Okay, so lately I've been reflecting back on my growth and results since I've gotten into game and pickup, which was about 2 years ago. In that time, I've slept with exactly 22 women (31 in total in life), and I've been trying to see whether any patterns emerge between girls I manage to bed.
After some thinking, the conclusion I've come to is that virtually all women, specifically all except 3, are genuinely high quality. I realized this since, this year, I've hooked up with 2 women, both of whom are very hot and also extremely successful. One is a ballet dancer with her own private school, and the other is a high-end manager at a big international company. Other than those two, I've been struggling quite a lot, barely able to get kisses/make-outs with a few other girls, only to have it fizzle with them flaking in the end.
And the reason, I think, is that I find most women simply boring, and I can't seem to get anywhere with like 7s who are cashiers ad McDonald's. I have problems making connections with these average, but still pretty cute girls. And it's not for lack of desire on my part. Most girls I hook up with are 8s, 9s and 10s who are doctors, managers, lawyers, have their own businesses etc. However with the more "basic" but still pretty attractive girls, I struggle. My game with them is worse too, the conversation are more boring, and there's less emotional spark.
But I still wanna fuck these girls too, not just a really high quality girl here and there. Usually they're a little older too, like 29-30+ (I'm 26 btw). But with 18-25, it's a no-go. It may be my pretentiousness and arrogance, like maybe I'm feeling I'm better than them, and perhaps they sense it and auto-reject. But I can't seem to fix it. For example, when I ask a girl what she likes to do in her free time and she tells me something like "oh I dunno, I just like to hang out with friends, drink coffee etc.", I don't know how to work with that, when she's pasionless and basic. Still, I want to get better and have more lays with these girls too, but I can't seem to make it happen.
I guess I'm looking for input from you guys, if anyone's had this problem, or simply can guess how to work on it and find ways to connect with these girls too?
After some thinking, the conclusion I've come to is that virtually all women, specifically all except 3, are genuinely high quality. I realized this since, this year, I've hooked up with 2 women, both of whom are very hot and also extremely successful. One is a ballet dancer with her own private school, and the other is a high-end manager at a big international company. Other than those two, I've been struggling quite a lot, barely able to get kisses/make-outs with a few other girls, only to have it fizzle with them flaking in the end.
And the reason, I think, is that I find most women simply boring, and I can't seem to get anywhere with like 7s who are cashiers ad McDonald's. I have problems making connections with these average, but still pretty cute girls. And it's not for lack of desire on my part. Most girls I hook up with are 8s, 9s and 10s who are doctors, managers, lawyers, have their own businesses etc. However with the more "basic" but still pretty attractive girls, I struggle. My game with them is worse too, the conversation are more boring, and there's less emotional spark.
But I still wanna fuck these girls too, not just a really high quality girl here and there. Usually they're a little older too, like 29-30+ (I'm 26 btw). But with 18-25, it's a no-go. It may be my pretentiousness and arrogance, like maybe I'm feeling I'm better than them, and perhaps they sense it and auto-reject. But I can't seem to fix it. For example, when I ask a girl what she likes to do in her free time and she tells me something like "oh I dunno, I just like to hang out with friends, drink coffee etc.", I don't know how to work with that, when she's pasionless and basic. Still, I want to get better and have more lays with these girls too, but I can't seem to make it happen.
I guess I'm looking for input from you guys, if anyone's had this problem, or simply can guess how to work on it and find ways to connect with these girls too?
