Questions about canceling and (re)scheduling dates

[svenas]

I use tinder a lot to get dates.

But when I schedule a date (day-time-place) like 50% of the time the date still gets cancelled by the girl or rescheduled and I never hear from her again. Is this a normal percentage for canceling with online dating? Or am I still doing wrong?

Also sometimes else: when I try to plan a day for a date. Then the girl comes up with a day a week later or 2 weeks later. And that usually kills the attraction. Is there any way to force those girls to meet earlier? (without coming up too pushy.)

 

[Franco]

svenas,

But when I schedule a date (day-time-place) like 50% of the time the date still gets cancelled by the girl or rescheduled and I never hear from her again. Is this a normal percentage for canceling with online dating? Or am I still doing wrong?

Also sometimes else: when I try to plan a day for a date. Then the girl comes up with a day a week later or 2 weeks later. And that usually kills the attraction. Is there any way to force those girls to meet earlier? (without coming up too pushy.)

These all seem like pretty normal statistics for online dating. There's usually a LOT of flakiness, and most women don't take it very seriously. Unless they are extremely horny and feel very confident that you're the guy that will satisfy that immediate hunger, then they'll usually just use Tinder as amusement. It's important to know which women to look for (and preferably women that have just signed up for the app within the last week) to have the most success.

Even though cold approaching is a number's game as well, it's important to realize that online dating is even MORE of a number's game. The more times you play, the better your odds of winning. =)

- Franco