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This pull was so absolutely fucking perfect that I can't believe I fucked it up at the end!
Yesterday was Cinco De Mayo for those of you that are not holiday aware. If you don't know it is a celebration of the Mexican Army defeating the French army in the battle of Puebla...
Sort of a funny holiday for people from the US to celebrate since most people think that it's the celebration of Mexico's independence. To celebrate such a commemoration of Mexico's triumphant battle, American's dress in Sombrero's and Hawaiian shirts (due to not knowing what a Mexican shirt looks like) and begin drinking at much earlier times than typically socially acceptable.
The result is a bunch of drunk, possibly overly aggressive, and horny people by 10:00 PM. What a great holiday!
I got to the club at 7:00 PM last night. It is a college bar/club about 7 minutes from my house.
I get to the club by myself and open a girl or two at the bar before finding my friends. Once I get up with my buddy I open two girls nearby and give a playful neg regarding her clothing. She disapproves at my gesture and turns her back on me (I did apologize later on in the night and she was very warm and receptive to me).
Soon after a very cute girl in a black top on and some latin inspired short shorts walks by and I yell at her as she walks by
"AYE! (gets her attention) YOU! Come here!"
While pointing at her with authoritative yet warm body language.
"Who the fuck are you?"
She tells me her name and I keep her hand in mine while we banter for a minute. I then introduce her to my friend (who has solid fundamentals and is in a quite stoic present mood not saying anything which gives him this massive charisma boost) and tell her to rate him on a scale of 1-10. She rates him as a 12 out of 10 and I tell her that's pathetic because my friend is a 15 out of 10 and I proceed to playfully dismiss her (PUSH). She laughs and hits me and I pull her back in to embrace me.
I think we talk for another minute or two and I can tell she's pretty into me so I decide to move her to a different part of the bar.
I take her hand and tell her we're going outside on the patio area. She complies and holds my hand very tightly as I lead her through the chaos to the outside world.
Once we get outside we check out the absolutely immaculate crispy gold with shades of spattered pink sunset before us and it sets a more intimate mood.
We start talking about some boring shit and then I decide to see how receptive she is to the idea of sexuality.
I do this by asking about what she did today (to preframe the social acceptability for talking about what I did today). She tells me she did this and that boring odd bullshit.
Then this dialogue begins:
We started talking about some other shit and I could feel the vibe start to dying down ever so slowly and I knew it was time to make a major move.
I told her "come were going to go get free drinks come with me my darling!" I take her hand and start leading her out of the club. She puts up resistance and says that she can't leave her friends (her friends I haven't seen the entire time and that she said nothing of prior to). I tell her we aren't leaving her friends we're just going to grab a drink real quick and be right back. I said this with a tone of authority and fun. Authority to get her to submit to my masculinity and fun to keep her emotions focused on partying and not getting pulled before it's even dark out to go fuck.
Once I get her out of the club she is bought into me and my leadership and I take her back to my car. I know in the back of my mind getting her in the car could potentially pose issues and am prepared to persuade when the time comes.
However she readily gets in and says "Let's drive!" when we get to my car so that went particularly smooth.
I drive her back to my place. At this point in time it's 8:30 give or take.
We get to my house and I put on some sexy Latin music we were talking about when we first got in my car. This is her absolute favorite music and she loves me for it.
Mistake #1: My plan was to make drinks and then go back to my room and get busy. She used the bathroom for a second before I made drinks and I walked into the hallway where the bathroom is the same time she gets out of the bathroom. It's a poorly lit hallway so it's dark and she has very seductive body language and is calling my name "Roberto".
I should've just taken her and pushed her up against the hall and start getting busy there.
Instead I took her by the hand to finish making the drinks (because I figured another equally ample opportunity would soon present itself or I would create it). We take the drinks back to my room and start listening to music and shes talking about this and that. I realize that her conversation is leaning to be too platonic and so I tell her to get out of the chair and show me her dance skills.
She does not comply... I tell her to get up again. She does not comply. I then pick her up out of the chair in which she spills a little drink and then begins dancing with me (sometimes you have to manhandle situations to get the best outcome for both parties I'm realizing).
I then start making out with her and we start getting more sexually intimate/aroused.
Mistake #2: The song ends and she wants to interrupt our escalation to go change the fucking song. At the time I didn't see much harm in it but I think it was a bit of a subconscious attempt for her to not hook up with me so she wouldn't be a slut. I let her go change the song and now she's sitting down in the chair and won't come out of it again.
If I could do it over again I would've told her "fuck the music this is way better" and then throw her on the bed and attack her passionately.
We talk and this that and the other for a minute. The conversation is very platonic and I'm getting pissed that I can't find a way to change the vibe back and escalate things more sexually.
She then gets a series of texts apparently from her friend who is meeting her at the bar we just came from and is expecting her to be there when she gets there.
I get her mind off that and get her back on my bed. We start kissing again but she keeps persistently bringing up her friend. I tell her it's cool and we'll leave shortly but she keeps pestering about it to the point where it's fucking annoying.
I figure to cut my losses and take responsibility that I should've moved faster once I got her home. I drive her back to the club and it's 9 oclock when we get there.
I party till about 2 that night. I got a lot of attraction from a lot of girls last night but nothing lined up logistically to pull again.
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Key Take Away's
1. When moving as fast as possible don't overly intterrupt the pace of moving fast. In my mind once she got home it was time to chill and take my time in the seduction but in reality it would've been better to keep things fast paced and passionate as they started.
2. If a escalation opportunity presents itself once bouncing a girl home take the first one that comes despite any other trivial plans. Be dominant and decisive just as you have been. The reason you brought her home was to fuck so if she's displaying even a smidgen of horniness it's best to take it when it comes.
3. Keep the conversation sexual and not platonic since it kills the vibe. I need to figure out a way to keep conversation sexual once in the bedroom prior to escalation.
That's really about it. I'm proud I was able to bounce her back to my place that fast and hit all the escalation windows except the last one but I'm pissed I was unable to close out the last 5%.
Gonna hit this shit next time!
As always keep it pimpin
-Rob
Yesterday was Cinco De Mayo for those of you that are not holiday aware. If you don't know it is a celebration of the Mexican Army defeating the French army in the battle of Puebla...
Sort of a funny holiday for people from the US to celebrate since most people think that it's the celebration of Mexico's independence. To celebrate such a commemoration of Mexico's triumphant battle, American's dress in Sombrero's and Hawaiian shirts (due to not knowing what a Mexican shirt looks like) and begin drinking at much earlier times than typically socially acceptable.
The result is a bunch of drunk, possibly overly aggressive, and horny people by 10:00 PM. What a great holiday!
I got to the club at 7:00 PM last night. It is a college bar/club about 7 minutes from my house.
I get to the club by myself and open a girl or two at the bar before finding my friends. Once I get up with my buddy I open two girls nearby and give a playful neg regarding her clothing. She disapproves at my gesture and turns her back on me (I did apologize later on in the night and she was very warm and receptive to me).
Soon after a very cute girl in a black top on and some latin inspired short shorts walks by and I yell at her as she walks by
"AYE! (gets her attention) YOU! Come here!"
While pointing at her with authoritative yet warm body language.
"Who the fuck are you?"
She tells me her name and I keep her hand in mine while we banter for a minute. I then introduce her to my friend (who has solid fundamentals and is in a quite stoic present mood not saying anything which gives him this massive charisma boost) and tell her to rate him on a scale of 1-10. She rates him as a 12 out of 10 and I tell her that's pathetic because my friend is a 15 out of 10 and I proceed to playfully dismiss her (PUSH). She laughs and hits me and I pull her back in to embrace me.
I think we talk for another minute or two and I can tell she's pretty into me so I decide to move her to a different part of the bar.
I take her hand and tell her we're going outside on the patio area. She complies and holds my hand very tightly as I lead her through the chaos to the outside world.
Once we get outside we check out the absolutely immaculate crispy gold with shades of spattered pink sunset before us and it sets a more intimate mood.
We start talking about some boring shit and then I decide to see how receptive she is to the idea of sexuality.
I do this by asking about what she did today (to preframe the social acceptability for talking about what I did today). She tells me she did this and that boring odd bullshit.
Then this dialogue begins:
At around this point in time it had been about 15-20 minutes tops since we met and I could feel an escalation window open and slowly start closing.Me: Oh wow I think my day totally beats your day but mines a bit dirtier than yours Idk if I should tell you
Her: Oh? No doo tell!
Me: Okay so my buddy Jamal that you met inside earlier does Yoga all the time and has shown me a couple things. So today I decided to go on a mile long run and then do some Yoga... Naked Yoga
Me: It was awesome! I found out I'm actually more narcissistic than I first thought! While I was doing it I kept looking at myself in these crazy positions and kept noticing how sexy my naked body is and I started getting turned on just by looking at myself
Her: HAHAHAHAHA you are so awesome
Me: It's weird because I'm not gay/bisexual but I find myself highly attractive. Do you ever look at yourself naked and get turned on?
Her: haha No! Of course not! (ASD in case I'm judgemental)
Me: Bullshit you just know I'm in on your secret! Don't worry I'll keep it between you me! (Communicating secret society membership... or at least that I'm applied to secret society lol)
Her: Bury's head into my neck/shoulder and laughs. I can tell I just spiked her attraction quite hard.
We started talking about some other shit and I could feel the vibe start to dying down ever so slowly and I knew it was time to make a major move.
I told her "come were going to go get free drinks come with me my darling!" I take her hand and start leading her out of the club. She puts up resistance and says that she can't leave her friends (her friends I haven't seen the entire time and that she said nothing of prior to). I tell her we aren't leaving her friends we're just going to grab a drink real quick and be right back. I said this with a tone of authority and fun. Authority to get her to submit to my masculinity and fun to keep her emotions focused on partying and not getting pulled before it's even dark out to go fuck.
Once I get her out of the club she is bought into me and my leadership and I take her back to my car. I know in the back of my mind getting her in the car could potentially pose issues and am prepared to persuade when the time comes.
However she readily gets in and says "Let's drive!" when we get to my car so that went particularly smooth.
I drive her back to my place. At this point in time it's 8:30 give or take.
We get to my house and I put on some sexy Latin music we were talking about when we first got in my car. This is her absolute favorite music and she loves me for it.
Mistake #1: My plan was to make drinks and then go back to my room and get busy. She used the bathroom for a second before I made drinks and I walked into the hallway where the bathroom is the same time she gets out of the bathroom. It's a poorly lit hallway so it's dark and she has very seductive body language and is calling my name "Roberto".
I should've just taken her and pushed her up against the hall and start getting busy there.
Instead I took her by the hand to finish making the drinks (because I figured another equally ample opportunity would soon present itself or I would create it). We take the drinks back to my room and start listening to music and shes talking about this and that. I realize that her conversation is leaning to be too platonic and so I tell her to get out of the chair and show me her dance skills.
She does not comply... I tell her to get up again. She does not comply. I then pick her up out of the chair in which she spills a little drink and then begins dancing with me (sometimes you have to manhandle situations to get the best outcome for both parties I'm realizing).
I then start making out with her and we start getting more sexually intimate/aroused.
Mistake #2: The song ends and she wants to interrupt our escalation to go change the fucking song. At the time I didn't see much harm in it but I think it was a bit of a subconscious attempt for her to not hook up with me so she wouldn't be a slut. I let her go change the song and now she's sitting down in the chair and won't come out of it again.
If I could do it over again I would've told her "fuck the music this is way better" and then throw her on the bed and attack her passionately.
We talk and this that and the other for a minute. The conversation is very platonic and I'm getting pissed that I can't find a way to change the vibe back and escalate things more sexually.
She then gets a series of texts apparently from her friend who is meeting her at the bar we just came from and is expecting her to be there when she gets there.
I get her mind off that and get her back on my bed. We start kissing again but she keeps persistently bringing up her friend. I tell her it's cool and we'll leave shortly but she keeps pestering about it to the point where it's fucking annoying.
I figure to cut my losses and take responsibility that I should've moved faster once I got her home. I drive her back to the club and it's 9 oclock when we get there.
I party till about 2 that night. I got a lot of attraction from a lot of girls last night but nothing lined up logistically to pull again.
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Key Take Away's
1. When moving as fast as possible don't overly intterrupt the pace of moving fast. In my mind once she got home it was time to chill and take my time in the seduction but in reality it would've been better to keep things fast paced and passionate as they started.
2. If a escalation opportunity presents itself once bouncing a girl home take the first one that comes despite any other trivial plans. Be dominant and decisive just as you have been. The reason you brought her home was to fuck so if she's displaying even a smidgen of horniness it's best to take it when it comes.
3. Keep the conversation sexual and not platonic since it kills the vibe. I need to figure out a way to keep conversation sexual once in the bedroom prior to escalation.
That's really about it. I'm proud I was able to bounce her back to my place that fast and hit all the escalation windows except the last one but I'm pissed I was unable to close out the last 5%.
Gonna hit this shit next time!
As always keep it pimpin
-Rob
