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Hey boys! I am sincerely hoping you guys can give me some advice because I am trying to figure out what to do, but it just feels like I'm shooting blanks in the dark. Ok so my senior year of highschool is rapidly coming to an end with only a few months left, and prom is approaching very quickly as well. That's all well and good except one thing, I don't have a date for prom yet. I have a few prospects lined up and I want to act quickly so they don't get asked by someone else. So I'm not too sure what is the best course of action to take to asking a girl to prom because I noticed many people from my school ask girls to prom in extravagant ways, one instance was a friend of mine wrote "PROM" on the track and when the girl came down to do a track workout she saw it and freaked out (in a good way). Is this a good thing to do? It sure worked for him, but it seems to violate everything I know about the law of least effort. Also, when and where is the best type of places to ask a girl to a dance. I figure that it would be when she is alone and after I get her laughing so I can ask on a high point, but I'm not 100% sure.
Secondly, after I ask a girl to the dance then what? Do I just act normal, or how should I act. I know some girls I plan on asking I don't exactly see some of these girls a lot, so if I didn't go on a date with them it would be very awkward I figure.
Thirdly, I'll be the first to admit, I suck hardcore at dancing. Like even those dances that tell you what to do (like "slide to the right, two stomps, now slide to the left") I still suck at. My friends describe it as I look like I'm "too stiff" and "need to loosen up". So if you guys have any good tips on how to dance it would be greatly appreciated.
Lastly, another dance is coming up for my JROTC unit at my school and there is only like 100 people in JROTC and none of them are popular or even that cool to be honest with the exception of myself (seems narcissistic, but I'm literally the coolest guy in our unit, and that's not saying much lol). So none of the popular girls or guys at my school are probably going to go, but I would like to ask a girl to go to that as well, and any advice on this situation would be appreciative as well.
I highly encourage everyone to tell their own stories and experiences, or provide any advice that could help me out because I desperately do not want to go to these dances alone. As always, Keep It Real
Atlas
Secondly, after I ask a girl to the dance then what? Do I just act normal, or how should I act. I know some girls I plan on asking I don't exactly see some of these girls a lot, so if I didn't go on a date with them it would be very awkward I figure.
Thirdly, I'll be the first to admit, I suck hardcore at dancing. Like even those dances that tell you what to do (like "slide to the right, two stomps, now slide to the left") I still suck at. My friends describe it as I look like I'm "too stiff" and "need to loosen up". So if you guys have any good tips on how to dance it would be greatly appreciated.
Lastly, another dance is coming up for my JROTC unit at my school and there is only like 100 people in JROTC and none of them are popular or even that cool to be honest with the exception of myself (seems narcissistic, but I'm literally the coolest guy in our unit, and that's not saying much lol). So none of the popular girls or guys at my school are probably going to go, but I would like to ask a girl to go to that as well, and any advice on this situation would be appreciative as well.
I highly encourage everyone to tell their own stories and experiences, or provide any advice that could help me out because I desperately do not want to go to these dances alone. As always, Keep It Real
Atlas
