Question on wearing shades and Eye Contact

[carlitos2055]

Ok so I want to start wearing shades to look better but I was wondering if it defeats the point of eye contact. I know when in a conversation to take off the shades but when a girl is walking towards you looking at you and you have your head turned away, how will she know you're looking at her so I can establish that she's chasing me since she looked first. Same thing goes for when I'm looking straight forward, how will she know I'm looking or not at her. Thanks in advance!

 

[Mr.Rob]

You keep asking all these questions on really intricate details of fundamentals.

Definitely a good thing to do to refine the little things perfectly and get to a point where you have movie star fundamentals.

However I'm curious as to if you're actually even meeting lots of girls yet.

If your not meeting 15 girls + a week I'd personally not be too worried about the little details and instead be worried about taking action in general. Otherwise it won't make a difference either way.

Personally all the little questions you've asked aren't going to be the deal breaker in you getting laid or not, I promise.

The idea of preopening (getting her looking at you first) isn't so much that its going to increase your lay rate x10 but its going to get you off on a slightly better foot than you would if you did so otherwise.

 

[carlitos2055]

Haha yea I am known for trying to perfect everything and ask all the questions there are to ask haha! You're right I'm not meeting that many girls it's sort of hard when you're 16 and don't have a car. My schedule is also very tough and weekdays I'm out training for my sport until around 8 pm and after that is shower and eat, then hit the sheets. Weekends is the only time I can really socialize. Thank you for the advice!

 

[Thinkingenigma]

I actually like shades for pre-opening. It blocks your eyes, so it appears as if she sees you before you see her, but you can return eye contact by dropping your head a bit and giving her an underlook over the top of the glasses. Drop dead sexy if you do it right. Just my two cents. Shades aren't a big deal either way, but that's how you can turn a problem into an advantage

 

[ILoveElla]

but when a girl is walking towards you looking at you and you have your head turned away, how will she know you're looking at her so I can establish that she's chasing me!

Ah, if you're looking that means you're the chaser, not her! You must mean to ask "how will she know I'm looking back if I'm wearing shades?"