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Saw natural blonde hair, so I approach, initially, she was very receptive to interacting but after like 2mins of interactions, she took a phone call and went back to her "gay best friend" she went back to the dance floor, I then messed around, and approached with a plastic dagger I found, which was apart of someone's costume .... is my tool for opening 
I maybe did 2 approaches on the dance floor.1 was immediate blow out, attention whoring for me, caught by her fake approach invitiation. other was me winging and she was decently receptive but couldn't talk cause of the volume but had playful backforth, so mehhh.
I enjoyed the music for about 15mins and went to the bar area with lower volume playing, this is where i found my reapproach opportunity, where she was on her phone
*** gay friends/ people who are friends with gay people, are usually pretty opened minded***
later in 15-25minute, I see her again, I reapproached, and she was super receptive to me, and asked me for XXXX,
"no, I have alcohol at my place"
"ok we can go"
**quick pull**
"walk straight for me"
(test for drunkness if she was sloppy, "drugged", she would not be an option for me), she passed
mid-way she asked if this a safe we are going to, I assured her that it was and she could leave anytime then we continued walking
girl: "are we going to your place, can you drive?"
me: "I'm not driving, I live right here"
girl: "ok"
during the hand clasp, I squeezed her hand and she did it back, so I know she was primed and ready for me
after we got inside, she closed the door behind us ( this is a pretty key sign that she was opened and *not tricked* into coming)
I fed her some water, boom boom then took a shower together then I called a taxi for her
yeah, she was conscious all throughout the interaction, green light
around 8 approaches total
I did 1 mistake holding the girls hand and letting our bouncers seeing this shit, I need to catch myself to do less and less of its, very dangerous as I've come to realize for your reputation
verbal gambits have not been my strong suit, so I most of the time i resort to faster verbal escalation, emotion spiking, calibration, frame control and move!!! For gambits to be deploy i need to venue search for that paradise
I maybe did 2 approaches on the dance floor.1 was immediate blow out, attention whoring for me, caught by her fake approach invitiation. other was me winging and she was decently receptive but couldn't talk cause of the volume but had playful backforth, so mehhh.
I enjoyed the music for about 15mins and went to the bar area with lower volume playing, this is where i found my reapproach opportunity, where she was on her phone
*** gay friends/ people who are friends with gay people, are usually pretty opened minded***
later in 15-25minute, I see her again, I reapproached, and she was super receptive to me, and asked me for XXXX,
"no, I have alcohol at my place"
"ok we can go"
**quick pull**
"walk straight for me"
(test for drunkness if she was sloppy, "drugged", she would not be an option for me), she passed
mid-way she asked if this a safe we are going to, I assured her that it was and she could leave anytime then we continued walking
girl: "are we going to your place, can you drive?"
me: "I'm not driving, I live right here"
girl: "ok"
during the hand clasp, I squeezed her hand and she did it back, so I know she was primed and ready for me
after we got inside, she closed the door behind us ( this is a pretty key sign that she was opened and *not tricked* into coming)
I fed her some water, boom boom then took a shower together then I called a taxi for her
yeah, she was conscious all throughout the interaction, green light
around 8 approaches total
I did 1 mistake holding the girls hand and letting our bouncers seeing this shit, I need to catch myself to do less and less of its, very dangerous as I've come to realize for your reputation
verbal gambits have not been my strong suit, so I most of the time i resort to faster verbal escalation, emotion spiking, calibration, frame control and move!!! For gambits to be deploy i need to venue search for that paradise
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