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For those of you not familiar with the concept, an abundance mentality is something Chase references frequently. Essentially, it is the knowledge that women are not a scarce commodity, and that as you advance in your skills they will become increasingly easy to find and attract. You could paraphrase it as "there are plenty of fish in the sea." Developing this mentality will make you more confident, more sexy, less clingy, and will lead to a much higher quality of general life.
I personally have struggled greatly with creating and maintaining an abundance mindset, largely because of social hangups dating back to adolescence. I have a mild case of Aspergers syndrome and was always far behind my peers in social development. Even as I've advanced and in many cases exceeded those around me, I still suffer from some underlying insecurity that have proven difficult to shed.
Anyway, with that long preamble out of the way, the story I wanted to share is this:
Recently I was dating a girl named Katie and a girl named Alexandra and was very happy with my life. Katie was a beautiful actress who wanted to make it big on Broadway, and Alexandra was a cute redhead travel junky that had lived in Australia around the same time I had. After a time things ended with Alexandra in a natural way, but that was alright, because I was getting more and more attached to Katie and saw the potential for a relationship.
Things didnt end up working out and we got in a bad fight where she made it clear she wanted nothing more to do with me, on top of which
she moved to New York.
I was beat up for a few days especially because of the way things ended, but I decided there was no point in moping around and I got back out on the scene. Within two weeks I'd met and slept with a new girl, also named Katie, who I am still currently seeing.
Yesterday I went on my second date with a girl named Alexandra and closed the deal.
So, within the span of about two months, I've gone from having two relationships with girls, to being dumped and single, to being with two completely NEW girls that happen to have the same names.
If that isn't a lesson in Abundance Mentality I dont know what is!
I personally have struggled greatly with creating and maintaining an abundance mindset, largely because of social hangups dating back to adolescence. I have a mild case of Aspergers syndrome and was always far behind my peers in social development. Even as I've advanced and in many cases exceeded those around me, I still suffer from some underlying insecurity that have proven difficult to shed.
Anyway, with that long preamble out of the way, the story I wanted to share is this:
Recently I was dating a girl named Katie and a girl named Alexandra and was very happy with my life. Katie was a beautiful actress who wanted to make it big on Broadway, and Alexandra was a cute redhead travel junky that had lived in Australia around the same time I had. After a time things ended with Alexandra in a natural way, but that was alright, because I was getting more and more attached to Katie and saw the potential for a relationship.
Things didnt end up working out and we got in a bad fight where she made it clear she wanted nothing more to do with me, on top of which
she moved to New York.
I was beat up for a few days especially because of the way things ended, but I decided there was no point in moping around and I got back out on the scene. Within two weeks I'd met and slept with a new girl, also named Katie, who I am still currently seeing.
Yesterday I went on my second date with a girl named Alexandra and closed the deal.
So, within the span of about two months, I've gone from having two relationships with girls, to being dumped and single, to being with two completely NEW girls that happen to have the same names.
If that isn't a lesson in Abundance Mentality I dont know what is!
