Questions from a Beginner on starting out

[TheWiseFool]

Hello,

If you don't me asking, could you answer some questions?

1. When you first started out learning game, what were some of your biggest hurdles?
2. What did you do to get over these hurdles? In what ways did you tackle the problem or change up your strategy to achieve your desired results?
3. What tactics did you find to work best for you in particular and why? Was it the material or was it a pre-existing quality before game?
4. What is your basic process now and what is, in your opinion, the most crucial moment/sticking point? What is the easiest and why?

I know these questions are quite a lot. Thank you for taking the time to read!
- The Wise Fool

PS I sent this to some people already gathering thoughts, but Laowai suggested that I make a post here so people can see Give feedback guys it helps everyone!!!

 

[fsc_old]

1.
- Looking at random girls straight in the eye
- Smiling at random girls
- Obviously, cold approaching
- Holding a conversation
- Everything...pretty much haha

2.
- Take steps. I just kinda talked about it here
- I also upgraded my wardrobe and hair style

3.
- Take steps. It's like...you can't multiply before you know how to add.

4.
- Try to pre-open -> open -> banter -> propose date and number close or instant date -> date and go for sex -> ?
- Most crucial moment, I think is the opening. Gotta give a good first impression. I've had good responses without pre-opening so it's not that important. Date isn't that important because when she's on a date with you it means she likes you, so all you have to do is not fuck up. Sex is pretty important if you intend to keep her around.
- I'm still a noob so nothing is easy hahah

 

[TheWiseFool]

Hey fsc,

Apologies for the late reply. Thanks for the input! I have come to the realization that I really need to take some baby steps since I haven't gotten anywhere this break. I am gonna go through Chase's book again and actually do the assignments. I remember, when I was first reading the book, I told myself, "You should really do the assignments. I know you're going to regret this later." And just like I always do, I tell myself, "Nah I got this!" and here I am now lol! Although you and I are still inexperienced, I'd say that you helped me much more than you know. It helps to get perspective on someone of your own caliber. Someone who understands where you're at and can provide you with insight that helped to "Start off" or where to move forward. Again, Thanks!

- The Wise Fool