Question on Vulnerability

[Anonymous]

to all of the Social savants on Girlschase.com as well as Chase himself

I am really curious on the concept of vulnurability and how it applies to the overall concept of Picking up women and furthering meaningful connections with many people in our lives.

as I have recently learned, the more people tell you about themselevs the more connected they feel. How do we strike a balance from keeping ourselves vulnerable and connected with women without destroying attraction? Is it all situational or when earned? Maybe I don't fully understand the concept of vulnerability but i'm kind of in a crossfire of being myself...or being mysterious all the time. I have seen clear success with everything in the E-book how girls chase but i'm more so trying to gain a deep understanding for my own internal state as well.

Any insight would be greatly appreciated.

 

[Richard]

The phenomena of vulnerability, at least in my opinion, is something crafted by the individual and vulnerability serves an important key in being a Byronic man, which is a man with a blend of good and bad essentially.
To me, in creating your vulnerability, it is calculated, meaning that you're not overly mysterious, nor overly yourself. You implicitly reveal the "bad" qualities of yourself in passing. For example, don't directly state that you were once a socially autistic being who couldn't talk to anyone without pissing yourself, but if you have since gotten over that quality mention it through "baiting" and get her asking more about it (her asking about it is a catalyst to her chasing severely).
This is calculated vulnerability because you're revealing things about yourself that you have further gotten over, but the girl is feeding off the gossip, the sob story, and falls for your eventual triumph in becoming who you are today.
Then, there is actual vulnerability which is a problem, or rather, a quality you have which you may be working to get over, and girls (provided you are a sexy man who she is interested in) will chase the chance to help you overcome that trait/ quality.

-Hope this clears up some of your questions, if not, feel free to respond,
Richard