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Put myself in a shitty situation I think, where do I go from here

randy__bobandy

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Here at my school, I have a main clique of friends. About half of them I'm very good friends with and I see them several times a week. The other half I am also good friends with but I don't see them as often.

So last night, I invited a girl Julia from "the other half" to a party my room mates and I were hosting in our apartment. She came over, we talked a bit, we played beer pong/flip cup a bit, and had a good time. Then the party ended and everyone decided to go to the bars nearby. She stuck around with me at the apartment while I did a bit of cleaning, just pouring excess drinks out and cleaning up spills, and then we headed out to the bars with my other apartment mate Ben. We lost sight of Ben, so we both decided to just head back to the apartment.

She had one more drink as we talked for about an hour (she was giving something like 95% of the conversation, very easy to talk to). Long story short, one of Ben's friends ended up passing out on the couch, so I told Julia that she can sleep on my bed.

Long story short, we made it to third base, and she slept over.

So here's where I think I put myself in a shitty situation, I obviously nearly fucked my good friend. And I also want to stay friends with her and not have it be awkward. I haven't texted her yet at all. What do you think I should do to make this as easy as possible?
 
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spicynoodle

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I would suggest texting her something along the lines of, 'Hey, I had a great time with you last night; I really enjoyed your company' and then depending upon whether you wish to perhaps follow that up with a date idea. 'How about we grab a coffee, what does your schedule look like?'.
 
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