All but one girl I asked out in person has gone on a date with me. And even with texts configured to Chases' specifications and some cool persistence, I still had difficulty getting most of them to text back. Online dating has improved my options and I've gotten a good deal of numbers, but I've lost some of the girls to differing schedules, competition, and over rapport building with texts. I'm hoping the dates I do get from online girls will help me with in person interactions. My sexiness has gone up but its still not quite there. I'm finally comfortable with the idea of trying to pull girls the same night I meet them, so we'll see how that pans out.
So final report: 32 numbers in person, 7 numbers online, 2 dates, 2 makeouts, 0 sex
I've always been a slow learner. I'd like to thank everyone that has made this such a special site. I'm going to continue to learn, but mark my words, I will get sex this year!
