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ChrisVirtue

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NIGHT 15 OF 30 DAY CHALLENGE:
Tried to meditate laying down today and took a 3 hour nap from 10pm to 1am lol. Good job fucking up your sleep schedule even further, Chris. Lol.

Anyways, it is nice gaming after a nap because I feel refreshed and relaxed. I want to meditate first thing upon waking up, so that’s a goal of mine for tomorrow.

I was a little stressed today because I have cash flow issues, I really have put myself in a place where I need to step it up in my business. So, that’s definitely a priority of mine, but it is tough because at the same time I am really trying to work on reducing stress in my life. I suppose I want to put my money where my mouth is and buy into abundance thinking while also making progress in my business.

The good thing, is a lot of my work is social media based, and by going out and gaming more often, it does help me open up and “find my voice” more so.

Tuesday October 22nd:

Went out to dirty 6th around 1:30am. It is definitely better on tuesdays to go to this place called tuesgayz, but they have a $5 cover and I didn’t feel like paying lol. I believe if I get there before 11pm there is no cover, so perhaps I need to get there earlier lol.

Anyways, I walk up and down the street feeling pretty relaxed. I do a couple “half-assed” openers speaking at 30-35%. I do get one solid open in with 2 cute girls but they don’t really hook. There really was not many options in terms of all-girl sets. I did see some hot girls in moving sets with like 3 dudes and 1 girl, but I was scared to approach those sets lol.

Things I did well:
Went out despite it being late
Been messaging girls on IG
Opened set with cute girls
Felt relaxed (probably due to my nap featuring lavender in my diffuser)
Left my phone at home

Things I could have done better:
Not taken a nap at such an odd time lol
Opened more ugly girl sets and dude sets just to practice socializing
Gone out slightly earlier

Lessons Learned:
Watch out for lying down meditations as they often lead to naps lol
Try to talk to as many people as possible and make it a habit to open every person I see
 

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NIGHT 16 OF 30 DAY CHALLENGE:
Writing this the morning after again, because I just didn’t feel like writing a field report last night lol.

Friday October 25th:
So it’s nearing halloween, and I decide to wear a wolf costume. My friend invites me to pregame at his place with a few girls, and I oblige because I think it would be good to practice some social circle game.

He only has 2 girls show up and they are girls that I already knew lol. Anyways, we spend way too much time at his apartment pretty much doing nothing except some light drinking. It’s really boring as fuck compared to solo game. And, I drink a little bit, having 2 drinks. In fact, I shotgun a white claw lol because I’m just bored and want to pump up the energy by doing some crazy shit. This can be the issue for me with drinking, once I have 1 drink I just start to drink more and more and get crazier and crazier. I enter a different version of myself that is insanely more confident.

I know I can still reach this confidence though without alcohol, and that is why I prefer not to drink, because I want to naturally deal with my anxieties and develop a naturally confident personality.

Anyways, finally around midnight, we drive to my apartment (bc I’m located next to the bars). Everybody parks at mine, and we head to green light social. One of the girls gets us entrance through the back entrance because she knows the guys who live behind there. I’ve actually never entered this way, so that was kind of cool. I really should know how to get in that way considering I live like 300 ft from this bar lmao. Anyways, we enter the bar, and I see some girls I know, I find it very easy to approach and then introduce the girls to the girls I’m friends with. Having preselection just makes everything smoother. I would love to game with girls in the future, and that is something I’m working on more and more.

In fact, I want to create a trello to keep track of friend zoned girls and just build up a huge army of them so that I always have at least 2 girls that will come out with me and give me preselection. And I can just fall under the guise of being a “very social person” even though I’m highly introverted lmao.

Anyways, I move the girls to another bar, and there is some drama bc one of the girls like my friend but he just keeps opening other girls in front of her lol. At this bar, I get some opens in, and I start to get better at opener. At one point, I see this super hot Latina girl who’ve I’ve seen around multiple times and made eye contact with. I’m scared to approach though, and I get my wing to open, and then he drags me in. This was a good experience because it showed me that it really doesn’t matter and if I see a girl I like, I should just talk to her, because then this creates a memory of me with her, so then I can always reopen next week.

The bars close, and my wing and I find these two hot Brazilian chicks we were talking to earlier. I’m pretty instate and I literally just hook my arm around one of them and just say “let’s go party”. And they follow. Pull them back to my apt, where naughty things ensue ;)

Things I did well:
Pulled + closed Brazilian chick with a nice ass
Went out with social proof and leveraged it fairly effectively
Washed my face before bed
Got in set with that Latina chick I was scared to talk to
Wore a costume (I pretty much never wear costumes lol so this was big, also, a lot of people didn’t dress up, so there was definitely some social pressure felt)
Venue changed the girls I was with

Things I could have done better:
Been the life of the party without drinking - my goal should be to pump up everyone’s energy
Written my field report before bed
Used my preselection a little more to open more hot girls and hook them

Lessons learned:
Preselection is dope. I want to befriend more girls
Being physical when pulling is so important. Logically convincing on the pull never works lol
New Kanye album lit
 

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NIGHT 17 OF 30 DAY CHALLENGE:
Saturday October 26th:

Oh dope I can edit this one now due to the new forum format lol.... will have to write up this night bc it ended in a lay!
 
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NIGHT 18 OF 30 DAY CHALLENGE:
Thursday October 31st:
So tonight was halloween, and I’m in NYC for Derek’s Business Conference because I had a friend provide me a free ticket. Was at the conference from 1pm-11pm, with almost no breaks lol.

Got dinner afterwards with a group of dudes from the conference, and after this, some of my friend group wanted to go home. I’m pretty proud though that I was able to step up as a leader and convince them to go check out a NYC nightclub called Tao. We get there around 2am, and it’s rainy and windy, and it’s a $50 cover, so I make the decision to just game girls outside of the club.

I’m able to get 4-5 IGs and cause a lot of attraction, nearly pulling one set of girls. The rain makes things a little harder though because the girls are cold and trying to get into their ubers as quickly as possible. I do talk to some pretty hot girls, and I’m surprised at the quality in New York. It seems like it would be a pretty dope city to live in for game.

We head back around 3:30am, and I’m really proud of myself for going out and having an epic night where my game was on point, when initially I was thinking about not going out. I think the social momentum of talking with dudes all day at the conference definitely put me in a good state.

Things I did well:
Convinced guys to come out with me
Got 4-5 IG closes
Tried to push for the pull very hard
Squared up and had decent eye contact
Did a very good job with pressure on/pressure off and calibration

Things I could have done better:
Set up a situation with a promoter so I would have gotten in the club easily
Opened more dudes at the conference to network with
Talked to the guys at the conference who were the most successful millionaires, etc, and have fun with them, break rapport, etc

Lessons Learned:
Knowing proper promoters is key
 

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NIGHT 19 OF 30 DAY CHALLENGE:

Friday November 1st:
Went out tonight again despite almost not doing so haha. I initially went out with 2 guys I met at the conference who seemed decently cool. It’s funny how inaccurate first impressions can sometimes be.

These guys were funny, but they were game “newbies” and despite being NYC locals, they were very limited in their understanding of how to properly run NYC nightlife.

Anyways, we headed to a club, and we weren’t allowed in. They seemingly didn’t know any promoters or anything lol. Thus, I walked over to meet my other friend because he said he knew a promoter. He had promised the promoter he was bringing girls so I used my baller cold approach skills to round up 3 girls from the sidewalk. However, when we walked up to the bouncer, he still wanted us to pay a $100 cover. Each. :(

I’m pretty sure this happened because my wing did not use the proper lingo when talking to the bouncer and that the bouncer felt he didn’t belong inside. However, I really don’t know too much about NYC nightlife so it’s hard to say exactly what happened.

Anyways, we ended up gaming in the hotel lobby bar near the club, and I hook a 2 set with 1 cute Asian chick, and her chubby friend. We hook the set, hard and we nearly venue-change them, but something happens because they say they have to go to the bathroom and this kills the vibe slightly.

We are able to pump the vibe up slightly, and it turns out these girls are staying in the same hotel where the lobby bar is. I suppose that is one nice thing about gaming in hotel lobby bars, you have great logistics for the people who are in the hotel. Note to self: game more often in lobby bars.

So we take the elevator up to their floor, but they are uncomfortable for some reason and ask us to wait outside while they go into their room. Not sure what happened but I guess they want to ditch us because over 5 minutes passes and they don’t come out haha. Night over.

Things I did well:
Met new people and tried to go out with them (gave them a chance to impress me!)
Rounded up 3 girls outside of the club through a cold approach (something none of the other guys were able to do)
Gamed successfully in the lobby bar
Persisted in set and went up to their room

Things I could have done better:
Could have been better connected in NYC nightlife to know what was going on
Could have done better leading with the Asian 2 set

Lessons Learned:
Do more hotel lobby game in Austin
 

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NIGHT 20 OF 30 DAY CHALLENGE:
Didn’t really want to go out tonight as I was quite tired from the conference and wanted to get up early. Good news is, I was able to get up early, even with going out :).’

Saturday November 2nd:
I tagged along with a friend and we met up with two dudes pretty into PUA, one was a PUA coach. He is very theoretical and a funny dude, I feel like I could learn a lot from being around him.

We went to Brass Monkey, and it was quite crowded. I stayed 100% sober and my game was decent. I was able to approach and create some momentum with no issue.

I did get in one good set with a very cute petite girl who liked me but I struggled to escalate even though her buying temperature was very high. The crowdedness of the bar made it tough to move her around.

After this, I opened a girl right as she walked into the bar with laser eye contact. I was man-to-woman right away and she was into it. We made out and I grabbed her ass and she even put her hand in my pants and grabbed my dick lol.

She had to leave with her friends but we exchanged IGs. Later, she came back to the bar and found me, and I pulled her outside, but she called an Uber, so I just walked her around on an “adventure” for a bit, trying to find an alley to bang her in and hoping that she wouLd cancel her Uber.

However, I couldn’t find a good place, and once her Uber was here, I tried to get in, but she said no. One thing I realized is I could have split it with her and pretended I was going in her same direction lol.

Things I did Well:
Went out when I felt like going back
Made out with one girl
Got 3 IGs
Opened most girls that I thought were attractive
Had a girl grab my dick in the bar lol
Didn’t drink a drop of alcohol and got multiple glasses of water/soda water from the bartenders

Things I could have done better:
I could have meditated to help my game
Could have done a better job moving girls around
Could have held better eye contact
Could have tried to make out with the girls I like
Could have booked an Airbnb with better logistics

Lessons Learned:
If I ever come back to NYC, get an airbnb in meatpacking district
If I see a girl who is hot with high buying temperature, just go for the isolation and make out because why not
 

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NIGHT 21 OF 30 DAY CHALLENGE:

It’s weird that I can’t go back and edit posts in this forum, because night 17 was truly an epic night that ended with a solid lay. Alas, I suppose you all will never find out lol.

Anyways, since I got back from New York City, I’ve been feeling pretty worn out. I haven’t been feeling sick exactly, but the traveling kind of killed a lot of the positive habits and momentum I had been building here in Austin. This is common issue for me with travel. It gives me a short-term high, but erodes the long-term foundations that I have built up. I definitely gained something from the conference. But I also lost something...

Anyways, I need to get my ass back out to the bars here in Austin and keep working on my social skills because right before I went to NYC I had taken things up to a solid level getting lays with hot girls in back-to-back nights.

Saturday November 9th:
Yep... this is the first night I’ve been out since I’ve been back, for whatever reason. I think it’s mainly because I haven’t been hitting up wings so my option is to go out alone, which I have been resisting and making up excuses for because going out alone is always a little scary. Still, I want to go out alone. Even if it’s just for 30 minutes and I don’t talk to anyone, that is still a win in terms of developing social momentum.

Saturday night was pretty much like this. I went out around 1:45am, and only stayed out for 15 minutes or so, just walking around and doing no opens. :(

I think one issue is that I’m not doing the things I want to be doing during the day, and I kind of procrastinate them until the end of the day so then I’m not properly “ready” to go out. For instance, I’m typing this report at 10pm, when I should’ve typed it the night before or early this morning. At least I have now caught up on field reports so they should no longer be causing me much of an issue.

Time to ride some momentum this week :)

Things I did well:
Left my apartment
Left my phone at home
Been mediating nearly everyday since I’ve been back
Said something to a few girls

Things I could have done better:
Went out earlier
Not taken a nap
Stayed out for at least 30 minutes

Lessons Learned:
Start my day with meditation and journaling, BEFORE even checking my messages
Get excited to go out, and know that even if I just stand in a corner for 30 minutes, that’s better in terms of social momentum than not going out at all (very few people have the balls to go out sober + alone!)
 

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NIGHT 22 OF 30 DAY CHALLENGE:
Sunday November 10th:
So, tonight was one of those night I discussed in my last report. Went out alone for a long ass walk downtown, and didn’t really do many opens. It’s certainly tough going out alone, but literally getting out of my apartment is half of the battle.

I didn’t really feel much anxiety about being out alone. But, for whatever reason I didn’t feel like entering any bars. So I suppose I did have some anxiety about that. Next time my goal when going out alone will be to simply enter 3 bars lol

Despite being tired/sick all week, I did notice that going out definitely woke me up a little bit. I need socializing in my life and I need to make sure I get my fix in order to stay energetic and happy in life.

Things I did well:
Went out for 30 minutes
Left my phone at home
Pushed myself to go out instead of staying home

Things I could have done better:
I was scared to go into bars alone, and I could’ve went in

Lessons Learned:
When going out alone, it’s important to go into at least one bar as soon as possible, even if it’s just a quick pop-in. Also, I should learn the bouncer names so that I can chat with them in order to warm up
 

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NIGHT 23 OF 30 DAY CHALLENGE:
Monday November 11th:
A friend and I decided we would use this Monday night to go and check out how some of the hotel lobby bars are on a weeknight.

We went to about 4 different hotels including hotel Zara, the W, the JW Marriott, and the Four Seasons.

Out of these 4, the W and the JW had the most potential. The W has a very nice bar area that feels very club-like and thus it doesn’t feel as weird to approach. Although, there were pretty much no girls there lol.

The JW was awesome. It’s bar areas are huge and it was quite crowded due to a lot of people staying there for some sort of corporate conference. The JW seems to be one of the go-to corporate hotels, so this makes sense.

At the JW, we were able to open a couple different sets. Since there wasn’t a ton of people, I definitely have to be tactical. There really is no time for a warm up or “getting in state” but to be honest, being in state doesn’t matter very much because it is a lower pressure, quieter environment.

We do hook a nice 2 set, and I get the IG off of my girl. I do a really good job day-2 future projecting, even though the girl is pretty average looking and I’m not super interested in seeing her again, I think she could be a good one to friendzone.

I also realized that the main benefit of these hotel bars is probably the business networking aspect for me to chat with other guys. I should develop some sort of funnel where I could help these guys with marketing services. This would be a great opportunity for me to practice networking with men, and learn how to socialize in that fashion.

Things I did well:
Went out despite it being a frigid Monday night.
Explored new venues
Convinced a wing to come out with me
Got back at a reasonable time (12am)
Opened a few sets
Got a solid IG

Things I could have done better:
Could have developed an MVP funnel for business networking
Could have opened more girls on my own without the help of my wing

Lessons Learned:
Hotel lobby bars have lots of potential, specifically on the “off” weeknights of Monday-Thursday
Going out consistently almost everynight would be a huge win for my social momentum
 

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NIGHT 24 OF 30 DAY CHALLENGE:
Wednesday November 13th:
A friend invited me to go to this exclusive hotel party, so I went to it, even though I probably wouldn’t have gone out otherwise.

I rolled up there completely sober, and it was a pretty cool event with 100+ people crammed into a hotel bar. This was mainly an older crowd, 25-40 for the most part, and not many hot girls where there. I had a bunch of girls making eye contact with me though I suppose because I am a young attractive guy and it’s mostly older dudes. So... I ran into some friends and was able to warm up a bit by chatting with them. It also social proofed me a tiny bit.

After this, I was able to do a couple approaches on girls and find some “home base” sets of girls. In this environment, I noticed it works well to warm up on the less attractive girls and then trade up by merging sets or branching off.

Eventually, a girl opens me who I banged over a year ago, she is with 2 other girls who are 30+ but they are both very hot for their age. One of them has 40k+ IG followers. So this is pretty cool to be intro’d to this girl, and you can tell she is very sassy and high value. Pretty much every phrase that comes out of her is a shit-test.

They actually invite me to go grab food with them, so I do so, and I get to build more comfort with the set, even though I’m pretty nervous the whole time lol. I actually grab 1 drink at dinner, which makes things a little smoother.

Then, I head back to the party, and run into my friend. We open one last set here, and I start gaming this one super sexy girl who just has the most flirty vibes ever lol. Again, she knows she is hot and every single fucking thing she says is a shit-test. Talking to her is like trying to solve a series of riddles.

Eventually I pivot to her friend and get her qualifying a lot because I work in social media, and she is an aspiring youtuber. This actually works quite well because this girl is way nicer, and then the sexy girl gets jealous and now sees me as higher status because I won over her friend.

We all take some pictures, and then we depart on good terms. I’m actually going to see the youtuber girl tonight at an event we are both going to in Austin.

Things I did well:
Went out on a wednesday night
Went out to this exclusive party despite being nervous about attending
Resisted the urge to drink, until dinner (need to get better at socializing when sober - I think this mainly has to do with maintaining social and life momentum)
Got back home around 1:30am
Got IG of cute youtuber girl
Got IG of the 40k+ IG influencer
Went to dinner with 3 high value girls (for my city at least lol)
Open + gamed the hottest girl in the venue

Things I could have done better:
Maintained better social momentum going into the party so I wasn’t as nervous
Opened more guys and worked on my “dude networking” game (although I think I do know the rough format of how to do this)

Lessons Learned:
These somewhat hidden socialite events are where the highest value people in Austin go, I need to become more aware of these events and make sure to build relationships with the right people
Maintaining social momentum is crucial if I don’t want to drink
I’m always going to feel a little anxiety, which is why any type of warm up is so useful
 

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NIGHT 25 OF 30 DAY CHALLENGE:
Wednesday November 26th:
It’s the night before thanksgiving and apparently this night is called “blackout wednesday”. I’ve been slacking on my game recently due to the fact that another huge zit popped up on my face.

I think I have gotten my skin under control though and this was more of a freak accident. As long as I eat a healthy diet with veggies, and meditate/exercise my skin stays under control, so in a lot of ways it is actually a good incentive for me to live a healthy lifestyle. I also went ahead and bought a red light LED device to try out red light therapy.

Anyways, so I am pretty worn out and I take a nap from 8:30pm to 11pm or so, and then I watch the new Steven Crowder change my mind called “Thanksgiving isn’t rascist: change my mind”.

Around 1am, I decide I’m going out, so I leave my phone at home and walk out to a nearby bar.

In the past, I’ve been scared to enter a bar on my own, but tonight I pushed through, and lo and behold, the second I get into the bar I run into a few of my friends.

I join them and head to another bar, and do a couple of approaches there. I do get in one really solid approach on a hot blonde girl, but I don’t stay in set with her.

Im starting to understand alpha male body language a little more as well.

We eventually pull the girls that I’m friends with and have a little afterparty, this goes pretty late, but no one ends up banging.

Things I did well:
Went out alone
Left my phone at home
Went into a bar alone
Went out despite acne
Made girls qualify with body language
Had ok eye contact and breaking rapport tonality

Things I could have done better:
Held better eye contact
Opened more girls and stayed in set to try to pull a new girl

Lessons Learned:
Always try to pull a new girl to increase abundance
Leverage preselection
 
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