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Hi all - I've been in a semi-drought since November (only regularly sleeping with 1 girl) so this was a needed confidence boost.
Was recently just doing daygame but after some dates, bad weather and temporarily leaving London to stay with family I picked up online again.
Ending a drought
If you've read my posts you know I'm big on momentum. Even just platonic social momentum to get the juices flowing. This is what helps me end droughts:
0.1 Decide if this is a "structural" drought or "lack of action" drought. If you're volunteering in a remote refugee camp for 6 months your chances of getting laid no matter what you do are slim to none. That's structural. I put living in a small town with your parents in this category too. If it's "lack of action" drought follow the steps.
1. Buy at least 1 new outfit. Sounds basic but getting a new sexy outfit & haircut does wonders for a man's confidence
2. Become a "yes" man and go to all social invites
3. Put in large numbers. None of this message or approach 1 girl a day BS. If you're in daygame hit up x4 girls a day 5 days a week whether you feel like it or not. You're in drought mode and this is what will get you out of it. If you're in online you need to be on multiple apps messaging tons of girls consistently
4. Work smart and hard. I found ways to automate swiping / online dating and may write a post on it. When on apps or messaging girls be selective and quickly qualify out those who live too far away, are time wasters or just not available.
How I got this easy quick lay - carve a niche
With online dating 80% of your success is pictures. Before I left London for 2 few weeks I spent money on a new haircut and professional Airbnb photoshoot. Then while at my family's place I selected x2 good pictures and made short profile bio's that hinted at the kind of guy I am.
-The hints were my star sign
-Myers Briggs personality type (girls who are into this... Are really fucking into it x2 horoscope effect)
-The fact I can make cocktails as a former bartender
This was important for this lay as she opened me saying:
Bumble Girl: "Fellow ENFP! What would you say about spontaneous adventure for pornstar martini's?"
**Now this seems easy but can still be messed up. From here you want to progress things but not be overly keen**
DWW: I'm always down for an adventure... My only condition is that you teach me Nepali, When you free this weekend?"
**Nepali references to how she knows a random language on her bio and shows that I want investment from her too. Down for an adventure shows I know what's up without being thirsty. When you free this weekend is then me progressing the interaction to show I'm serious in a socially graceful way.
Bumble Girl: "Would it be too much if I said tonight?"
**DING DING DING - Green fucking light**
DWW: Sure I could come over from 9pm onwards
What's your address?
From there it was a case of exchanging numbers and confirming exact times as we lived 20 minutes away from each other
This is a classic example of law of least effort and spezzatura. Looking at this lay came you'd think it was "effortless" but really it was x3 the effort of what most guys are willing to do but invested in the right place. I.E Spend your time on being attractive vs chasing 1 particular girl.
The Girl
English shorter than me brunette with blue eyes (classic DWW territory) with a small hooped nose piercing. Don't know if it's just me but I love a hooped piercing. The girls who rock it tends to be freaks too.
She was Dressed really casually with light blue jeans and a olive jumper. Body was slim and when were naked a lot more curvy than expected ( in a good way).
I was dressed in a grey knitted jumper, Brown suede shearling jacket, denim blue jeans with all white trainers and socks.
My cologne was "creed aventus" I shouldn't give out such trade secrets but fuck me do women love that scent.
My accessory was a small golden pendant with a circle North East South West that tends to get comments.
The Date Itself
>> Not much to learn here to be honest. It was just not fucking up game. I came round with ingredients for a pornstar martini cocktail
>> I was in the position of leader as I directed her on how to make it. I added sexual undertones while feeding her the spoon to try the drink and just generally being touchy feely. Also first kissed her about 20 minutes in. Wasn't the smoothest as I was like " I've wanted to kiss you since I got here" but got the job done.
>> If a girl is confident enough to invite me straight to her house, she knows what's up and is pretty sexually liberated lol.
>> Barely even deep dived but just had chit chat about where she's from, family background etc.
>> Lot of fun jokes and puns to just set a good vibe. E.g. Self deprecating when she said she loved the drinks we made & me saying I'm glad that could have been awkward". Also very big on facial expressions and responding without talking in an animated way is my personal style.
>> DHV I was at a party the night before that got shut down by the police, one of the guests took a group of us to an after-party to his bar that he owns in central London and gave us free drinks all night. I got back to mine at 4am because I was trying to get a sexyyyyyyy Persian girl who was friendly but I mis-read as flirty. I came on a little too strong with Persian and despite this lay I'm still a bit upset it didn't work out with her lol. Anyway.
Had 4 hours sleep & was up at 8am to get to my 9am 2nd job which was brutal. Fast forward it's 2 am & I'm smoking on the balcony with a random girl I've just met thinking I need to get to sleep because my I'm seeing my main girl later.
The Sex
We were definitely compatible. Lots of laughs and touching. Quickly worked out what she liked by gauging her reaction between different strokes and ended up making her cum early on.
It had been 2 weeks' since I masturbated or had sex so when we 1st started I knew it would be bad news and I'd cum too quickly. I gave her a couple strokes then stopped and said "I need a toilet which is why I'm being weird... I was trying to ignore it". To then hold frame I gave a few strokes in the way I could tell she liked then stopped and whispered in her ear, "that's all you get for now". Before pulling out, she lost it and said nooo give me a bit more and grabbed my dick. I repeated the tease then went to her toilet.
I quickly blew a load in the toilet before returning and the crisis was averted. Luckily I don't really have problem with getting back up so use with caution lol.
We had a smoke after - before I had sex with her again. She said I could stay round but I politely declined. I did accept her making me mozzarella cheese, tomato and pesto though which was super cool of her aha.
Quick Prediction
If I manage to sleep with her again in the next week or so I could see her being part of a rotation but time will tell.
Either way...Life is good
Was recently just doing daygame but after some dates, bad weather and temporarily leaving London to stay with family I picked up online again.
Ending a drought
If you've read my posts you know I'm big on momentum. Even just platonic social momentum to get the juices flowing. This is what helps me end droughts:
0.1 Decide if this is a "structural" drought or "lack of action" drought. If you're volunteering in a remote refugee camp for 6 months your chances of getting laid no matter what you do are slim to none. That's structural. I put living in a small town with your parents in this category too. If it's "lack of action" drought follow the steps.
1. Buy at least 1 new outfit. Sounds basic but getting a new sexy outfit & haircut does wonders for a man's confidence
2. Become a "yes" man and go to all social invites
3. Put in large numbers. None of this message or approach 1 girl a day BS. If you're in daygame hit up x4 girls a day 5 days a week whether you feel like it or not. You're in drought mode and this is what will get you out of it. If you're in online you need to be on multiple apps messaging tons of girls consistently
4. Work smart and hard. I found ways to automate swiping / online dating and may write a post on it. When on apps or messaging girls be selective and quickly qualify out those who live too far away, are time wasters or just not available.
How I got this easy quick lay - carve a niche
With online dating 80% of your success is pictures. Before I left London for 2 few weeks I spent money on a new haircut and professional Airbnb photoshoot. Then while at my family's place I selected x2 good pictures and made short profile bio's that hinted at the kind of guy I am.
-The hints were my star sign
-Myers Briggs personality type (girls who are into this... Are really fucking into it x2 horoscope effect)
-The fact I can make cocktails as a former bartender
This was important for this lay as she opened me saying:
Bumble Girl: "Fellow ENFP! What would you say about spontaneous adventure for pornstar martini's?"
**Now this seems easy but can still be messed up. From here you want to progress things but not be overly keen**
DWW: I'm always down for an adventure... My only condition is that you teach me Nepali, When you free this weekend?"
**Nepali references to how she knows a random language on her bio and shows that I want investment from her too. Down for an adventure shows I know what's up without being thirsty. When you free this weekend is then me progressing the interaction to show I'm serious in a socially graceful way.
Bumble Girl: "Would it be too much if I said tonight?"
**DING DING DING - Green fucking light**
DWW: Sure I could come over from 9pm onwards
What's your address?From there it was a case of exchanging numbers and confirming exact times as we lived 20 minutes away from each other
This is a classic example of law of least effort and spezzatura. Looking at this lay came you'd think it was "effortless" but really it was x3 the effort of what most guys are willing to do but invested in the right place. I.E Spend your time on being attractive vs chasing 1 particular girl.
The Girl
English shorter than me brunette with blue eyes (classic DWW territory) with a small hooped nose piercing. Don't know if it's just me but I love a hooped piercing. The girls who rock it tends to be freaks too.
She was Dressed really casually with light blue jeans and a olive jumper. Body was slim and when were naked a lot more curvy than expected ( in a good way).
I was dressed in a grey knitted jumper, Brown suede shearling jacket, denim blue jeans with all white trainers and socks.
My cologne was "creed aventus" I shouldn't give out such trade secrets but fuck me do women love that scent.
My accessory was a small golden pendant with a circle North East South West that tends to get comments.
The Date Itself
>> Not much to learn here to be honest. It was just not fucking up game. I came round with ingredients for a pornstar martini cocktail
>> I was in the position of leader as I directed her on how to make it. I added sexual undertones while feeding her the spoon to try the drink and just generally being touchy feely. Also first kissed her about 20 minutes in. Wasn't the smoothest as I was like " I've wanted to kiss you since I got here" but got the job done.
>> If a girl is confident enough to invite me straight to her house, she knows what's up and is pretty sexually liberated lol.
>> Barely even deep dived but just had chit chat about where she's from, family background etc.
>> Lot of fun jokes and puns to just set a good vibe. E.g. Self deprecating when she said she loved the drinks we made & me saying I'm glad that could have been awkward". Also very big on facial expressions and responding without talking in an animated way is my personal style.
>> DHV I was at a party the night before that got shut down by the police, one of the guests took a group of us to an after-party to his bar that he owns in central London and gave us free drinks all night. I got back to mine at 4am because I was trying to get a sexyyyyyyy Persian girl who was friendly but I mis-read as flirty. I came on a little too strong with Persian and despite this lay I'm still a bit upset it didn't work out with her lol. Anyway.
Had 4 hours sleep & was up at 8am to get to my 9am 2nd job which was brutal. Fast forward it's 2 am & I'm smoking on the balcony with a random girl I've just met thinking I need to get to sleep because my I'm seeing my main girl later.
The Sex
We were definitely compatible. Lots of laughs and touching. Quickly worked out what she liked by gauging her reaction between different strokes and ended up making her cum early on.
It had been 2 weeks' since I masturbated or had sex so when we 1st started I knew it would be bad news and I'd cum too quickly. I gave her a couple strokes then stopped and said "I need a toilet which is why I'm being weird... I was trying to ignore it". To then hold frame I gave a few strokes in the way I could tell she liked then stopped and whispered in her ear, "that's all you get for now". Before pulling out, she lost it and said nooo give me a bit more and grabbed my dick. I repeated the tease then went to her toilet.
I quickly blew a load in the toilet before returning and the crisis was averted. Luckily I don't really have problem with getting back up so use with caution lol.
We had a smoke after - before I had sex with her again. She said I could stay round but I politely declined. I did accept her making me mozzarella cheese, tomato and pesto though which was super cool of her aha.
Quick Prediction
If I manage to sleep with her again in the next week or so I could see her being part of a rotation but time will tell.
Either way...Life is good
