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Re: Questions for those of you in here who have known Indian guys having success
Locking this thread.
I'm not locking the thread because there isn't good advice being given -- I'm locking the thread because it's the same loop with the guys who post them. The Armani Code is looking for someone to show him that Indian men can have success, but it's an endless cycle. Even if I were to show you one guy, you would label it as such: "well, that's just ONE guy! Show me many Indian guys having success!" That's not going to happen, and that's an inherent problem with Indian culture in general and the way most Indian(-American) kids are raised; they aren't socialized enough with society to develop many of the nuances that make men of ANY skin color attractive to women, so they are working from "behind" essentially. However, instead of understanding this and "catching up" with all the other kids (be that, white, black, latino, and even Asian), they just rationalize that women don't like them. I wouldn't want to teach a guy who thinks women don't like him how to pick up women. It's a headache.
The tolerance for these types of threads is only going to get lower. The only guys that board members want to help are the ones that listen, work, and report back. If you're not willing to be adamant about collecting your own data, even with the plenty of failures that are sure to follow, then this isn't the place for you.
- Franco
Locking this thread.
I'm not locking the thread because there isn't good advice being given -- I'm locking the thread because it's the same loop with the guys who post them. The Armani Code is looking for someone to show him that Indian men can have success, but it's an endless cycle. Even if I were to show you one guy, you would label it as such: "well, that's just ONE guy! Show me many Indian guys having success!" That's not going to happen, and that's an inherent problem with Indian culture in general and the way most Indian(-American) kids are raised; they aren't socialized enough with society to develop many of the nuances that make men of ANY skin color attractive to women, so they are working from "behind" essentially. However, instead of understanding this and "catching up" with all the other kids (be that, white, black, latino, and even Asian), they just rationalize that women don't like them. I wouldn't want to teach a guy who thinks women don't like him how to pick up women. It's a headache.
The tolerance for these types of threads is only going to get lower. The only guys that board members want to help are the ones that listen, work, and report back. If you're not willing to be adamant about collecting your own data, even with the plenty of failures that are sure to follow, then this isn't the place for you.
- Franco
