Pull - her second of indeciceveness : should you lead there?

[lux7]

You probably have noticed there is something like a second or a split of a second during the invite home where the girl is like "hmmmm".

So far I have always waited for her answer, sometimes either nodding myself or pointing towards the move or otherwise raising expectation for the "go".

But as I faced a few "nos" I thought: could it be good to take her hand in that key moment of pause and start waking?

 

[lux7]

Here are my thoughts:

no after a "proper" date, where you had the chance to connect, and especially if the date went good

There the risk of you pushing and facing a "no" might be the end of it because it would make the refusal so much more sticky and powerful.

BUT
during a super quick pull where you barely talked, then it might make sense.
The risk of course is facing higher LMR or buyer remorse and/or wasting time with a girl who came with you just because you pushed in that key moment.

But it could still make a lot of sense in those cases, also because a "no" is not so unlikely during, say, night street game after clubs have closed.


Thoughts?