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What’s up guys; I had a question about something regarding gym game.
I talked about how I’ve come back recently to my gym in my old city after being gone for like 6 or 7 months (in a small post here viewtopic.php?f=27&t=10625) and have put on a couple lbs more muscle, and a fair bit more strength and I guess look different than when I last left.
I go to this gym 2 or 3 days a week during the day, and train at a time where it’s largely empty save for a lot of older cougar women with fake tits and stuff. It’s a nice environment to train in I suppose (different from a more hardcore setting and having friends or roided out dudes around you).
Maybe I got more attractive in the last 6 months (or maybe am just more of a cocky shit or whatever) but I’ll come at this time and train and have all the women checking me out semi-quietly but intensely doing my powerlifting workout squatting and deadlifting hundreds of lbs.
Some of them I know personally might look at me and share a wave or smile or maybe come train near me and then say hi to me or something; anyway all that’s chill because it gives me good preselection at the gym. These women are hot milfs, but with kids and husbands and I’m fairly convinced that they won’t fuck me (just from how brief interactions and other shit will go with them); this place ends up kind of the oasis type place chase talked about regarding sexual marketplace where: barrier of entry seems low and in fact it seems like you have no competition and all these hot women, who find you attractive check you out, talk to you, flirt with you, smile and talk to their girlfriends looking at you and shit… but they won’t fuck you! And in fact it is all kind of a mirage in that sense.
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My question:
So at this gym there are older women who are like 30 plus 40 plus cougars; who before I used to think that wow they’re into me, oh man I could totally fuck them. Now I understand reactions vs. results a bit better and know that haha, it’s not that simple buddy; and that all I can be is kind of eye candy and not much else likely.
Then at the gym there are other girls who are nearer my age and more attainable I suppose. These are chicks who are I’d say 23-27, pretty chill cause I can pass for like 24 or 25 now (from what girls I meet tell me).
My question is that I notice some chicks checking me out when I train, these chicks who are same age group. From milfs talking to me, or checking me out, or fucking talking about me lustily behind my back, I know I get some fucking pre selection (lol).
But when I catch these younger girls checking me out, I don’t know if I can go for an immediate approach like meet their eye hold it and gesture to them to come to me (or I go to them) and meet them like that. Reason being it’s kind of bit too direct and overt in the gym.
Usually my approach here is indirect: I get done doing a set, look up see a young chick looking at me, notice her looking, then I look away or she looks away, or eye contact holds for a second but then one of us breaks it (usually me); if it doesn’t hold sometimes I will go and work in with them or a machine next to them, or much of the time they’ll magically show up next to me or orbit around me and do the same: and then I can do a set, open indirectly or casually, and meet them and go from that.
My question though, is that is there a way of going direct right when they see me, and just balling the fuck out then, and going for it overtly, that wouldn’t put pressure on the girl? Some of these girls I don’t get to go and do the indirect approach because they go away or do their set quickly or whatever and we just don’t end up next to each other for long enough time.
Some of these girls I notice look at me but I can’t just go and say “hey I see you fucking checking me out, I caught you; what’s your name?” (like I can elsewhere) because it would be too much pressure for them and attention getting in the gym a bit which is also bad for me and my reputation and preselection in the social circle.
Is there a way to more smoothly but ideally go direct here. Or maybe a different way of going for these approaches?
Curious on what you guys think or if you have any ideas or suggestions at the very least.
Thanks and cheers,
-Gem
I talked about how I’ve come back recently to my gym in my old city after being gone for like 6 or 7 months (in a small post here viewtopic.php?f=27&t=10625) and have put on a couple lbs more muscle, and a fair bit more strength and I guess look different than when I last left.
I go to this gym 2 or 3 days a week during the day, and train at a time where it’s largely empty save for a lot of older cougar women with fake tits and stuff. It’s a nice environment to train in I suppose (different from a more hardcore setting and having friends or roided out dudes around you).
Maybe I got more attractive in the last 6 months (or maybe am just more of a cocky shit or whatever) but I’ll come at this time and train and have all the women checking me out semi-quietly but intensely doing my powerlifting workout squatting and deadlifting hundreds of lbs.
Some of them I know personally might look at me and share a wave or smile or maybe come train near me and then say hi to me or something; anyway all that’s chill because it gives me good preselection at the gym. These women are hot milfs, but with kids and husbands and I’m fairly convinced that they won’t fuck me (just from how brief interactions and other shit will go with them); this place ends up kind of the oasis type place chase talked about regarding sexual marketplace where: barrier of entry seems low and in fact it seems like you have no competition and all these hot women, who find you attractive check you out, talk to you, flirt with you, smile and talk to their girlfriends looking at you and shit… but they won’t fuck you! And in fact it is all kind of a mirage in that sense.
______
My question:
So at this gym there are older women who are like 30 plus 40 plus cougars; who before I used to think that wow they’re into me, oh man I could totally fuck them. Now I understand reactions vs. results a bit better and know that haha, it’s not that simple buddy; and that all I can be is kind of eye candy and not much else likely.
Then at the gym there are other girls who are nearer my age and more attainable I suppose. These are chicks who are I’d say 23-27, pretty chill cause I can pass for like 24 or 25 now (from what girls I meet tell me).
My question is that I notice some chicks checking me out when I train, these chicks who are same age group. From milfs talking to me, or checking me out, or fucking talking about me lustily behind my back, I know I get some fucking pre selection (lol).
But when I catch these younger girls checking me out, I don’t know if I can go for an immediate approach like meet their eye hold it and gesture to them to come to me (or I go to them) and meet them like that. Reason being it’s kind of bit too direct and overt in the gym.
Usually my approach here is indirect: I get done doing a set, look up see a young chick looking at me, notice her looking, then I look away or she looks away, or eye contact holds for a second but then one of us breaks it (usually me); if it doesn’t hold sometimes I will go and work in with them or a machine next to them, or much of the time they’ll magically show up next to me or orbit around me and do the same: and then I can do a set, open indirectly or casually, and meet them and go from that.
My question though, is that is there a way of going direct right when they see me, and just balling the fuck out then, and going for it overtly, that wouldn’t put pressure on the girl? Some of these girls I don’t get to go and do the indirect approach because they go away or do their set quickly or whatever and we just don’t end up next to each other for long enough time.
Some of these girls I notice look at me but I can’t just go and say “hey I see you fucking checking me out, I caught you; what’s your name?” (like I can elsewhere) because it would be too much pressure for them and attention getting in the gym a bit which is also bad for me and my reputation and preselection in the social circle.
Is there a way to more smoothly but ideally go direct here. Or maybe a different way of going for these approaches?
Curious on what you guys think or if you have any ideas or suggestions at the very least.
Thanks and cheers,
-Gem
