For 2 years now I have been in a relationship, with a 3 month break about a year ago. This girl is a stunning model and everyone loves her, she's super social, intelligent etc...
She knows I'm a player dick but at the same time when we weren't together (on that break), she musta been talking to like 20 promoters and getting fucked by some of them so she's very promiscuous, but when in a relationship I'd say super loyal. I fucked a few hotties during this period also.
More to the point, I have been vastly improving my relationship skills since the break by reading and acting: Ie more respect, less arguing and drama, far less games... but these still appear from time to time.
She clearly loves me and is attracted to me as I am to her, but I'm not great at showing love which makes her sad sometimes - this causes her to play little games like not texting goodnight at night (e.g. last night i completely forgot to otherwise i would have done) or for example we were in a club and she was acting aloof to me not really trying to interact with me like she normally always is.
SO: I start giving her attention frequently - leads to - her getting comfortable and a bit bored, maybe thinking she's cool - I've tried this out and that's usually what happens.
OR: I keep not giving her attention that frequently (which I do naturally) - this on the other hand usually keeps her always texting first and trying to make plans to see me.
I know too much attention is bad and too little is like neglecting BUT this girl is sought after by ridiculous amounts of people so when I start being that nice guy she thinks she's way too cool so is the only way to keep her attention by giving her regular doses of 'no attention'??? ..........what do I do?
[Really want these highly subconscious games to end lol cause i cba]
She knows I'm a player dick but at the same time when we weren't together (on that break), she musta been talking to like 20 promoters and getting fucked by some of them so she's very promiscuous, but when in a relationship I'd say super loyal. I fucked a few hotties during this period also.
More to the point, I have been vastly improving my relationship skills since the break by reading and acting: Ie more respect, less arguing and drama, far less games... but these still appear from time to time.
She clearly loves me and is attracted to me as I am to her, but I'm not great at showing love which makes her sad sometimes - this causes her to play little games like not texting goodnight at night (e.g. last night i completely forgot to otherwise i would have done) or for example we were in a club and she was acting aloof to me not really trying to interact with me like she normally always is.
SO: I start giving her attention frequently - leads to - her getting comfortable and a bit bored, maybe thinking she's cool - I've tried this out and that's usually what happens.
OR: I keep not giving her attention that frequently (which I do naturally) - this on the other hand usually keeps her always texting first and trying to make plans to see me.
I know too much attention is bad and too little is like neglecting BUT this girl is sought after by ridiculous amounts of people so when I start being that nice guy she thinks she's way too cool so is the only way to keep her attention by giving her regular doses of 'no attention'??? ..........what do I do?
[Really want these highly subconscious games to end lol cause i cba]
