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[FAB DRONES]

1. Lifestyle Changes:
   • What strategies can help me quit smoking weed and maintain a healthier lifestyle?
   • How can I prepare myself mentally and emotionally for a potential stay in rehab?

apologies if i come back and edit this... I'm trying

i don't wanna go bc everytime I do this. I mean I always do this. I build up momemntum in one living situation and then i move.

Oh yeah, and this "rehab" is more like a religious fraternity extended retreat for up to 3 years (WITH NO GIRLS)

My dad also gave me the undesireable option of an expensive "medical" or ["proper scienticifc" (my words] rehab aka rich spoiled kid thing

or move out.

But, I didn't argue with him, but I'm finishing my stash of weed today and wont buy any more.

 

[DonGately]

No girls in rehab? What the what???? They call it '13th step' for a reason.

 

[theReason]

Mister Man, I proudly present to you… the post that made me decide to get professional help——->

https://www.skilledseducer.com/thre...advice-from-successful-guys.28399/post-170075

( p l e a s e r e a d t h e w h o l e t h i n g )


And just because I love you so much, here’s a devo song to address the rest of your questions.

 

[Zoro]

As someone who is currently letting go of some bad habits, this is what’s helped me.

Treat it like a breakup. You need to forget about it and move on. Find a new thing, a better thing to replace it.

Don’t worry about how or why, just forget about it like you’d forget an ex.

Some suggestions, pick up a new hobby, especially a social one. Pickleball, golf, soccer, skateboarding.
Maybe even magic (the card game), or public speaking. Something that requires you to dive into it and build a skill, while also being enjoyable and social. Great replacement for a vice.

 

[FAB DRONES]

No girls in rehab? What the what???? They call it '13th step' for a reason.

what the what??!!! right back atcha 13th step! sounds unlucky!

I couldn't get through the twelve step program.

It sounds like a really bad idea, I know... no girls. I've done a lot of these all boys religious things because of my mom throughout life. Wasn't smart enough to get into all boys school tho

 

[FAB DRONES]

Mister Man, I proudly present to you… the post that made me decide to get professional help——->

https://www.skilledseducer.com/thre...advice-from-successful-guys.28399/post-170075

( p l e a s e r e a d t h e w h o l e t h i n g )


And just because I love you so much, here’s a devo song to address the rest of your questions.

I can't see the video <3

 

[FAB DRONES]

Mister Man, I proudly present to you… the post that made me decide to get professional help——->

https://www.skilledseducer.com/thre...advice-from-successful-guys.28399/post-170075

( p l e a s e r e a d t h e w h o l e t h i n g )


And just because I love you so much, here’s a devo song to address the rest of your questions.

I've been through every type of professional help there is...not saying it's a foregone conclusion necessarily...pay to have someone to talk to when you have no one else...

I read the whole thing. I can relate to OP. IDK if he was a real troll. I'm not intentionally trolling.

They all sorta piled on him for being a giant retarded nerd... Yeah, that's why he's trying to learn how to get girls online... gimme a break...

I'd say to him, go read the forum. It was a low quality post for sure.

But then, I'd say, if you'd read the post about getting any hot girl, you know you want bodybuilding girls, so go be a bodybuilder (amateur at first) and make friends with the hot girls..

I've seen it online there;s this one (not famous but a super super hot local chick) posted someone one her insta I was jealous so i stalked him he's also in bodybuilding like her.

 

[theReason]

pay to have someone to talk to when you have no one else

Exactly. Someone professional. Not 900 horny gorillas on the internet.

• What strategies can help me quit smoking weed and maintain a healthier lifestyle?
• How can I prepare myself mentally and emotionally for a potential stay in rehab?

Both of these questions are perfect questions for staff members of a rehab facility.

Are you going to do what everyone in your life is unanimously asking of you?

Or are you going to keep breaking our hearts?

 

[FAB DRONES]

I'm asking if going to a rehab with no girls right now would be a tragic mistake.

So let's say for the sake of argument I quit tomorrow. I'm breaking my own heart too here, of course. What happens then is, I'll have to have a phone call with the people of the rehab and I'm not prepared to have that conversation, where you tell them, yeah I want to go and my parents want me to go. either that or i keep kicking the can, but I have to tell my parent's that I don't want to go anymore and want a professional therapist to talk to first.

It's a catholic thing, kids from catholic families that have trouble coping. A farm out of state. You physical labor and relgious stuff. You have to do corny stuff and it's not going to be fun. It's going to be 6 months to 3 years. You could get out sooner only if you were super determined. They really prefer it to be a long term stay.

I'm SUPER PARANOID if you guys haven't noticed. I'm paranoid about this, like I am of everything. Why do they make sure you understand it's a fraternity before you join? That's the way it's phrased. weird.

I never wanted to join a frat in college. Too paranoid and too scared of hazing. Also thought I was better than them. 'I don't need it to have friends!'

But joining a frat that doesn't have sorority girls in the equation? Sounds weird. Why do they go out of their way to say it that way.

And right now I'm gaining momentum with girls. Every time I move, it ruins me, like really bad. And that's when there is girls in the new living situation.

Now I go, and I'm gonna sober up, get my body nice and limber, that's all well and good. Chill and pray and do some male bonding. That's assuming I'm not super depressed the whole time as a result of not getting pussy.

But then, when I come back, what if everything's passed me by? What if I'm not hot shit anymore?

Remember, I'm this supposedly hot guy that comes off autistic, but I'm actually socially retarded and high all the time. In my life story, I am very resentful at my strict religious upbringing and my super religious phase in the beginning of college for keeping me deprived of pussy. So this would be more of the same. I basically already decided not to go...but I am stringing a lot of people along at this point, my parents and two people at the rehab now.

 

[theReason]

religious rehab = bad idea

medical rehab (as your dad suggested) = good idea

I'm not prepared to have that conversation, where you tell them, yeah I want to go

You don’t have to tell them “I want to go”.

my parents want me to go.

Just say this instead.

But please make the call. Call the medical rehab facility.

2 months ago, you were capable of having a job. You’re capable of making one phone call.

 

[FAB DRONES]

As someone who is currently letting go of some bad habits, this is what’s helped me.

Treat it like a breakup. You need to forget about it and move on. Find a new thing, a better thing to replace it.

Don’t worry about how or why, just forget about it like you’d forget an ex.

Some suggestions, pick up a new hobby, especially a social one. Pickleball, golf, soccer, skateboarding.
Maybe even magic (the card game), or public speaking. Something that requires you to dive into it and build a skill, while also being enjoyable and social. Great replacement for a vice.

yup, honestly pickup is my hobby that motivates me to be sober. Of course there's others too. Playing music again, picking up golf.

I'm this close to breaking up with Mary Jane. I'm at the point where I've improved my mental health enough to stand being sober.

 

[theReason]

@mrman DM me when you’ve made the call.

 

[Adventurer]

I'm asking if going to a rehab with no girls right now would be a tragic mistake.

So let's say for the sake of argument I quit tomorrow. I'm breaking my own heart too here, of course. What happens then is, I'll have to have a phone call with the people of the rehab and I'm not prepared to have that conversation, where you tell them, yeah I want to go and my parents want me to go. either that or i keep kicking the can, but I have to tell my parent's that I don't want to go anymore and want a professional therapist to talk to first.

It's a catholic thing, kids from catholic families that have trouble coping. A farm out of state. You physical labor and relgious stuff. You have to do corny stuff and it's not going to be fun. It's going to be 6 months to 3 years. You could get out sooner only if you were super determined. They really prefer it to be a long term stay.

I'm SUPER PARANOID if you guys haven't noticed. I'm paranoid about this, like I am of everything. Why do they make sure you understand it's a fraternity before you join? That's the way it's phrased. weird.

I never wanted to join a frat in college. Too paranoid and too scared of hazing. Also thought I was better than them. 'I don't need it to have friends!'

But joining a frat that doesn't have sorority girls in the equation? Sounds weird. Why do they go out of their way to say it that way.

And right now I'm gaining momentum with girls. Every time I move, it ruins me, like really bad. And that's when there is girls in the new living situation.

Now I go, and I'm gonna sober up, get my body nice and limber, that's all well and good. Chill and pray and do some male bonding. That's assuming I'm not super depressed the whole time as a result of not getting pussy.

But then, when I come back, what if everything's passed me by? What if I'm not hot shit anymore?

Remember, I'm this supposedly hot guy that comes off autistic, but I'm actually socially retarded and high all the time. In my life story, I am very resentful at my strict religious upbringing and my super religious phase in the beginning of college for keeping me deprived of pussy. So this would be more of the same. I basically already decided not to go...but I am stringing a lot of people along at this point, my parents and two people at the rehab now.

6 months to 3 years in the middle of nowhere with other religious fanatics? You'd better stay addicted and not go. Sounds exactly like those horror stories where vulnerable people pay to join some kind of sect and suffer horrible psychological torture and abuse. Such as "conversion therapy"

Spirituality plays a big role in beating addictions. Alcoholic anonymous is a famous exemple of rehab that uses faith to great effect. But this thing sounds more than a little sketchy. Whatever you do, don't go to this place

 

[Zoro]

yup, honestly pickup is my hobby that motivates me to be sober. Of course there's others too. Playing music again, picking up golf.

I'm this close to breaking up with Mary Jane. I'm at the point where I've improved my mental health enough to stand being sober.

Break up with her. You can get high on life. I broke up with her and realized how she’s fun but lacking substance.