The way I see it, there are two totally different strategies of seduction. One way is to learn all the seduction techniques that are portrayed here on GC, and don’t make me wrong – these are great techniques, lots of effort and many years were spent to develop them into current form.
The problem is that with all this learning you are putting too much effort into it, you are learning so much about girls – which unintentionally make you put too much value on them. When you go out with the intention of seducing her, make her feel great, vibe with her and have a deep conversation with her, approach her the right way, present yourself as sexy and so on, it is just altogether too stressful on you. You are the one that is working hard to get her instead of the other way. You are the one who is investing, not the other way. Once she has too much value in your eyes – and she does because you invested so much time studying and practicing this – it is difficult to seduce her because you are constantly worrying about what you are doing wrong and what can be improved. You are constantly analyzing and improving, and you have to overcome a lot of barriers that you actually built yourself. But true, once you learn certain level of material you will become quite successful.
But there is this other technique. Somewhere I read about this Pump and Dump philosophy and in summary it describes all you have to know. It is so simple that even fucking Cave Man would be jealous, and the brilliance of it is the simplicity.
You just go out with the intention of “Pump and Dump”. You don’t want to date her, you don’t want to be her BF, you don’t want to marry her, you don't want her to like you, and you don’t want to be her lover either. You don’t want to understand her, you simply don’t care that much about her at all. The only thing you want is sex only. You don’t need any great conversation skills because all you want is to fuck, and after you fuck you will dump her.
From the very beginning of meeting her you PROJECT what you want (to have sex with her) and she’ll either go with you or she’ll run away. You don’t even pretend to be someone with sophisticated knowledge. As a matter of fact, you don’t want to know anything about seduction or dating, you know nothing about girls and you rather present as “dumb and naive” – with the exception that you have strong desire to fuck. Using this “Pump and Dump”, there is nothing wrong; there is nothing to improve and nothing to work on. There is no investment. All you want is to fuck, nothing else, no other effort is needed. You see her as a sex object only, you just want to have temporal fun, pump her and then dump her.
If you have minimal experience with girls this PROJECTION might be difficult to understand, but once you are more familiar with girls it is actually quite simple. You view her as slutty and sexy girl who wants to fuck. You only want to have sex with her, and you are determined to have sex with her. You can’t of course be direct, e.g. you don’t say “Let’s go have sex” but you simply suggest going to your place as soon as you get first opportunity. This may not work on young girls (early 20’s) because they are still too shy, but once she has some experience she is willing to go. You just “Pump and Dump” ANY girl, whether she is 4/10 or 9/10 there are simply no exceptions. Ok, I understand your concern about 3/10, your dick wouldn’t get up because the mustache under her feminist nose is too repulsive, but for the purpose of learning – let there be no sorry ass beta excuses!
Think about it, by literally doing nothing this “Pump and Dump” technique will place you to a position that all the great seducers are dreaming about and learning many years: being alpha, being dominant, being ‘natural’, being hard to get – while she is chasing you and so on…
Happy Pumping!
The problem is that with all this learning you are putting too much effort into it, you are learning so much about girls – which unintentionally make you put too much value on them. When you go out with the intention of seducing her, make her feel great, vibe with her and have a deep conversation with her, approach her the right way, present yourself as sexy and so on, it is just altogether too stressful on you. You are the one that is working hard to get her instead of the other way. You are the one who is investing, not the other way. Once she has too much value in your eyes – and she does because you invested so much time studying and practicing this – it is difficult to seduce her because you are constantly worrying about what you are doing wrong and what can be improved. You are constantly analyzing and improving, and you have to overcome a lot of barriers that you actually built yourself. But true, once you learn certain level of material you will become quite successful.
But there is this other technique. Somewhere I read about this Pump and Dump philosophy and in summary it describes all you have to know. It is so simple that even fucking Cave Man would be jealous, and the brilliance of it is the simplicity.
You just go out with the intention of “Pump and Dump”. You don’t want to date her, you don’t want to be her BF, you don’t want to marry her, you don't want her to like you, and you don’t want to be her lover either. You don’t want to understand her, you simply don’t care that much about her at all. The only thing you want is sex only. You don’t need any great conversation skills because all you want is to fuck, and after you fuck you will dump her.
From the very beginning of meeting her you PROJECT what you want (to have sex with her) and she’ll either go with you or she’ll run away. You don’t even pretend to be someone with sophisticated knowledge. As a matter of fact, you don’t want to know anything about seduction or dating, you know nothing about girls and you rather present as “dumb and naive” – with the exception that you have strong desire to fuck. Using this “Pump and Dump”, there is nothing wrong; there is nothing to improve and nothing to work on. There is no investment. All you want is to fuck, nothing else, no other effort is needed. You see her as a sex object only, you just want to have temporal fun, pump her and then dump her.
If you have minimal experience with girls this PROJECTION might be difficult to understand, but once you are more familiar with girls it is actually quite simple. You view her as slutty and sexy girl who wants to fuck. You only want to have sex with her, and you are determined to have sex with her. You can’t of course be direct, e.g. you don’t say “Let’s go have sex” but you simply suggest going to your place as soon as you get first opportunity. This may not work on young girls (early 20’s) because they are still too shy, but once she has some experience she is willing to go. You just “Pump and Dump” ANY girl, whether she is 4/10 or 9/10 there are simply no exceptions. Ok, I understand your concern about 3/10, your dick wouldn’t get up because the mustache under her feminist nose is too repulsive, but for the purpose of learning – let there be no sorry ass beta excuses!
Think about it, by literally doing nothing this “Pump and Dump” technique will place you to a position that all the great seducers are dreaming about and learning many years: being alpha, being dominant, being ‘natural’, being hard to get – while she is chasing you and so on…
Happy Pumping!
